Sense and sensibilities????

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Posted: 11 years ago
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At first let me make it very clear that, I love this show. There should be no doubt about it. For that reason, whenever there is any inconsistency in any character, it hurts. As a fan, I am criticizing this only for the betterment of this show.
When a salesman wants to sell his product to his customer, who is the more powerful party here?? Salesman or customer?? I think we all know the answer. It's customer who will decide the fate of that proposal,whether he would buy that product or not. If he decides to buy it, it's his right to bargain for the price too. If he and the salesman can reach a point which will benefit them both, only then the product will be sold. Now if a customer needs a product, it's NOT his weakness. He can buy the product from other shops too but he is buying it from this shop. And THIS gives him the power to decide.
Now lets come to the point. I know it happened ages ago, but still I didn't get the point of Antara-Sattya touch-me-not Condition. Antara is a customer here. She needed revenge which is a product here. Sattya had that product and he offered that to Antara like a sales man. Antara decided to buy that. Now here, Antara has more power because she can avenge her father's death in many other ways. Sattya's proposal is just another option. It's Sattya how needs the approval badly just like a salesman who needs to sell his product so that he can make minimum profit. Now,among Antara and Sattya,who is supposed to get the right of bargaining?? Obviously Antara. But in the show, we saw the opposite. Sattya is maarofying googly since he thought that he is married to Antara and our heroine is terrorized of physical assault in almost every scene because she did marry him. Here, the customer is suffering for buying the product and though the salesman is hovering around her like 24/7, she can't complain him to get her money back.
When at first, I watched scenes on this touch condition and Sattya's making Antara doing everything that he wants, I thought that may be there are some other issues on which basis Antara is so scared. May be Sattya is blackmailing Antara about her mother. May be he said her that he will tell about Dr. Kaul's death to Geetaji. If it would have been the reason, then it would have justified Antara's majboori perfectly. But it wasn't. There was even no flashbacks about this condition. I would have liked it as I am still wondering how that condition thingy came in Antara's mind in the first place. How they approached on this topic. But alas!! I have to rely on imagination here.
Now, let's come to the basic. Why this condition?? This marriage is just for taking revenge. Antara-Sattya will never have a normal couple thingy in their relationship and they knew that during this whole fiasco. Then from where did this condition fit in this situation?? Though they married, both of them are very well aware of the fact that, this was a show off. Then why will there be a touching issue. It isn't like that a man will get his right on the girl's body automatically if he is married to her. It's about a mutual acceptance from both side.So why will Antara be scared of Phattu at all??I didn't get it.
I know many will say that as they are married according to society, they has to do everything like couple. For that reason, this condition originated from their fertile mind. BUT, their intimacy is confined to their bedroom and it's a private place where no society will be present to check on them whether they are maintaining their married life properly or not. So, again I failed to catch the logic behind this entire condition thing. Sorry if I offended anyone but I wanted to share my frustration with you all about this so I did.
About Antara's recent action, then may be I will make another post on that. Tab tak keliye,
Rantara Zindabaad, Phattu Murdabaad!!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wow nice post firstly how nicely u written really like it hatts off👏
sattu phattu hai marega wo jaldi hi
Edited by divzz29 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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thanks dear..fr d lovely post.
n aftr teading again i feel like cutting satu in 10000 pieces
hate him n dis marriage also
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Posted: 11 years ago
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really a great post jyoti...😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Exactly, why should Antara be afraid of Sattu, if this is not a marriage at all, and is just an arrangement for a common goal that is revenge against Raghu? Why should she feel obligated to sign the register? Why should she resort to hurting herself to escape it? Ok, I get it that DM was there, but why can't she later just tell Satya cut and dry that she doesn't want to legalize this arrangement? According to a BTS, looks like Satya is again going to push her into signing the legal documents, and it doesn't make sense. Antara should have just told him she doesn't want to!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome Post Jyo 👏 Damn i am also frustrated yar I just wanna killl Phattu(Satya) he is getting on my nerves, and he himself knows that marriage is fake then why hell he is so bend to make that marriage legal, and his threats Antu again n again that makes my blood boil 😡 😡 😡
Antu ko shadi he nai karni chahiya thi Phattu say, sorry to say but Antu was so dumb to marry phattu but I am glad she got brain now, but I am frustrated is why she hurt herself to not sign legal marriage papers???
Why can't say just say she don't want legal marriage with phattu ?????
I am frustrated 😡 😡 😡
I am frustrated 😡 😡 😡
I am frustrated 😡 😡 😡
I am frustrated 😡 😡 😡
I am frustrated 😡 😡 😡

Makers lost there mind and when we tell n ask n request them to change the track or stop showing female humiliation they said we are bashing them , if they like appreciation then they also have the stamina to Handel criticism and here we were just saying is stop showing female humiliation

They are sooo many loop holes in #DoDilEkJaan coz of them we can't understand why helll Antara marry Satya
Edited by kristenpattison - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Liked your post 👍🏼
Indeed, it is like to have a puzzle and it miss a part
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I understand but there have something .
Maybe Antara she self wanted like that she dont touch Raghu or what ever if she touching Raghu she will be weak .
Maybe Satya think he have more right make condition in this situation .
Maybe he telling for Antara that he make it is just only for her .
He giving right living that big house in his room .
He maybe giving all right for Antara to play real wife ( for others ) .
He want to be Antara s owner .He want everything what is Raghu's . That is sure
There can be too many options.
I hope we will see what there is . I am too confused

Edited by liana2304 - 11 years ago

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