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Posted: 11 years ago
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We have seen Saachi as a bold , strong , independent women who takes care of family and business in the initial episodes. Then , we slowly come to know that her family is her biggest weakness. Her family members also take advantage of this especially Prachi. 😡She cannot see them being sad or having tears in their eyes. She loses all her strength and confidence in front of their tears. 😕The whole town (according to Ulka ) is accusing her of falling in love with a younger guy and Saachi has turned into a voiceless , sacrificing darpok Why is she feeling so guilty about all the comments ? Why did she not raise her voice and stop Ulka the way Dils did ? Why is she not ready to fight the world when DV is ready to support and stand by her ?

Does it mean at the end of the day the most courageous women bow down to pressure from family and society ? Saachi may be a successful business woman but when it comes to herself and her feelings she fails miserably. She is too emotionally dependent on her family members for her survival . She cannot stand their tears and is ready to give up everything for them.

DV is a wonderful partner . He made her overcome her grief of her parents passing away on her birthday. He freed her from the guilt she carried within herself for 19 years. It has taken an outsider like DV to make her family realise that she deserves some happiness atleast on her birthday. The same way I want him to make her realise that she need not sacrifice everything for them. She should be firm about what she wants and make them understand that she is right about making certain choices in life...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What I think personally is that DV's character till date seems to be perfect. He comes across as a person who is extremely confident, able to find out solutions for everything in life. has no fear. so we keep on comparing these two characters.
As far as Saachi, I think, she was always vulnerable. She had put on a strong face in front because she wanted to be the caretaker of her family. she knowingly or unknowingly became responsible for everybody's happiness and well being.In this process she just hid all her emotional part, which finally was unveiled by DV.

Confronting one's emotions after such a long hiatus is a difficult process. A person is strong when he/she can deal with their own fears/emotions.

Now is the correct time for her to face all her hidden fears/emotions. More than facing society she needs to face herself and deal with herself.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agreee, i feel like since dv is with her, I'm sure she can overcome with her problems and face it, she has her family's responsibilities towards her family thats for sure, but hopefully she stands by DV and hope they are together again,
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ TM-I am literally pissed off for the reason which I have mentioned in my earlier posts...that she is not making an attempt to convince her grannys.U have a lovely partner by your side, who is giving u the assurance of facing the grannys and the consequences together...but still u r not making an effort.This easy giving up irks me.If u have tried and failed...then I wouldn't have much complain against her.And society...Hawww...if u r not able to convince your family or fight for your love ,how would u be able to fight against the society.To face the society u need your family support immensely,u have to take every action step by step.According to me,Sanchi was required to convince her family first,unfortunately she didn't do it.
As for Prachi ,when she said to sell off the land ...there u see a firm Sanchi saying she won't sell it off.If u can be so firm against your sister for a land ,then why not against your grannys for your love😕?And yes she is too emotionally weak when it comes to her grannys.But u need to sacrifice for the person who is worth it.The way I saw Aaji reacting y'day...REALLY!!!is Aaji at all worth of this sacrifice?The lady is more worried about her khandan than her granddaughter...fewww😡!!!

Sanchi u have a life which is precious to some and u have no right to destroy it like this and above all, will the family in future be happy ,if your not happy from inside...I DOUBT
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't watch the show regularly; sometimes take glimpse of some episodes whenever I get time. Because of this characterization of Saachi sometimes I cannot connect with her character, even though a terrific actor like Sangeeta is plying this role. I know it's the way the makers have written her character, but somehow I feel it is giving a wrong message specially about working women. Saachi is educated, a business woman, has a property of worth 18 crore (once mentioned by Pradeep). Where is her status???? Where is her dignity??? She has only one status that SHE IS UNMARRIED AND NOW IS IN LOVE WITH A YOUNGER GUY????She refused DV due to family's disapproval, ok its tolerable, but agreeing to marry a 50+ man only to make your grandmother happy-God This is more than madness!!!! I don't know how she has managed business for such a long time with such low courage and self-esteem. So every time DV will be there to stand for her??? What If DV is not there??? I wish makers think about all these. If they can show DV growing from an immature, fun-living guy to a very sensible and perspective man then they will have to bring some changes in Saachi's character too. Otherwise in the long run the show will be dependent too much on DV, Saachi will appear nothing more than a cry-baby. I'm sorry if my view hurts anyone, but I really want some change in Saachi.

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