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Posted: 11 years ago
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I said that in some other stopic, I want to say it here also as the topic maker talked about...What is this Forgive-for-you-own-peace thing...I at least CAN'T understand this concept...😕

I mean who said that to be able to move on and make peace with your past you need to forgive...To me at least it sound illogical...

Yes, to move on you need a closure, but a closure doesn't mean you have to forgive...

I don't think a person who has been wrongd by anyone needs to forgive him/her to get a be able to move on...I mean, does a victim needs to forgive her/his assaulter to move on...?? I don't think so, he/she needs a closure which they can have only even the assaulter is in jail and being punished for his/her deeds...

So to me at least Asad forgiving Rashid for his own self has no logic...He needs a closure, not a new wound on his soul that Rashid may/will give him at some point...

I don't think Rashid can be forgiven for abandoning Asad and Najma, no matter what reason he could have...As a father, he can't be forgiven...NEVER...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Forgive? No
Forget? Yes

As I commented on another post, Rashid has left scars on Asad's life - scars that a parent should never leave on a child.

Morever, even the mere idea of forgiveness is out of question. Rashid does not seem to even realize he has done something that needs forgiveness.

Can I just say how pukeworthy his dialogue "Mera kasoor kya hai" was? Yeah, that man does not deserve forgiveness.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: A.Hajnal

What is this Forgive-for-you-own-peace thing...I at least CAN'T understand this concept...😕
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Yes, to move on you need a closure, but a closure doesn't mean you have to forgive...

I don't think a person who has been wrongd by anyone needs to forgive him/her to get a be able to move on...I mean, does a victim needs to forgive her/his assaulter to move on...?? I don't think so, he/she needs a closure which they can have only even the assaulter is in jail and being punished for his/her deeds...



THIS!

I agree with you and what a great use of analogy!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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thanku for anwsering .
but beleive me forgive a person give u peace n i m telling u with my own expreince .
sleila di rashid never retrunback asad n najma childhood thats true but asad n najma need parents inlife everyface if rashid want to do that he defo deseeve a chance .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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he shld not forgive him sooo easily
he left them for 17 years n asad, dillu suffered soo much because of him
he never stood for them even when society was blaming her n leave that when his second wife blames dilshad he just says her to keep quite

its better for a person to die than being spineless he left dilu because someone blackmailed him n wt if again ppl blackmail to leave dilu ,he'll again hurt her

he shld first prove asad n dilshad that he wont let them go n then asad cn forgive him
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

Right and ask Rashid to give back Asad his childhood as a 2 chance???

If Rashid can do that than yeah he deserves a 2nd chance.



Point... 👏 ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: moniloveasya

thanku for anwsering .
but beleive me forgive a person give u peace n i m telling u with my own expreince .
sleila di rashid never retrunback asad n najma childhood thats true but asad n najma need parents inlife everyface if rashid want to do that he defo deseeve a chance .



There is a time when we want the support of our parents in our life...If a parent can't provide that support then it is the children's wish whether to be with their parents or not...And here Rashid abondened Dillu and her children...Not only that ,he married another woman and lived with her and hav 3 children...That is a pure cheating...and when the other(Asad\dillu) suffered he did'nt even think of hw they are living...when they managed to settle in their life and hav everything in their life,he want them...

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