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Originally posted by: Arshics

Shrija the judge woman - doesnt gaurantee a sensitive outlook.

divorce in india still a difficult process and still treated as the issue of girls these days who do not have sahanshakti

I am quoting a woman in a discussion on a similar issue

aadmi toh hote hi aise hain. Aurat ka farz hai apne aadmi to sambhal ke rakhna

Zyada ulta bolegi to aadmi to marega na

trans: men are dogs. Its a womans duty to keep her man straight. If she answers back he will naturally hit her

Originally posted by: Arshics

mera saras aayega,

apni kumud ko manayega

uska dil nahi dukhayega

hamari hot seat pe apna backside nahi jalayega

Originally posted by: happychappy

I dont know Arshi. This sort of comment is probably par for the course in some parts of India, but certainly not everywhere...

And why does SP have to pick on the worst situations to broadcast as the norm?😲

happy,, this is delhi upper middle class . A real case of a woman who wanted to opt out.

Of course there are families which are supportive. But we still are closdd minded as a society..

so if the judge in small town suggests go back to your husband I wouldnt be surprised.
Anyway divorce laws say a period of seperation where tjet are supposed to attempt reconciliation is advised

Originally posted by: Arshics

happy,, this is delhi upper middle class . A real case of a woman who wanted to opt out.

Of course there are families which are supportive. But we still are closdd minded as a society..

so if the judge in small town suggests go back to your husband I wouldnt be surprised.
Anyway divorce laws say a period of seperation where tjet are supposed to attempt reconciliation is advised

Originally posted by: happychappy

Where I come from, this doesnt seem to be the case. Have mentioned this before; my maasi got a divorce 50 plus years ago and lived happily ever after as a self-supporting professional woman and raised two daughters, even in some ways lived a fuller life than her happily-married sister (my mum). These days, the younger generation seems to marry later and later and divorce is commonplace, almost casual(!) as well.

Kerala is probably the other end of the spectrum, and not something the TRP segment would relate to... Still, no reason for SP to be stuck in the rut! If they can't live up to their Nayi Soch slogan, they should remove it, pronto!

Edit - Is it reasonable to advise reconciliation with a spouse who has tried to murder you twice? makes No Sense!

true the legal system has a lot of limitations.
and grim reality maybe but we love kumud becos she is a fighter and so thats what even now she must do

and desais are a thinking caring family who could support dukhba then

so kumud now is not alone and no matter what society at large says

she is not alone and she has a family and a boy friend who are with her


So again I feel judge saying go back is bad but a reality

kumud going back would be criminal because we dont relate to the judge

she is wrong. We relate to kumud. She has to stand her ground

in fact villagers and mohan ki ma ka stand doesnt bother me az ig reflects social mindset and they are only seing what pramaad is showing them

Kumud has to fight for herself because in her victory lies the inspiratioon for and the message and the soch

hwr family and saras have to stand behind her choice to be free of pramad

Originally posted by: Arshics

true the legal system has a lot of limitations.
and grim reality maybe but we love kumud becos she is a fighter and so thats what even now she must do

and desais are a thinking caring family who could support dukhba then

so kumud now is not alone and no matter what society at large says

she is not alone and she has a family and a boy friend who are with her


So again I feel judge saying go back is bad but a reality

kumud going back would be criminal because we dont relate to the judge

she is wrong. We relate to kumud. She has to stand her ground

in fact villagers and mohan ki ma ka stand doesnt bother me az ig reflects social mindset and they are only seing what pramaad is showing them

Kumud has to fight for herself because in her victory lies the inspiratioon for and the message and the soch

hwr family and saras have to stand behind her choice to be free of pramad

Thanku Arshi, after such episodes ur the only one who saves th day,

Originally posted by: annete

exactly kumud is not alone ...when will she realise that ...where did the new kickass kumud go today...i want her back n ripped that idiots head off in the court tomorrow..😡

heh guy what did u want saras to say?he follows her around like a puppy dog the whole day...he offer support .she wants to fight her own battles..he leaves her alone..we dont like it...

HES THERE..LYING FOR HER..BESIDE HER ...how much more committed can one be...baacha ki jaan loge kaya...btw jaan bhi de de the usne 😆