Abuse and abd by or vice versa,@ where do u fit in

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Why the abuse..
Orgin of abuse


Types of Abuse

Where am ...in verbal abuse..vice versa in life of responblities..
What can I do ..avoid sarrow bcoz ,one in sarrow sharing her make r more sarrow,for the timid day I will be her happy ..make her happy by sharing joy...can I do more...

Abuse and domestic abuse go hand in hand. There are many types of abuse, including:

Verbal abuse
includes name-calling, telling you that you are worthless, that you are a bad parent, shouting, constantly interrupting, telling other people that you are crazy, blaming you for the abuse.
Emotional abuse
includes threats, isolation, manipulation, insults, destruction of property, public humiliation, and accusations of affairs, threats of suicide, self injury, or homicide if you leave
Physical abuse
includes any forceful behavior such as hitting, choking, slapping, using weapons, driving recklessly, holding you down, and preventing you from leaving.


Anjali---- Sojal, Aastha,
Anjali --- kavya
Jyothi---- abhay, thaayi.
Shlok love and arranged marraige .

Consider arrange marriage ..son or daughter marries for their parents wish kind of later likes.later when we say we married each other bcoz our parents wanted to.or the bride or groom say we r married bocz of parents where is our realtion and realtionship, the only legal of marriage in rituals.

A boy liked a girl and fallowed her and married her bcoz he liked her and made her fall in love...many love stories showed romantically not by revenge.

Solutions or pathway.will upd apt pics in few.. I show
By suchi /sg2013
I am trying to fight something , abuse or betray ? Which is worst and what when both are there? How do you get back all that you have lost when you are being abused and lost the trust you had in theta person. The very basis of a relationship. I see Astha saving the house and ah look still watching. So yes she will forgive him , but can she really or she going to do it to save her house?

Some symbols in today's episode,

Sojal's mother throwing the rice - society looking down at you. Something Shlok could not see as according to his modern views this whole paschyatap was wrong and I agree with it. so he showed his resistance by saying he equally responsible for it .

The pouring of the milk and water - obviously for purification. Shlok will need that again at some point and it is to be seen if Astha will be there with him at that time.

Only women responsible for all the paap. Horrible thought that needs to be thrown out and Shlok actually did it by pouring the milk and water on himself. They were saying the surya mantra at that time praying to Aditya and prabhakar meaning Surya.

The fruits of soubhaya falling and Shlok not helping her then but just watching , shows he will do the same for some time now till he does his paschyatap.

The mandap falling indicates fall of the house, , the Agnihotri mansion, NA's domain by Astha so NA is so worried. The world that he has created is going to break into pieces due to Astha. So he is telling Anjali to tame this lioness.

Sojal's mother stealing Astha's ornaments and not being caught by Varad shows that She will help Sojal to steal Astha's happiness and although Varad will know that he will not speak up.

No Chachu today. I wanted him today.

Kalindi and Avadhoot going away without taking the prasad of Satyanarayan - and leaving in between shows that they will not be there to help Astha and they themselves will be responsible for it as they walked away on their own.


Tai Attyaa caught in the whirlpool of traditions although I feel is purposely doing this so that Shlok will go against it . She has been bearing the wrath of these old traditions living as a widow, most likely child widow.

I do think there should be a thread on abuse or betray which is worst or both?
Let me know your views.


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neuchari thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well compared...to future events
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Originally posted by: neuchari

Very well compared...to future events


Thank you
Helpless and pain for absued by..we did this suchi.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hey Madhu ,
Very beautiful description with pictures of different types of abuse. May be you can do something on betray but after Friday's episode.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sg2013

Hey Madhu ,

Very beautiful description with pictures of different types of abuse. May be you can do something on betray but after Friday's episode.


Betrayal in the sense of capturing ... I agree shlok is nit abusuve..just manhandling..
Thanks for lol me in your manner.

Hey all videos removed of today episode why...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome Post with Pictures

Astha's parents going away without taking Prasad indicates that they will not be able to help Astha and they also will face agony (for their daughter Astha who is newly wed and who will face lots of problems in the coming weeks.)




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Love the way you have shown the type abuse the Agnihotri men are upto. Despite the level of torture the imposed on their women, it is still abuse. They should also project on the women to women torture, not only men to women. Will skip the epis till next week, only reading the forum, can't see the little girl crying.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wonderful post madhu , the different types of abuse explained with pics heart touching.
We do see these in our society but ignore saying helpless , astha is in the same trap as Anjali . How she fights back is what we are waiting to see . The spoilers for tomorrow upset us .
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Very good analysis personally I feel abuse is relatively easier to come out from. Today u have support systems n all to help u come out of it. Since abuse can produce evidences they can be proved. So if u choose u can use those evidences n save urselves. Others will support u.

But betrayal?
in betrayal, u r the one who trusted n u r the one who lost...can one trust themselves ever again? building self reliance after a betrayal is so hard. If u turn to someone, they'll only say I told u so. Therefore a person is completely left alone to build themselves back. It takes a very high amount of courage n faith to bounce back n shine again . It is not impossible but very difficult compared to coming out of an abuSe.

If one is abused, but if they get love n trust of someone else, the abuse will fade away.

If u r betrayed, then it becomes difficult to trust even if a very true love comes to u again

That's what makes the difference I think.

Do capture betrayal after Fridays epi. I hope asthas upbringing n self reliance takes her out of that betrayal shell.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SaiS

Awesome Post with Pictures


Astha's parents going away without taking Prasad indicates that they will not be able to help Astha and they also will face agony (for their daughter Astha who is newly wed and who will face lots of problems in the coming weeks.)


They going not saying to,Aastha meant she or they will not know anything.l.ajju is back...and shlok r going to ajju or for,other purpose.

He said it in sbs.too.
Thank you ,half credit to suchi..sg2013. She is on this forum since morning to heel sarrowness.


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