See .. I was right about the girls!

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Posted: 12 years ago

I know most of you (99%) would disagree with me about the girls being wrong.. but think from the boys POV.. 😊

Ranveer time and again admits that it is impossible for him to look back in time and be just friends with Panchi. He is crystal clear with what he feel "HE LOVES PANCHI" .

Moreover if Panchi really feels that awkwardness is the problem.. then I'd say RV is perfectly normal.. It's Panchi who is creating the awkwardness.

Trust me on this.. Love does not have the fear of loosing someone in the near future.. It's about not wasting a single moment with the person whom you love the most... It's just about not letting him or her go away.

I know the best friend loosing thingy comes into view.. But RV just demands (or longs) for some time with the person he really loves a lot and cares for the most. I bet its not too much for Panchi to turn down of course.

Regards

Aishwarya

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@krystel21

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Posted: 12 years ago

Always, always listen to the heart. And that is something I strongly believe in.

Thinking from the heart, RV makes a LOT of sense. He loves his best friend, so what's wrong in dating her?

Thinking like Panchi; she's scared. She's scared that her first rel just failed. She's shocked that the eternal casanova has fallen for her. She's scared of losing her best friend.

Thinking from the heart, I know RV is right. I also know now, that Panchi is gonna listen to her heart and take the risk; and date RV officially.

In the middle of ALL this, why do I still side Panchi? That would be a personal bias. I've been in the exact same situation as her 4 years back, and I lost my best friend by the end of it. So yeah. Its kinda funny to see her come to realise things the same way I realised things 4 years back.

I won't say who's right and who's wrong here; I'd say that both of them are right in their own place. :)

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rinki

@iheartVD

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Posted: 12 years ago

RV is somewhere right at his place...now he is madly in love with Panchi n dunt wanna waste any time ! But i guess even Panchi is not wrong .Her fears are genuine, as she said they both have suffered break up recently 🤔 Dun know how long this "NOT NOW" track will drag ! Want to see RaHi in relationship . I hope Panchi's denial gives us some passionate RaHi scenes 😳

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@Pretty_pinku

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Posted: 12 years ago

In love with your Post 😛 😛 😛
I dont wanna say more, But I would Like to Finish it Off in one line "Panchi Should Grow Up" This Is what I feel!
Nowadays her behavior makes me feel as if She doesn trust Ranveer when it comes to RELATIONSHIP/LOVE 🤢

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Khyati

@So_Naley

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Posted: 12 years ago

Panchi just needs some time for all that happened to sink in...
She has faced rejection from RV in the past...maybe she is just scared thay being the volatile person he is his feelings might not be permanent ...(i am not questioning RV's feelings here...i am sure they are pure but just stating Panchi's fears and the reason for her apprehension ) She needs to be sure of his love towards her coz once she commits she is gonna stick to it for life !!!!
So i guess RV should just try and be mature this one time and give her some space !!Eventually she is gonna sort out all her issues and insecurities and return to being the loving person she always was !!!
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Edited by So_Naley - 12 years ago

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Shaz

@..DamonCrazy..

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Posted: 12 years ago

Personally...I think Panchi's fears are justified. Trust me...if something like this turns badly, it can ruin your friendship. I say this from personal experience. Plus Panchi has the scars of her first relationship. Kuch bhi bolo, but it did really mean a lot to her. She really liked Avi. And she did face heartbreak. Uske just baad...rushing into a relationship doesn't assure her as being right, then I don't really see anything wrong in it.

As for Ranveer...he's right in his place too. Its hard as hell for someone to be friends with the person you love. But I think...if he gives Panchi some space, she'll come around :)

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767295

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Posted: 12 years ago

I know... Sigh!

All in All just one thing rings in my ears..

"Panchi is not doing what her heart wants"

Love needs no rationalizing.. thats why its called love..

RV does know about this. 😭. Panchi wake up gal !!!

Regards

Aishwarya

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JiyaRe...

@JiyaRe...

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Posted: 12 years ago

There's a beautiful saying "When a person gets really lucky... they find a best friend & a lover in one person" which's apt for Ranveer & Panchi.
On the other hand; dating your best friend is risky, if things don't work out then you can lose a dear friend also.
Anyway, Panchi go for it! Otherwise the 'What If' thingy can disturb you. This risk is worth it... RaHi's relationship is going to work out well (at least, it seems so).
Btw, I think... Ranveer & Panchi both are right in their own ways regarding this situation.

Edited by SmileItsMe - 12 years ago