I wish no one gets a daughter like pakhi!

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@Sweet_Krishna

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Nothing is wrong with Pakhi. Pakhi was brought up by Kamla since her infanthood. It is very natural for a baby to get attached to his/her wet nurse who not only has breastfed the kid but even provided her every possible a kid needed in case the real mother did not attend him/her.

There are many parents like Neetu who think riches alone can bring up a kid. They do not have time to devote to their kids but find time for lazy, leisure antics.These lazy fellows require always a maid at a hand's distance for basic daily routines.

Moreover, Neetu always favored Prem. Pakhi has found unconditional love from Kamla and she despite of Neetu's maneuvers against Kamla never abandoned her because of her lowly status.

Neetu needs to work on her behavior rather than showing up fake demeanor and being thankless and condescending towards Kamla all the time.

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skar1984

@skar1984

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Posted: 11 years ago

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@sweet_krishna: You've pretty much taken the words out of my mouth. Kudos to you!

A few thoughts related to this topic but more so about Pakhi's demeanor...

I've been following EMA since its inception, for those of you who have been following the show from day one - we've seen Neetu's attitude towards people in general - all she's really concerned about is herself - her activities be it going to kitty parties or making appearances at social gatherings or keeping up an image of Sahil Kapoor's philanthropist wife (she'd make a big fuss over the donations they give to various causes) but we all could see she'd only do this to be known or to maintain an image in public.

So now cutting to Neetu as a mother to Pakhi - she's hardly spent any time with Pakhi - right from when Pakhi was a baby - she was quite careless and easily frustrated with Pakhi the baby... there was no motherly quality about her that I could see - it was almost like the children were just another requirement of her public image... she didn't seem to have any particular interest in the kids per se - she'd only react when her carelessness or disdainful attitude were to get exposed in front of members of her family or others (eg getting mad when Kamla corrected Pakhi's exact age during that dinner party - she felt like she was getting up-staged)

Children are innocent and like clay - they mold as they are molded... more importantly they respond to the language of love - Kamla showered Pakhi with all the care, attention and love she possibly could (that is another topic all together) but point being when ever Pakhi needed a mother figure or presence - she found that or received that from Kamla... Kamla never stopped Neetu from being a mother to Pakhi - Neetu just wasn't patient or willing enough to invest the needed time and energy to do so... now she blames Kamla for taking her daughter away... not true Neetu - your reluctance to spend time or be patient with Pakhi pushed her further away...

I think Neetu and Kamla both have their flaws when it comes to nurturing Pakhi... Neetu didn't try hard enough and Kamla didn't know where to draw the line... Pakhi really shouldn't be blamed here - she's the product of her 2 pseudo mothers... if Pakhi doesn't give Neetu the respect and care Neetu thinks she deserves for giving birth to her - Neetu is partly to blame for that - she wasn't really a proper Mother to Pakhi... she hasn't earned that position in Pakhi's life. If Pakhi cares more for her wet nurse than her biological mother - its probably cause she got the Motherly love and care that a child needs from Kamla...Kamla essentially earned that place in Pakhi's life...

Over all I think Pakhi is a good person - she's much more compassionate and caring than any of the other Kapoors - probably cause she has spent so much time with Kamla and visited the chawl and sees how people outside the Kapoor Mansion live...

I'm going to have to disagree with one of the member's comments on this thread where they stated Pakhi is living on Kapoor Money but back bites about them... she hasn't really done anything to demonstrate that... if we're talking about her taking the chawl papers to Kamla - her intentions were good - she's trying to undo the evil her family is planning - towards Kamla's chawl... again Pakhi is showing her care, concern and compassion despite being a Kapoor - that would be Kamla's credit that she see's people in trouble and wants to help...if being rich makes that easier then thats a bonus..

Just my thoughts guys - not trying to offend anyone here...

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call me- East

@eastmeetswest

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

okay I agree that pakhi should not be disrespectful to parents but to blame her for everything else is unjust , if that is the case why not blame kamla for pakhi behavior, she has been the role model for pakhi hence pak learnt things from her right? why doesn't kamla remind pak about her misbehavior to her mother. one can easily say that kamla is to be blamed for pak attitude if kamla had such great influence on her everything should have rub off on pak , jus my p o v.

btw the raghav situation, pak is simply immature but I still prefer her for raghav although I know they would never make the show that way..

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

I don't hate Pakhi. However, she is extremely ill mannered to her Mother and that is wrong no matter what type of person her Mother is. Children get cursed for that, no matter what.

I agree with Pakhi not supporting her family in the wrong, that is good of her. On the other hand, she needs to handle the situation without being so disrespectful, but nothing wrong with standing up to them. They are so many ways she can show them the right path but still love them in spite of, they are her parents no matter what.

Her parents are not even abusing her, for you to understand the contempt she has shown since childhood towards her Mother.

In a sense, if she behaves like this with her Mother, is she truly a good girl? Not saying she is evil per say, but something to think about. If Kamla Ma raised her so well, she should have known it is wrong to disrespect your elders worse of all your Real Mother.

Kamla is really a piece of work, but that is another story.

Many people have worse Mothers than Pakhi and they never show such disrespect or hate.

Just my Point of View.

Edited by dumppurvi - 11 years ago

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Bossqueen

@Brokengirl

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

I find nothing wrong with Pakhi's behaviour. It is very easy to make comments but trying living in that person's shoes. You will not feel the same way you feel now.

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merrydock

@merrydock

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: RAMKIARCHU
Initially i used to like pakhi very much, but now i just hate her, she is such a bitch! I have never seen a daughter disrespecting her own mother so much for a servent, i feel so sorry for neetu, i dont understand why cant the kapoors just disown pakhi as their daughter, let her come and live in the chawl and see what kind of a life this people live, i bet she will come back in two days and realize what her parents have given her, a girl who cant live without an AC, will never be able to adjust in chawl, she eats with the kapoors money and speaks high of kamla bai, this is ridiculous! The day she did theft in her own house, that changed my whole opinion about her. How can she even think of topping the university after being a failure student. I feel she doesnt deserve pakhya either, he is too good for her, she deserves a drunked man who will torture her to death, such children only deserve like this life. She is only born to destroy everybodys life, first her family, then kamla then raghav , kalpi and pakhya. I prefer being childless than having like this child, bitch.

shame on you for thinking the every child should support their parents and family no matter what even if they are in the wrong. so what if Neetu gave her birth, she does not even love her own daughter to call her by her given name. Neetu never cared for pakhi, Pakhi is a young woman who understands the difference between right and wrong. making 100 people homeless is wrong. and pakhi is doing the right thing by not supporting her family in their miss deed. it takes great courage to stand against your family and friends when they do wrong things.

and that is why we should salute Pakhi for siding with the downtrodden, and oppressed against her own family. anybody can fight for their own. but it takes great courage to stand against you own people to do what is right.

Pakhi has heart. and kamala maa values

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