Is ovi retarded ?

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Today I did not like Ovi's dialogue abt "Main ek achhi beti bhi nahi ban saki" thanks to her disgraceful parents & family who is so hung up on their adopted daughter off the road.

Ovi's psyche can be only understood by a professional...The blame and shame she carries thanks to her parents for putting that burden on her by constantly making her the cause for their other daughter's problems...THought they all are created by the saint Purvi. Ovi the price she is paying for loving and caring for this man who does not give 2 hoots abt her or their daughter Pia...He deserves what is coming to him.

I so wish Ovi had not come back to help...Let the APs lay in the hole they dug with their 3 months Amar Prem - love of the 21st century and 3 months Pavitra marriage 😆

Originally posted by: Ritz_k

ohh plss it had been always said that she ruined her life with this man, then why the hell at first place did she ever blakmail his would be wife to marry him ?

u know what karma is a BITCH.. and Ovi was never a saint to be not bitten by that bitch..

Arjun definitely has faults, but that never meant that purvi and Ovi are saints, both are much more faultier than Arjun is ..

and she is doing this becos she is a human, who still has some emotions, conscience and love left for the father of her child, i am sure if Ovi would be in Arjun's place and ask him for this favour, he would also do the same..

Lastly, yes this man deserves to die, when he became so spineless to never ask for his own children from both the ladies and gave them a companion, when he was so spineless to stay along for 20 years and never cursed these two ladies, i really wnat him to die and give the last bit of guilt and lifetime mental punishment to Ovi and Purvi.

PS:- I am not arjun fan, but its high time that he is being blamed for everything wrong happening wid purvi or Ovi.. the ladies themselves ruined their lives.

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Today I did not like Ovi's dialogue abt "Main ek achhi beti bhi nahi ban saki" thanks to her disgraceful parents & family who is so hung up on their adopted daughter off the road.

Ovi's psyche can be only understood by a professional...The blame and shame she carries thanks to her parents for putting that burden on her by constantly making her the cause for their other daughter's problems...THought they all are created by the saint Purvi. Ovi the price she is paying for loving and caring for this man who does not give 2 hoots abt her or their daughter Pia...He deserves what is coming to him.

I so wish Ovi had not come back to help...Let the APs lay in the hole they dug with their 3 months Amar Prem - love of the 21st century and 3 months Pavitra marriage 😆

This story is unbelievable in so many ways. Archana put herself and an adopted daughter over her own bio kids. She chose to stay away from her own kids for 20 yrs, and then 40 yrs from Ovi. All the time believing that Ovi stole Purvi's husband - when that holds true for Purvi too. Purvi played with Arjun emotionally through the time Arovi was married. She never saw that - blaming Ovi all the way for not trusting Arjun. Then again with Pia fiasco - she a mother of 4 kids failed to understand the dynamics behind Pia's birth. Not only so, all these 20 yrs - she never understood that Pia was born in wedlock...and then, continuously encouraged Purvi to talk with Arjun - encouraging Purvi to break's Ovi's marriage again?? She says she misunderstood Ovi - that she never lived with Arjun - meaning Pari has more haq then Pia - I really Do Not understand the psyche of our CVS - the story is just unbelievable - and a Mother a black mark on Motherhood...

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

Yes i agree what Ovi is doing is out of her caring for arjun and maybe its the right thing to do. but her relationship with him has always been volatile. she knows that she can't keep it platonic. he's the only man to have ever been in her life. but the fact is, if she does tc of him and he recovers, then he will fly back to Purvi and forget all about her. i know she shouldn't expect that he won't but it will hurt non the less. But i really do agree with a lot you've said other than the part in bold. Im sorry he's dying and yes he is spineless for not asking for pari's partial custody. BUT Pia was a whole different case. Purvi may not have wanted joint custody or even to interact with him as a parent over 20 years, but not having any part of Pia's life was his choice. he didn't need to be with Ovi to go on summer trips with Pia, spend the holidays with her in Australia or even have her over to India. Ovi clearly wouldn't have had any objection to that. today it was clear that in 20 years, Arjun has not even seen Pia, he didn't even ask Ovi how was she? what was she doing? how did she look? i mean even parents who give their children up for adoption have a bit of curiosity, but he has non? only 'she must be missing you'. i mean for gods sake this is a dying man! and he still doesn't even want to be close to the one child he can have some semblance of a relationship with? for what? on principle? in the off chance that it hurts Purvi and Pari if he does? if he felt like that would be betraying Purvi, then he chose a lover over his child. he deserves to be lonely. I'm sorry, maybe as Pari's dad he claims sympathy because Purvi just took her away and he let her go for Purvi's sake. But with Pia, I don't think Ovi would've ever stopped him from having a relationship with Pia. he and Ovi seem to share a good rapport so i don't think there was any reason for him to stay away from Pia for 20 years. That was a choice- no majboori. he doesn't even really think of Pia as his daughter.

Originally posted by: Ritz_k

@bold:- that part is yet to see, obviously Ovi isnt helping him becos she wants to syat wid him as his wife IF he gets back well. If he gets well, Ovi will get her family back which she wants and Arjun will get his one. it is a equal deal, if she wanted to go and tell her parents the truth or tell arjun that she cant stay widout her parents anymore, Arjun would not stop her, he is not that selfish, but she chose to support him, thanks to her, she still cares for him.

Yes i really hope she doesn't expect anything of that sorts. it'll only lead to hurt. she does just want to help him at this point but the relationship they have is complicated and its easy for old feelings to resurface, especially when she knows she could lose him forever at any time. but yes, i sincerely hope for her sake (she's my favorite character) that she can just walk away after this.

rest of the part about Pia i do agree, definitely his fault of being partial with his TWO kids. if he would intend to meet Pia, he could easily do, but he dint, all he craved for was purvi and her daughter, THUS as i said karma is a bitch, it bites every1, and so is Arjun in this dismal state, his mistakes obviously is making him suffer, plus do not forget the hatred he has recieved from Pari last 20 years, the brain clot is a lesser punishment than that. Only thing i can pity him is that he had a chance to go to Ovi and pia and stay wid them, may be he would get a happy life, but this man, donno what he ate or drank that purvi jaap doesnt end.

You know, at this point I don't even care about the Purvi jaap. ok he loves her and will wait for an eternity for her. fine, admirable even. but what does that have to do with parenting Pia? you know what I mean? If Purvi had any objections to him being Pia's dad even after the misunderstandings were sorted out, then she is clearly not the person he credits her to be. I just don't understand. Personal reference here, but I have a stepson too. and i don't think my husband and I could ever be happy if I objected to their relationship. thats just unfair to the kid- they suffer the most!

he did wrong with pia and similarly Ovi also did wrong by not questioning Arjun that why he never bothered for Pia, afterall it is Pia's legal right..

That is another thing that is really bothering me about this situation! how can Ovi just let that go? I understand that initially when she kept Pia a secret, she was going to raise her as a single mother. but now arjun knows. how can she be SO ok with someone who cares so little for their child? what kind of a parenting is this, where your lover (ex-husband) takes precedence over the careless treatment of your child? For a parent, nothing and noone should be more important! but the cvs don't even seem to understand the first thing about parenting! all these ppl don't give a thought to their kids! just run around making stupid decisions!

i dont know why these protagonist of this show ends up being the worst parents ever ?.. Arvi and Arovi, all three r just plane dumb when it comes to parenthood, and Arjun is trying to win some oscar for his mahanta act. 🥱

ughh! sorry for the little rant but I'm truly flabbergasted by what the cvs think is a definition of a good parent! The show should be called 'Bad Parenting ka Rishta😊

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Today I did not like Ovi's dialogue abt "Main ek achhi beti bhi nahi ban saki" thanks to her disgraceful parents & family who is so hung up on their adopted daughter off the road.

Ovi's psyche can be only understood by a professional...The blame and shame she carries thanks to her parents for putting that burden on her by constantly making her the cause for their other daughter's problems...Though they all are created by the saint Purvi. Ovi the price she is paying for loving and caring for this man who does not give 2 hoots abt her or their daughter Pia...He deserves what is coming to him.

I so wish Ovi had not come back to help...Let the APs lay in the hole they dug with their 3 months Amar Prem - love of the 21st century and 3 months Pavitra marriage 😆