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Today I was seeing the show more as Anand the main protagonist ,whose journey is defined,whose development of character is well scripted with direction. The main characters can be others ,all of them will go through development but they may play the part in anand's journey than the other way round.
The journey's way is - from anand getting married not out of his excitement or wish but you can say as if its a rule . I mean In age of 3/5 you have to go to school , After 12 graduation then job and then marriage like that. From there ,journey continues to see your wife as your ardhangini(a part of you ) and then accepting her as jiwansathi(life partner).
If we have to define this mess,the issues between anand and kittu ,then we can say that kittu wants to be life partner while anand wants ardhangini. With which expectations ,with which roles,with which eyes he sees kittu ,may be like:
1) a part of him(in bad sense): He thinks of her as a part of him. When sthing bad happens ,when there Are issues in family and kittu does have a link,he feels fingers are being pointed at him.
Now kittu expects him to not snatch the rights of being a part of his family in return.
2)a part of him(in good sense): she has become just not a part but an important part of him. When they were showing the flashbacks,note the order of people. It was not her mother,her sister or jess but kittu,her hurt face,her words that made him accept the mistake.
Since last two days if kittu is sad then so do he . It did take time to come out of his ego but he chose kittu over ego.
3) Target of his anger: this is interesting. He wants her to be his punching bag. Kittu was becoming until now but now she wants to be his punching back instead of bag. Beware shraddha, you can be his punching bag no. 2.
I mean last time when kittu gave back(when he left her in her home) ,he came back and lashed at shraddha. Shraddha was and is available before kittu but kittu is bag no 1 so how could he snatch the right of no 1 From kittu ,right anand?
Misti sorry for using your word but listening to his dialogue 'tum ab bhi bahas kar rahi ho' ,i couldn't think of a better word than 'punching bag'. I mean bag is supposed to listen whatever he says not say back. His words of 'i was thinking to bring you back,i thought i did wrong to you' are supposed to take as a great gesture of him. Mr Anand, if you have realized then aren't you doing the same mistake again?
From story point of view,am happy that they showed him accepting his mistake owise it may come out as bad on his character. And its good that it didn't get used in bringing kittu back bcoz if she had then a situation come and he would have ended up using her as target of anger again. So this track would have gone in vain in developing the character.

Kittu:
I don't know if its first time she is taking the words from face value or she has habit.but if its first time:
The scene of kittu reminded me of words written for girl. When a girl(basically a dreamy girl instead of practical) gets hurt by a person's words to whom those dreams were linked, then she starts scratching on those words to get maximum hurt,to make her wounds more fresh . The way she was repeating his dialogues suggested me this. That person may say 'leave me alone' but the words are for that moment but for girl,she feels unwanted in his life. At that time she forgets to see the nice moments she shared with him.
The solution is time and peacefull environment which she is not getting here due to presence of her mom.
I hope this track brings the development in her character also where we should not take words as just from face value . Stimes they are linked to moments instead of the feelings of the person.

Sorry for being so very late.I was not at home and couldn't login IF through cellphone.
Although I was going to talk about shraddha-kunal relation but I thought there is one interaction coming in a few minutes so thought to add their analysis in todays's epi.looking forward for your views.They means a lot to me...

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MADHU.BARUN thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anki is my favorite more than shranal and you have described them extraordinarily! Very nice post
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agree.. but not fully.. he has his reasons of lashing out at Kittu.. cause she has let him down many a times because of her lack of judgement and emotional decisions... she does not value her husband and is always looking out for the happiness of here nanand and her family members brother in this case or in laws in most other cases.. the crux of flaw in their relation is that Kittu does not stand by Anand thru his decisions and same for Anand.. he could not stand up for Kittu as he did not agree to her decisions.. Anand is practical. Kittu is emotional.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Ekta--

Today I was seeing the show more as Anand the main protagonist ,whose journey is defined,whose development of character is well scripted with direction. The main characters can be others ,all of them will go through development but they may play the part in anand's journey than the other way round.
The journey's way is - from anand getting married not out of his excitement or wish but you can say as if its a rule . I mean In age of 3/5 you have to go to school , After 12 graduation then job and then marriage like that. From there ,journey continues to see your wife as your ardhangini(a part of you ) and then accepting her as jiwansathi(life partner).
If we have to define this mess,the issues between anand and kittu ,then we can say that kittu wants to be life partner while anand wants ardhangini. With which expectations ,with which roles,with which eyes he sees kittu ,may be like:
1) a part of him(in bad sense): He thinks of her as a part of him. When sthing bad happens ,when there Are issues in family and kittu does have a link,he feels fingers are being pointed at him.
Now kittu expects him to not snatch the rights of being a part of his family in return.
2)a part of him(in good sense): she has become just not a part but an important part of him. When they were showing the flashbacks,note the order of people. It was not her mother,her sister or jess but kittu,her hurt face,her words that made him accept the mistake.
Since last two days if kittu is sad then so do he . It did take time to come out of his ego but he chose kittu over ego.
3) Target of his anger: this is interesting. He wants her to be his punching bag. Kittu was becoming until now but now she wants to be his punching back instead of bag. Beware shraddha, you can be his punching bag no. 2.
I mean last time when kittu gave back(when he left her in her home) ,he came back and lashed at shraddha. Shraddha was and is available before kittu but kittu is bag no 1 so how could he snatch the right of no 1 From kittu ,right anand?
Misti sorry for using your word but listening to his dialogue 'tum ab bhi bahas kar rahi ho' ,i couldn't think of a better word than 'punching bag'. I mean bag is supposed to listen whatever he says not say back. His words of 'i was thinking to bring you back,i thought i did wrong to you' are supposed to take as a great gesture of him. Mr Anand, if you have realized then aren't you doing the same mistake again?
From story point of view,am happy that they showed him accepting his mistake owise it may come out as bad on his character. And its good that it didn't get used in bringing kittu back bcoz if she had then a situation come and he would have ended up using her as target of anger again. So this track would have gone in vain in developing the character.

Kittu:
I don't know if its first time she is taking the words from face value or she has habit.but if its first time:
The scene of kittu reminded me of words written for girl. When a girl(basically a dreamy girl instead of practical) gets hurt by a person's words to whom those dreams were linked, then she starts scratching on those words to get maximum hurt,to make her wounds more fresh . The way she was repeating his dialogues suggested me this. That person may say 'leave me alone' but the words are for that moment but for girl,she feels unwanted in his life. At that time she forgets to see the nice moments she shared with him.
The solution is time and peacefull environment which she is not getting here due to presence of her mom.
I hope this track brings the development in her character also where we should not take words as just from face value . Stimes they are linked to moments instead of the feelings of the person.

Sorry for being so very late.I was not at home and couldn't login IF through cellphone.
Although I was going to talk about shraddha-kunal relation but I thought there is one interaction coming in a few minutes so thought to add their analysis in todays's epi.looking forward for your views.They means a lot to me...



Appreciate how you've delineated Anand's character. 👏
As far as Kittu's analysis is concerned, I couldn't agree more. Kittu needs peace but as long as Kamini is around, one can only hope for some.

Waiting for you to write something about Shraddha and Kunal as well. 😊

Keep writing, Ekta! 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MADHU.BARUN

Anki is my favorite more than shranal and you have described them extraordinarily! Very nice post

thnx for liking.😊
Although there is not of favourite in my views but when I was trying to analyze ,it felt that story is written with them taking others as supporting characters.
Epis to Epis ,the characters who come in light keep changing.For now its your favourite one,so hope you are enjoying.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saanjh5

agree.. but not fully.. he has his reasons of lashing out at Kittu.. cause she has let him down many a times because of her lack of judgement and emotional decisions... she does not value her husband and is always looking out for the happiness of here nanand and her family members brother in this case or in laws in most other cases.. the crux of flaw in their relation is that Kittu does not stand by Anand thru his decisions and same for Anand.. he could not stand up for Kittu as he did not agree to her decisions.. Anand is practical. Kittu is emotional.

I do agree with your last line completely that Kittu is emotional plus with dreams while anand is more practical.So she will have to understand that a world of dreams and a practical world are not exactly same.This harsh reality will sink in her with time and peace .She is getting rude awakening ...
But I can't accept that she doesn't value her husband .It may be just that due to joint family,they couldn't find time to understand each other and make other person tell their views.

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Appreciate how you've delineated Anand's character. 👏
As far as Kittu's analysis is concerned, I couldn't agree more. Kittu needs peace but as long as Kamini is around, one can only hope for some.

Waiting for you to write something about Shraddha and Kunal as well. 😊

Keep writing, Ekta! 😃

thanks .Will hopefully next post will be around shraddha and kunal.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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loved u r analysis,,👏
koi bura nahi hai...problem is sabhi ache hai...
they r not selfish...problem is they love others more than themselves...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: adithyan

loved u r analysis,,👏

koi bura nahi hai...problem is sabhi ache hai...
they r not selfish...problem is they love others more than themselves...

OH THAT is true.
I don't know about members of here but even kamini sometimes may do go overboard which makes you irritated but upto some extent ,she is very real character .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Ekta--

OH THAT is true.
I don't know about members of here but even kamini sometimes may do go overboard which makes you irritated but upto some extent ,she is very real character .

she was realistic..but these days😡

i remember sometimes back in one post we were saying we love Kamini inspite of her bitterness..

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