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SonyaBlade

@SonyaBlade

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Posted: 11 years ago

So I know that almost everyone is really irritated with Tara and this one line of hers...amongst all of her other statements concerning torture, abuse, revenge, etc, etc,,,,,, BUT it just dawned on me in todays' episode when we heard the same line again...

Tara: Main tumhari biwi ho...

MJ: Par main iss rishtay ko nayhi mantha...

Tara : Tumhare manne yah na manne se sach nayhe badal jayega...

OKAY...so I don't know how many times we have heard this exchange between the two of them...BUT I am now completely with the writers with how they have portrayed Tara and here is why...

Tara does everything with passion, with junoon...with such intensity that others around her look at her with amazement and astonishment at times just to what degree she can go to...especially for what or who she loves.

Now we all know MJ is a great human being...he is everything that under the right circumstances would make anyone love him...Tara's mother even said today that he has won her heart...its just who he is. He also will go to extreme lengths BUT his reasons are different...we don't really know yet if he is doing what he isdoing because he's been wrongly framed and wants to prove himself innocent, thereby making his actions selfish...even if its a justified selfishness.

BUT tara...and my focus is on her for this post...what she has done to MJ for her so called revenge went to the extreme...YES he pushed her off a cliff..but the emotional impact that she gave him in return was just crazy. We all just felt for MJ and wanted our stupid Tara to stop hurting him, to try to understand him, to try to connect with him instead of just saying over and over again that I am your wife so therefore I have a right ot know...NO Tara you don't have a right to know anything...BUT she will soon...

And this is where all of her actions from the past will come to be the very thing that MJ will turn out to love about her...its that very intensity...its that very idea of PAYBACK...and payback is a B**CH...and who more than MJ needs someone on his side will give back double for every hurt that he has had to suffer.

So its this very idea of going overboard which has so frusterated us that will make us love her for her loyalty and strength when it comes to her finally being the strength of her husband and getting revenge for HIM not against him...

And its this very line of her always telling him that she's his wife, that we will come to love about her, because Tara as much as Mritunjay needs an allay , needs a friend and above all needs a PARTNER in his / her life to be there to support them and to love them to all of these tough times ahead. She needs him as much as he needs her and for all the rescuing that he has done for her, its now time for her to return the favour...AS HIS WIFE and friend...

Thats my two cents...maybe I"m reading way too much into everything but this just came to me after todays' episode and after I was so frusterated with her for taking out the lights...

Sonya

Edited by SonyaBlade - 11 years ago

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@mai_manmauji

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Posted: 11 years ago

dear iske liye mera kewal ek jawab hai ki Tara ka Baal-Vivah(child-marriage)huaa hai ek matured man se ,kyoki wo abhi bhi bachaa hi hai jaisa ki hamesha uski maa bolti hai "kaisa hai mera bachaa"😆

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sehreen

@Sehru_life

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Posted: 11 years ago

Sonya amazing post

and beautiful described the current situation

I have always tried to be at both MJ&tara side but somehow

i always been on tara side what i like about her is she takes and handle

everything with a ease.. and this is what makes her TARA

and agree thats what MJ needs a patner who has strenght

tara is the only one who will go through everything to prove him innocent

I love when she keeps reminding him that she is his WIFE..

And seriously am waiting for the 16 december for this

she stand for him infront of everyone

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sonal

@sonal_cb

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

very nice post

u r right about tara's behavior.

but i want 2 tell u 1 thing,

1.till now in life tara has always struggled ,for family's well being she had to be strong n never gave priority to own happiness, so it is obvious that in married life her expectations were less from hubby knowing his case.

2.tara is strong yet when it comes to relationship she can't handle coz that needs "time n patience" and she being impulsive n fickle lacks it, so only getting frustrated and she has rights to be like that.

"frustration is one thing that can lead to depression if not resolved quickly"

3. tara is immature, but not mj... so i expect at least him to handle n understand her frustration rather than ignoring her n denying about relationship.

"if u can't change something, better change your insight for it"

4..i wish CVS need to give more priority to their relations at the time being leaving behind all d attack drama n boring things.

5.few things r definitely enjoyable, but i really wonder how much they contribute towards their togetherness, and how long these few scenes would linger in our mind if after few days again d same repeatation happen.

PS: effort if comes 2way strengthens d bond, else if it is 1way it creates distance

Edited by sonalp - 11 years ago

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