Love, Respect and Communication!

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Are we more courteous to strangers out of respect for them? Or cause of unfamiliarity?? The more familiarity, bondage, belongingness we feel... the more we love, but does this also lead to less respect for the ones we love? taking them for granted? being overbearing etc.?? Is it strange to feel connected to strangers, but less to your own people/family?? Is it easier to communicate, and put your ideas forth to strangers or even friends than to your closest family/parents? Even your inner-most thoughts? Howcome ? why or why not? which one you prefer?

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Persy

we are courteous to strangers becoz we don't know them, we don't know their likes and dislikes, we don't know what feat would nettle them, what joke would provoke them so we are courteous. the more we know about a person the more we become free with them like your closed ones. how much you are close and how you connect with different types of people depends on what personality you have. there are loners and extroverts. nothing wrong with being loners and extroverts however their interactions with strangers and closed ones will be different. there are certain things you share with your closed ones, there are certain things you share with friends. how much you share depends on you. you behave accordingly to different people's behaviour. with elders you are different, with younger ones you behave differently. the reason? i guess its all dependent on the personality you and others carry 😛

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.. can't wait no more for somebody to come decorate my garden for me.

Here it goes...

Are we more courteous to strangers out of respect for them? Or cause of unfamiliarity??

I think it shows the kind of person you are, you want to beleive in the good ness of others, you are expecting the stranger to be a good person, so giving the benefit of the doubt you show them some respect

The more familiarity, bondage, belongingness we feel... the more we love, but does this also lead to less respect for the ones we love? taking them for granted? being overbearing etc.??

Now that is a firming up on the notion that the stranger is a good person, then you start liking them, it is expectation vs what you are getting, the higher the return, the more you respect that person

Is it strange to feel connected to strangers, but less to your own people/family??

Not really, your culture tells your own people/ family are there for your own good, they are your well wishers, when you find them to the contrary you lose respect for them, at that time you sometimes find strangers are better human being

Is it easier to communicate, and put your ideas forth to strangers or even friends than to your closest family/parents? Even your inner-most thoughts? Howcome ? why or why not?

Many a times, yes, Friends/Close family friends have an expectation off of you, they have a mould for you, sometimes when you are out of the mould they might react negatively, at those times strangers are better to communicate

which one you prefer?

depends on situations😃

All progressive thoughts welcome!😉😆

Persy

Expectations lead to frustrations, no expectations, no frustrations