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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: who am i???

Angel....

Everybody are annoyed coz of bani's dialogues....where she kinda compares JW with pia and says that when she can forgiv munna why cant she forgiv pia and tells even munna betrayed her...

I sooo hope this is a big time dialogue blooper,if not whoever made this line is absolutely insane,really in need of medical help,such inconsistency,Good God!!!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: who am i???

Angel....

Everybody are annoyed coz of bani's dialogues....where she kinda compares JW with pia and says that when she can forgiv munna why cant she forgiv pia and tells even munna betrayed her...

yeh and that makes sense does it not in her place ? 😕She has forgiven Jai then Pia is still her sister as well which is a blood relationship whatever wrong shes done

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ektas_Angel

yeh and that makes sense does it not in her place ? 😕She has forgiven Jai then Pia is still her sister as well which is a blood relationship whatever wrong shes done

Hey wait a minute what has munna done that requires her forgiveness? Bani is the one who with her twisted logic of protecting his property made Jai believe that she hates him and wants a divorce from him. Even then he remained loyal to her. The so called ONS happened because of Pia and Pia alone. She drugged the poor guy and apparently molested him. So why should Jai be forgiven? For hiding it from her? Here too I would emphathise with him. Every time he wanted to make a confession it is Bani who would praise him to high heavens and swear on the faith she had in him. what was he supposed to do.

In fact I would go so far as to blame Pia's character on Bani. She has repeatedly put up with all her nonsense because she was like a 'mum' to her. Any good mum should correct her child when she is in the wrong. Not put up with everything. When Pia left Pushkar and came to live with her she should have sent her back to him instead of allowing her to stay. I am sorry I cannot suffer fools like Bani who not only invite trouble for themselves but also end up hurting others like poor Jai.

I admire Rano's character more. She is honest, forthright, just and loving without being senseless. Only her marriage to Ranveer appears a little out of character. Blame it on the creatives.

Sorry kust my point of view.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: optimist

Hey wait a minute what has munna done that requires her forgiveness? Bani is the one who with her twisted logic of protecting his property made Jai believe that she hates him and wants a divorce from him. Even then he remained loyal to her. The so called ONS happened because of Pia and Pia alone. She drugged the poor guy and apparently molested him. So why should Jai be forgiven? For hiding it from her? Here too I would emphathise with him. Every time he wanted to make a confession it is Bani who would praise him to high heavens and swear on the faith she had in him. what was he supposed to do.

Nothing to be forgiven but whatever the circumstance the ONS happened ...and bani as much as jai has to live with it thats all ..not saying jai needs forgiveness just that they both need to work on moving on.

In fact I would go so far as to blame Pia's character on Bani. She has repeatedly put up with all her nonsense because she was like a 'mum' to her. Any good mum should correct her child when she is in the wrong. Not put up with everything. When Pia left Pushkar and came to live with her she should have sent her back to him instead of allowing her to stay. I am sorry I cannot suffer fools like Bani who not only invite trouble for themselves but also end up hurting others like poor Jai.

Bani i really dont think shes done anything wrong..you think if bani sent her back pia would go ? Bani jus tried to be good Rano turned out fine pias a product of her circumstance

I admire Rano's character more. She is honest, forthright, just and loving without being senseless. Only her marriage to Ranveer appears a little out of character. Blame it on the creatives.

Sorry kust my point of view. Its fines😛

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: optimist

Hey wait a minute what has munna done that requires her forgiveness? Bani is the one who with her twisted logic of protecting his property made Jai believe that she hates him and wants a divorce from him. Even then he remained loyal to her. The so called ONS happened because of Pia and Pia alone. She drugged the poor guy and apparently molested him. So why should Jai be forgiven? For hiding it from her? Here too I would emphathise with him. Every time he wanted to make a confession it is Bani who would praise him to high heavens and swear on the faith she had in him. what was he supposed to do.

In fact I would go so far as to blame Pia's character on Bani. She has repeatedly put up with all her nonsense because she was like a 'mum' to her. Any good mum should correct her child when she is in the wrong. Not put up with everything. When Pia left Pushkar and came to live with her she should have sent her back to him instead of allowing her to stay. I am sorry I cannot suffer fools like Bani who not only invite trouble for themselves but also end up hurting others like poor Jai.

I admire Rano's character more. She is honest, forthright, just and loving without being senseless. Only her marriage to Ranveer appears a little out of character. Blame it on the creatives.

Sorry kust my point of view.

I have to jump in here and say that I'm in disagreement...

Although I do totally agree that Bani's was idea of saving Jai's property was crazy (to put in mild terms), I do not agree that Jai did nothing wrong and does not require forgiveness.

Pia did date rape the guy, but Jai made the bunder of hiding the truth and trying to cover it up. Fear of consequences is never a justifiable excuse for any matter.

Yeah, he did make an attempt to tell Bani a few times, but in the end he never was able to make her listen to the truth. Once again it was fear of consequenses that made him keep quiet.

Whilst the ONS was Pia's fault (due to the drugging), the way Jai tired to bury the truth and try to forget about it was where he went wrong. In doing so, he broke Bani's trust in a way much worse than he would have if he was somehow able to honestly admit to the ONS. Later, upon finding out about the drugging, there is a chance that he would have been totally forgiven by Bani.

It's an unwritten rule in this world that the truth does come out at some point point and that people do have to pay for wrongdoings - jaisi karni, waisi bharni.

So, I do feel that Bani genuinly had to forgive Jai. This is just my personal opinion though 😊

God bless.

Edited by RaviMalhotra69 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i agree with you your honour! what is the point of getting angry over bani mami. she is just potraying the actual bani mami who made her place in our hearts.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Angel...

I never knew rape victim is also balmed??

If bani feels betrayed and pain why stay there..leave him and go!!! why give him all those mushy mushy looks,cry,blush and ask him not to go!!! and now mouth this dailogues.
Well she is no great!!! All happenings are only coz of her ,her alck of trust and GFN Father of hers .
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: who am i???

Angel...

I never knew rape victim is also balmed??

If bani feels betrayed and pain why stay there..leave him and go!!! why give him all those mushy mushy looks,cry,blush and ask him not to go!!! and now mouth this dailogues.
Well she is no great!!! All happenings are only coz of her ,her alck of trust and GFN Father of hers .

I think I'll answer this one on behalf of my dear sis 😊

I don't think that anyone is blaming Jai for the rape at all... Jai's fault lies in what happened after the rape. The way he constantly hid the truth was his blunder.

Bani too has made plenty of blunders... the divorce thing was daft to say the very least! So I supposed it's a give and take thing - they both have to compromise.

God bless.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: RaviMalhotra69

I think I'll answer this one on behalf of my dear sis 😊

I don't think that anyone is blaming Jai for the rape at all... Jai's fault lies in what happened after the rape. The way he constantly hid the truth was his blunder.

Bani too has made plenty of blunders... the divorce thing was daft to say the very least! So I supposed it's a give and take thing - they both have to compromise.

God bless.

tru.. Jai should not be blamed for what happen.. i dont think he should be blamed for tryin to hide it from Bani either.. i think he shouldve told her.. but how could he wen him bein the husband, she just confessed her feelings, slept wiv her sister..

i think that the truth cumin out was insenstitive.. but it had to cum out..

as i say marriage is about meetin in the middle.. you have to meet half way..

mite be bk to edit 😆 got a call

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Henna 786

tru.. Jai should not be blamed for what happen.. i dont think he should be blamed for tryin to hide it from Bani either.. i think he shouldve told her.. but how could he wen him bein the husband, she just confessed her feelings, slept wiv her sister..

i think that the truth cumin out was insenstitive.. but it had to cum out..

as i say marriage is about meetin in the middle.. you have to meet half way..

mite be bk to edit 😆 got a call

I've quoted your post so that even if you do edit, the original will remain in my post! 😃 😆

Actually, I still believed that he should have told Bani. She may have confessed her feelings, but that still is no excuse for him not to confess the truth. The thing is that it would always have caused a bad reaction however or wherever he said it... but the longer he left it, the more Bani would feel that he was hiding the truth and decieving her.

The truth finally came out in a bad way... and whilst I'm definitely not in favour of Pia and the nasty game she played, I have to say that Jai left himself open to that situation by not telling Bani ealier. If he had told her, then the reaction, although bad, would never have been as catastrophic as they were after Pia revealed the raaz.

Actually, the way things were going, it seemed that Jai NEVER wanted to ever tell Bani the truth! He must have thought "what she doesn't know cannot hurt her"... but that line of thinking is immoral. In fact, that promotes deception and lying between married couples.

Although I'm remaining single through life, I do know that there is no place at all for lying and deception between couples. Trust is the basis of every relationship.

That's why I still do blame Jai for his part AFTER the one night stand.

God bless.

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