Kumud and Kusum, a flawed relationship

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kumud and Kusum are both flawed characters. But Kumud should really be able to step outside of her position as a sister and think of what Kusum has asked her to do.


Kumud looked after Pramad even when he had his own parents. She looked after Kusum in spite of their parents being around. But just because she put Saras in an awkward position instead of allowing him the freedom to have his own life, now Danny has gone off and left him alone. Not only that, but Kumud is now refusing to stand by him when he has always stood by her. He could have taken off with Danny before the wedding and just left Kumud high and dry.


Danny could have a thousand girls better looking and more thoughtful than Kumud's idiot sister. So could Saras. These people saved the haveli from ruin by a jilted suitor and what they got in return is blame and judgment.


As for Kusum, she is so thoughtless she had the nerve to tell Danny on his face that she loved his brother. How would she feel if Saras did the same to her? The girl has no heart.


Kusum was ready to be a spinster for life if Kumud had to come back home, and when she did come back she changed her tune. Deciding that "destiny" was for her and Saras. If that was true then why has Saras never confessed to feeling anything for Kusum? Just like the rose and the peacock feather were a misunderstanding, she can't make herself understand that the play and the kidnapping were also a misunderstanding. Saras and Kumud have always survived whatever obstacles were in their path. Kusum is only claiming that destiny is in her favor because she wishes it was true, not because it is.


As for her imagining Saras as her husband, he has never once imagined the same for her.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome post. Kumud is blind in love of Kusum, rather than Saras. Kusum...all bad words are less for her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very nice post.
IMO both sisters are selfish and only think for themselves.
How Kumud can forced Saras to marry her sister while he has no love for her sister.
She is still with Pramad and also wanted saras by her side. Saras should leave her long ago.
If she can stay with Pramad, why her sister cannot live with Danny 😲

Both brothers are idiot and these whole family are just using them. Parents are totally spineless and think their two daughters are angel from heaven.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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great post.
i feel when kumud and the family are understanding kusum's pov and sympathizing with her and blaming saras and dugba. also when kusum said "main ye rishta nahi nibhaa sakti" and everyone is feeling sorry for her. why cant they see that even saras couldnt "nibhaao" the rishta with kusum. yes he might be wrong in doing this without telling anyone but why doesnt anyone see the feeling behind it. i feel kumud is being selfish and not even once thinking about saras' feelings 😭
if kusum saras get married, kusum will be supposedly very happy, but what about saras? can he ever love kusum? why dont they all in the family think atleast once if saras will be happy.
ive been feeling so bad for saras, he has noone right now who will think or care about his feelings.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: poorvab

great post.

i feel when kumud and the family are understanding kusum's pov and sympathizing with her and blaming saras and dugba. also when kusum said "main ye rishta nahi nibhaa sakti" and everyone is feeling sorry for her. why cant they see that even saras couldnt "nibhaao" the rishta with kusum. yes he might be wrong in doing this without telling anyone but why doesnt anyone see the feeling behind it. i feel kumud is being selfish and not even once thinking about saras' feelings 😭
if kusum saras get married, kusum will be supposedly very happy, but what about saras? can he ever love kusum? why dont they all in the family think atleast once if saras will be happy.
ive been feeling so bad for saras, he has noone right now who will think or care about his feelings.



Thank you. And I agree, Saras has noone except Dugba. His own family is no use to him and who else can he call upon except his mother.


Saras is not a machine that can turn his feelings on and off. Just because Kumud is married doesn't mean he doesn't love her. And just because Kusum is in love with him supposedly and he happens to still be single does not mean he can marry her out of pity and create an emotion which isn't there.


Of all three sisters, Kusum is the most stupid. Even Kumari with her mistakes, would not think to stoop so low. And the person she fell for simply took advantage of her innocence. Kusum cannot make the same claim here.


And if Saras fooled her, I don't get why Kusum is still so hung up on him. Does she not see that he would care a little more for his own brother's feelings than hers?
This idiot thinks that even while still married to his brother, that Saras will come around. 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: trina_gautam



Thank you. And I agree, Saras has noone except Dugba. His own family is no use to him and who else can he call upon except his mother.


Saras is not a machine that can turn his feelings on and off. Just because Kumud is married doesn't mean he doesn't love her. And just because Kusum is in love with him supposedly and he happens to still be single does not mean he can marry her out of pity and create an emotion which isn't there.


Of all three sisters, Kusum is the most stupid. Even Kumari with her mistakes, would not think to stoop so low. And the person she fell for simply took advantage of her innocence. Kusum cannot make the same claim here.


And if Saras fooled her, I don't get why Kusum is still so hung up on him. Does she not see that he would care a little more for his own brother's feelings than hers?
This idiot thinks that even while still married to his brother, that Saras will come around. 😆


yes and for once someone please tell kusum - that what hurt she is feeling from saras' actions the same pain is going on in danny's mind because of her. does she care about anyone except her own self?😡
she loves saras but saras is very clear he doesnt love her and now kusum feels he betreayed her,
but danny loves kusum and kusum is very clear she doesnt love him so isnt danny feeling the same betrayal?
everyone excepts saras(and danny to an extent) to be mahaan all the time and make everyone else happy 😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: poorvab


yes and for once someone please tell kusum - that what hurt she is feeling from saras' actions the same pain is going on in danny's mind because of her. does she care about anyone except her own self?😡
she loves saras but saras is very clear he doesnt love her and now kusum feels he betreayed her,
but danny loves kusum and kusum is very clear she doesnt love him so isnt danny feeling the same betrayal?
everyone excepts saras(and danny to an extent) to be mahaan all the time and make everyone else happy 😡



Kusum can't claim to have been betrayed by Saras because the only one who promised her anything was her sister. If Kusum deluded herself to think others would be forced to accommodate her, then it's her stupidity that should be blamed.
Putting your entire future on the shoulders of someone who has always pledged himself to your sister, is not a wise move.


Yes, she is feeling cheated but it's not Saras' fault that he wasn't allowed to leave with Danny when he had the chance. If Kumud had gotten there later, or she had not fallen on her knees and begged him to stay, he would have left because he was being cheated himself. Even if the marriage had taken place, she would still have been cheated because Saras doesn't have a fake bone in his body, he can't love someone out of nowhere that he only saw as a sister. And because he knows completely that his brother loves her. So does she honestly think he is going to give her a new life out of pressure from her family? Dugba is the only one that understands the situation. You can force people to get married sometimes but the heart never lies.


Kumud underestimated Saras' own love for her, and she underestimated Pramad's need to destroy her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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saras should ask kumud, what if danny had fallen in love with kumud and saras had begged kumud to marry danny, and kumud knew kusum loves danny. what would she do?

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