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This post is about how friendship and love changes it's meanings in different situations .
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Ram has given his friendship to Juhi with his true heart and consider her as a good friend similarly as he considers Neha and Vikram as his friends and shares each and every thing with them and that's why shared every thing with her since last 7 years, but the lady does not know the meaning of friendship and considered it as love . In spite of being grateful to her she is blaming Priya without even realizing that only because of her she is leading a good life in which she is having every thing , money power and most important a family; She is has not even thought that because of priya only Ram allowed her to stay in KM and Ram considered her as a friend because she was priya's friend and for priya's sake only and after recommending by her only Ram has given her the one of the prestigious job position in KI, on the name of priya only and on name of helping priya in comatise state and her family only she goes successful in earning everyone's love from family members, It's Priya and Ram who has given her such and fame and let her to lead a prideful life , but she has forgotten all Raya's friendships and help and she has put up the black scar on friendship .This is none other than betray of friendship with Raya. She is not even thinking that how Ram loves Priya and his happiness lies only being with her .She needs to understand that their is difference between love and friendship , if someone shares everything with you as a friend and love someone else then do respect that love and understand that persons feelings for whom he loves.
Similarly Sammy and pihu shared each and every thing with each other ...but again pihu has putted their friendship aside and only want to win sammy . She is also not seeing that how much Sammy is sad and upset because of his love not being with her, even knowing that sammy had lost his first love ( as sammy says that his first love is pam whom he loved in teenage) and he has not forgotten that till now also and even now he gets upset because of that incidence and after that now he again fallen in love and start believing in love once more...pihu wants that sammy should leave his love for her. She has putted their friendship aside and wants only sammy ...she is not even thinking that how much he has changed and how his behavior has changed towards her...earlier he shares every thing with pihu but now he is not able to do that. In all this their friendship has got damaged. She also needs to understand that their is difference between love and friendship , if someone shares everything with you as a friend and love someone else then do respect that love and understand that persons feelings for whom he loves.
If someone is sharing something with you as a friend that doesn't mean that he loves you , his love can be some one else, whom he has given his heart and wants to share his life.
Friendship and Love both are different and these both relationship have different positions in a person's life.
But again the fault is Sammy and Suhani's ; as they both have fallen in love but does not have courage to accept the same love in front of world; when they both know that they both love each other and their love is not one sided or is incorrect or mere infatuation; they are lovers and sometimes the lovers do have to stand all alone facing the whole world...if they are not accepting their love in front of others ...they are only proving that how week their love is , If they think that their love is correct and not wrong or it's not mere infatuation but they are in actual love then they have to stand for their love...Their is immaturity in them and that's why they are taking immature decisions. All three Sammy, Pihu and Suhani are using friendship in a very wrong way.All three are betraying the relationship called friendship.
Love is not only falling for someone but to accept the same in front of others ...if your love is correct and is not harming others then the lovers have to stand for their love infront of world.
As for juhi's so called love , she has putted blind fold on her eyes ...and is unable to see that Ram's happiness is only and only priya ...and because of her so called love she has even lost Ram's friendship and when others come to know about her true intentions and how she wants to be with Ram despite of the fact that she is married to sid and after knowing very well that Ram does not love her and he loves only priya ...when others come to know about this and her actions , she will not only loose Priya's friendship but Ram's also and Vikram neha's too , infact other family members will break their relationship with her. This will not only damage her relationship with others but it will also finish her pride and all respect as a woman and she herself will be responsible for this.She is not only betraying their friendship but also the love that is got from all whether it's love of a family or a friend , she is betraying everyone.
Vikram and Neha are proved to be good friends with heart of gold and anyone will desire their friendship.Sometimes it's good to help people ...Kush was all alone and left by his biological parents and then Raya has given him life and meaning to his life, Suhani also knows the importance of family and that's why does not want to hurt Raya, Cady is helped by Rajat, Daija and Priya and today she knew very well the importance of relationships and is grateful to them who helped her. These people know the meaning of Love , help and relationships.
But some people doesn't know the meaning of help and relationships ...for them only their happiness is most important in their life whether others are happy or not and for this they can even destroy the true relationships and friendships , even they can harm the same person to whom they consider they love them the most. But in that case this is not Love but only an obsession ...an obsession that this thing is only mine ...whether it's correct or not but they just want to win that thing at any cost.
Sometimes , heart says to help others whether afterwards they are grateful to you or not ...its your duty to help other as a humanity ...sometimes it seems scary to help others as the thoughts comes in mind that they will you only in return of your help.
Because of some people , sometimes others people who really need help and will not do any harm in return are also get neglected by help providers as they will set a thought in mind and in heart that in return of their help and love those people will harm them only .
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