Onbehalf Madhu Di, I post it here... She asked me to attach some pictures... Hope Di, you like it.. i did my level best with VMs and collages...
I wrote it in story format but wanted to do in OS format..so that one can understand well. do suggest what kinda approach I should give as writing shlok in reality is tedious and confusing as the show is. By my notes here do help me with siggies And Avis of back to back episodes. Has making them all will take time. Hopefully wanna do by weekend. I love you and your spirituality of spirt on forum. For me am only positive seeker, where you are all in one. Experience matters.
Thank you.
Madhu.
Masks of Aastha as a girl/lover/ DILl/wife .
Illusion of love ...the love of phobia..
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Shlock with revenge of of dada image ruined went for heights to teach a lesson.
While in his journey of revenge he feel for the innocence, caring and down to earth principles girl who will do anything beyond her security and level of strength. Shlok knew astha will be the perfect life partner to overcome all household issues running and the happens to happiness which made or might loose swati and Pooja. He didn't want another to be one.. Like swati. Not only the young one of the family but for all to the system/society.
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After marriage we saw change in girl to bend to traditional customs of family and family members loosing her self and her principles to others pride and ego withy emotional sentiments which are good but for ones need. Kinda say men of the family. (NA BOLD,arrogant )and (EVEN,trying hard to balance emotions for love)
VARAD and (EVEN who forgot emotions and realistic relation retain in life 4to live).
Which is not The girl who he saw, or lived.. Aastha was reformed to family and it's not the girl who fell in love and wanted to love shlok.
Mrs.shlok Agnihotri, is the mask of blind love of Aastha for shlok.Shlok saying during confession MRs.Angihotri is a mask of for family mainly man or family run by mask by NA mask by traditions and customs...can say Anjali mask.Mrs. Astha Agnihotri is the mask of community service and Aastha true herself.May be he want just he and she in the locket..in dual and as one may be thought of thoughts of changing the house couples of illusion love thru her, Aastha but she itself trained herself as wife of the family ...
OMG ... amazing VM by abi.niki
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He gave her name on wedding day and she will realise be strong,love,kind,caring,and smiley with smiles..and even balanced it by given her the ring he picked up first on her ring..she put it down for family. Just like mother in law aye. on that ring day, balance of love vs family,
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He couldn't take Aastha reformed so made up a mask of once Who never knew about true selfless love...that is dark shown outer I saw balanced even grey, bocz all the time the words spoken were saying something but his expression and body language said something..which most men show in their way..men can't talk but show love in caring, and their gestures..hey my hubby in too.
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Can guys talk sweet,our shlok does but thareka alaag..so he made Aastha hate him, as in future something from family or by shlok himself..shlok made himself iron outside and burned like a candle inside seeing the melting Aastha and he drowned himself in alcohol droning inside pools of tears.. He did say he married astha revenge did he say the full story, he said that the auto wala was plan but didn't say as him ..
All the time was saying he had planned this as she spoiled dada NA marriage but didn't shlok made astha apologise by giving honour of patni dharam which aastha asked. asstha blinded in rage forgot to connect what after kholapur, and her patni Darja of first marriage..so shlok took away the balance of equity of love and just saved the thread again by Aastha as he wanted to take away the masked Aastha love and give back the love of to compatibility of hate first then again love in equality.
Accepting hate love and making it the relationship compatible it's tough so he chooses blackmail to make listen and grab all senses to him and give back to her as she was losing to mother in law,family ,and customs. If one accepts hate well and balances with the opposite partner the other hate too the love shown back will take take it fast and feel it inner deeply just like our dear he felt by the caring and later feelings and later deep love where he went on knees too.
He did go now too as he still loves she deep enough, but the girl who loved once the boy well and went to do up tan and even on knees to bow as in tradtions, been formed to worship man..but after hate shown she got all her virtues back and principles back and stood for herself and for others too can say jyothi who couldn't speak for heels of hers spoke for heels of m-I-L.
Up tack ka story.in postive way but shown negative way but cane see the balanced ashlok in adjustment by love and hate confusing us with
So he made Aastha fall in love by his outer image and illusion of feelings thinking of picture perfect . He said the identity and existence which meant are his inner soul heart who can take all aspects of attributes even hate which of existence.can say compatibility and adjustment. She has to procure and out in world and when two together only for,themselves we see more...the HM is of understanding each other hidden feelings.
We will see a good amount of true deepen love building up soon..
Then two can a play a game, and others learn and procure either being jealous or by liking the aspects of the couple or individual.
Madhu POV.
from my life.
I myself had seen my hubby not knowing how to love as my dear MIL not knowingly fed gossip of neighbours and relations which made his forget to see the good. But doesn't mean he is bad.or grey or good.he doesn't know how to love or portray. His body language and his motivation to see me good and taking care of more all, which he is doing now..is all,love, care, feel,special attention, can't live without me a day too,thinks about me when feeing down , what can I say love and name this love. He might not talk good words, but his action are louder than words. He is kid for me too. My three kids touch the heart and still lead them path who are still learning like me too. Asking for love not seeing the other need love is selfish for yourself. The one is hurt the rehab or some therapy might help but when not loved or no one tot turn what will happen ...we will see more bad/ hate. Just don't be blinded in love seek inner love thru Warmness of by other help. Learn from good couple and make adjustments.
Povs and difference between love and marriage...madhu,
To me, the only difference is, in love marriage, I'll love and marry. In arranged marriage, I'll marry and love. Because, in the end, arranged marriage needs love and care to flourish and prosper. Love marriage needs some arrangements and understandings to be full of life. It's the essence of love that decides how far you go.; not how you get married.
On the contrary, arranged marriages are more successful than love marriages. I really can't fathom the reason behind this. But most of the arranged marriages are done by the folks who've inculcated a fear of "what society thinks if we do otherwise". These types of people get "used to" things pretty soon. Their happiness is confined, limited and bound to certain areas beyond which they don't want to explore. The fear of Society (it is called Anthropophobia) is what makes people accept things that come their way even though it is barbed. It is this fear that makes the most arranged marriages in India successful. In other words, the success of arranged marriage in India is solely judge on how others envisage it.
This is where the problem with love marriage sets in. Most of the parents know that the adrenaline rush has made you consider only beauty, lust, attraction and infatuation before saying yes to him/her and the parents fear the sustainability of this love. The foundation of love is strong, only if it is built on trust and not lust. In India, just falling in love with the right person is not enough; you should have the courage to convince your family without which you'll be in crisis.
Illusion of love.and led by family...
Cvs must say what a subject and portraying in a unique way..if i started praising this post will be two more pages..all cast and crew thank you..as for now I'm choosing prop or decorators by signifiance to the sorry.
Sent from my iPad Edited by abi_niki - 11 years ago
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