Marriage- a necessity or compulsion? - Page 2

Well, Preets, let's put it this way, for some people it is a compulsion and for some it's a necessity, and for others it's just plain beautiful!

It's a compulsion for especially some Asian women who are taught that their husband's house is actually there real house and all they should do is please their husbands. Now, marriage becomes a compulsion for them because this is their only way of security and status.

For some, it's a necessity because they don't like to go against the norms of the society or rather they fear what will happen to them when they will get old. Everyone needs a partner so they have to marry.

It's just plain simply beautiful for some because they get to marry the person they wanted to marry and that is simply the best thing that could ever happen to you! Getting to have your loved one in your life forever!

well in india its surely a necessity like u r always being bugged by ur parents to marry till u get married.

and as it is u do need someone in life u just cnt leave alone.

i dont no i would love to get married but only if i loved a person not cos its part of a religion, naina is right when she says that some women do it cos they are told that there husbands house is there real house thats not a reason to get married

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My Dear Friends,
Marriage is the bonding of mutual understandings, love and affections, likes and dislikes, give and take policy.
Be bold, make a commitment, take action, keep doing something everyday to move your dream forward into reality.
Anyone can do this, anywhere, anytime.
Everything is possible.

Look into the realities and lead the life.....Subbu

God made man and women different why...so that the evolution can go on...reproduction...socialised kind of making two people mate is marriage...it is not a compulsion but necessity

marriage is a necessity, if you are young you dont feel that it is a necessity but as you grow older you will like to have someone to share your feelings, one of my cousins she never get married as she was thinking it is not necessary to get married as she is living her life happily, now boht of her parents are not in this world & she is in her late 40's, now she regret her decision as all of her friends & cousins of her age are married & with a family of their own & she is all by herself, now she is thinking about marrying someone no matter if this person is a widower or divorsee with or without children...
as for livein relationship without getting married, I dont think is s good idea, it is not accepted by our society nor by any religion, no matter if its hindu, muslim,sikh or christian....

Marriage is both, a necessity, to conform to societal norms and a compulsion because, most feel they should do it. 😕

Some who see it as both, see that its a bit more as well 😆 Most have the dream of walking down the aisle to a future lit with happiness and love and some also feel that they should marry for the sake of their family, to please parents, some feel thay have to bite the bullet at some time, so without putting much thought or emotion into it, they accept any old proposal that comes their way... sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't.

Marriage is all this, and yet so, so much more... it is about the joining of two souls, the binding of two lifetimes and an uncertain future that you face with someone who loves you and will support you, by your side - if this is what you want to make of it. An expectation of love, is not flighty, it is natural remember What u put in, u will get out. so whether it is a marriage for love or an arranged one, whether it is necessary that u marry or a compulsion, it can also be a bit more if u try.

marriage is very essential as its bonding b/w a husband and wife how much can u stay wth friends and familt at lst u need somebody to be wth u share ur feeling so marriage is very imp in life.