Why the abuse..
Orgin of abuse
Types of Abuse
Where am ...in verbal abuse..vice versa in life of responblities..
What can I do ..avoid sarrow bcoz ,one in sarrow sharing her make r more sarrow,for the timid day I will be her happy ..make her happy by sharing joy...can I do more...
Abuse and domestic abuse go hand in hand. There are many types of abuse, including:
Verbal abuse
includes name-calling, telling you that you are worthless, that you are a bad parent, shouting, constantly interrupting, telling other people that you are crazy, blaming you for the abuse.
Emotional abuse
includes threats, isolation, manipulation, insults, destruction of property, public humiliation, and accusations of affairs, threats of suicide, self injury, or homicide if you leave
Physical abuse
includes any forceful behavior such as hitting, choking, slapping, using weapons, driving recklessly, holding you down, and preventing you from leaving.
Anjali---- Sojal, Aastha,
Anjali --- kavya
Jyothi---- abhay, thaayi.
Shlok love and arranged marraige .
Consider arrange marriage ..son or daughter marries for their parents wish kind of later likes.later when we say we married each other bcoz our parents wanted to.or the bride or groom say we r married bocz of parents where is our realtion and realtionship, the only legal of marriage in rituals.
A boy liked a girl and fallowed her and married her bcoz he liked her and made her fall in love...many love stories showed romantically not by revenge.
Solutions or pathway.will upd apt pics in few.. I show
By suchi /sg2013
I am trying to fight something , abuse or betray ? Which is worst and what when both are there? How do you get back all that you have lost when you are being abused and lost the trust you had in theta person. The very basis of a relationship. I see Astha saving the house and ah look still watching. So yes she will forgive him , but can she really or she going to do it to save her house?
Some symbols in today's episode,
Sojal's mother throwing the rice - society looking down at you. Something Shlok could not see as according to his modern views this whole paschyatap was wrong and I agree with it. so he showed his resistance by saying he equally responsible for it .
The pouring of the milk and water - obviously for purification. Shlok will need that again at some point and it is to be seen if Astha will be there with him at that time.
Only women responsible for all the paap. Horrible thought that needs to be thrown out and Shlok actually did it by pouring the milk and water on himself. They were saying the surya mantra at that time praying to Aditya and prabhakar meaning Surya.
The fruits of soubhaya falling and Shlok not helping her then but just watching , shows he will do the same for some time now till he does his paschyatap.
The mandap falling indicates fall of the house, , the Agnihotri mansion, NA's domain by Astha so NA is so worried. The world that he has created is going to break into pieces due to Astha. So he is telling Anjali to tame this lioness.
Sojal's mother stealing Astha's ornaments and not being caught by Varad shows that She will help Sojal to steal Astha's happiness and although Varad will know that he will not speak up.
No Chachu today. I wanted him today.
Kalindi and Avadhoot going away without taking the prasad of Satyanarayan - and leaving in between shows that they will not be there to help Astha and they themselves will be responsible for it as they walked away on their own.
Tai Attyaa caught in the whirlpool of traditions although I feel is purposely doing this so that Shlok will go against it . She has been bearing the wrath of these old traditions living as a widow, most likely child widow.
I do think there should be a thread on abuse or betray which is worst or both?
Let me know your views.
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Edited by Sg2013 - 20 November 2013 at 6:41pm Edited by Prasai - 11 years ago