Hi guys,
This is the first, I am posting something here which is not related to Kasam Se.However, it is about relationships. I want to tell you a story, which is true. A friend of mine who got married few years ago. Both, the girl's and his family were friends. However, my friend didn't know the girl very well as he was living in abroad. Both of them got egaged and after sometime they got married. Between the period of egagement and marriage, my friend became comfortable with the girl. They went to honeymoon. My friend told me that it was his biggest mistake to get married. Something really bad happened back there which he didn't tell me. I suggested him that you should give her sometime. After few months, the girl came to live with him. And, in first week my friend find out through her emails that she has a boyfriend, and not just a boyfriend, both to them were already married in some temple back home. Through emails my friend found out that the girl and her boyfriend are planning something that the guy would come here and she'll managed to live the double life as she used to live in India. After this incident, my friend spoke to her just like a normal person and told her what he has found out about her. First she was stunned and then she said that in this we will live as strangers but out of this room we'll act as a husband n wife. You can other relationships, I won't mind and let me live my life as I want. She even said that she wants seperat bank account. My friend told her that he can't live like this and she has to go back as he can't live with her. She said she won't go and if he'll put pressure on her she would go to police and she'll make a case of dowry. As all of you know, how bad it is in abroad. However, some how my friend insisted her and told her he won't her parents about this. She had no choice, she went back to india. After that her parents started calling my friend's house saying they did the wrong thing. They (my friend and his family) should've told at them about the incident before send their daughter back. and said that my friend family is coward. As far as I know, my friend did the right thing. but my decision can biased. What do you guys think? Did he do the right thing?