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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loving kumud and changing/reform are completely different things. He is evil at the core. And anyone can start falling for anyone at any time.
Simple thing is, if he is a changed person will he ruin kumud's sister's alliance by barging in a drunk state? And create ruckus. Is that any sign of reform? He acted on kalika's invite. Humanitarian considerations are at the core of being good. Khud jiyo auron ko bhi jeene do. See what khoti kaki said to kumud for nth time. And what VC underwent. Seeing vC n kumud was so painful and sad.

He definitely has different feelings for kumud now. That too because of his suffering alone. Not because he has changed. Its need-based. Suddenly, he says meri kumud and 'pati'. Pati word ka mat lab hai lord. There is another word 'bhartaa' that is used in south Indian languages for husband. It strictly translates to husband. And means one who nourishes and 'jo bharan karta hai' - one who carries wife n her responsibilities.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

Loving kumud and changing/reform are completely different things. He is evil at the core. And anyone can start falling for anyone at any time.

Simple thing is, if he is a changed person will he ruin kumud's sister's alliance by barging in a drunk state? And create ruckus. Is that any sign of reform? He acted on kalika's invite. Humanitarian considerations are at the core of being good. Khud jiyo auron ko bhi jeene do. See what khoti kaki said to kumud for nth time. And what VC underwent. Seeing vC n kumud was so painful and sad.

He definitely has different feelings for kumud now. That too because of his suffering alone. Not because he has changed. Its need-based. Suddenly, he says meri kumud and 'pati'. Pati word ka mat lab hai lord. There is another word 'bhartaa' that is used in south Indian languages for husband. It strictly translates to husband. And means one who nourishes and 'jo bharan karta hai' - one who carries wife n her responsibilities.



Maybe it's due to his repentance, maybe he's just needy, maybe he just wants her because she left him for Saras,

Reason Jo bhi ho.

Santhi, love is a complex emotion , one . It's very difficult to define love or cast it into right or wrong.

Two, it's love because the people concerned believe its love.

So whether kusum loves Saras really or not, or pramaad really loves Kumud or not, is not of import here.

These two believe its love and that's what is guiding their actions.

Pramaad did not go there to cause ruckus, he went there to meet Kumud, so he did not go on kalikas invite, he walked into her trap.

And if you see, this was not the old pramaad, who insulted Kumud, this was a contrite pramaad.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arshics


Maybe it's due to his repentance, maybe he's just needy, maybe he just wants her because she left him for Saras,

Reason Jo bhi ho.

Santhi, love is a complex emotion , one . It's very difficult to define love or cast it into right or wrong.

Two, it's love because the people concerned believe its love.

So whether kusum loves Saras really or not, or pramaad really loves Kumud or not, is not of import here.

These two believe its love and that's what is guiding their actions.

Pramaad did not go there to cause ruckus, he went there to meet Kumud, so he did not go on kalikas invite, he walked into her trap.

And if you see, this was not the old pramaad, who insulted Kumud, this was a contrite pramaad.


Arshi. He had information from kalika that ladke wale were coming. Then he decides to go at the same time that they are in haveli. Why would he time it like that. They show a fb of kalika's words ringing in his mind abt Kusum's rishta.For me it's clear that he doesn't care. Care is the word.

He is in love I agree. But I am trying to say it has no connection to change or reform or being good. Evil can also fall in love. Love is a complex emotion like you said.

I am trying to look at pramad as a person or a human being. I think saras is a good person not because he loves kumud. Because of some qualities like care n compassion etc.

Again all I am trying to say is that, pramad falling in love doesn't make him good person. And falling in love is not a yardstick.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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khudkhushi haraam hai saheb
meri maano to ishq kar lo.😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pasumarthisa


Arshi. He had information from kalika that ladke wale were coming. Then he decides to go at the same time that they are in haveli. Why would he time it like that. They show a fb of kalika's words ringing in his mind abt Kusum's rishta.For me it's clear that he doesn't care. Care is the word.

He is in love I agree. But I am trying to say it has no connection to change or reform or being good. Evil can also fall in love. Love is a complex emotion like you said.

I am trying to look at pramad as a person or a human being. I think saras is a good person not because he loves kumud. Because of some qualities like care n compassion etc.

Again all I am trying to say is that, pramad falling in love doesn't make him good person. And falling in love is not a yardstick.



So true, being in love and being good are not correlated. His roughing up the villagers today proves both - that he loves Kumud and he is still the goonda he always was.

My pity for him is also because of his pitiable attempts to hold on to his pride. All he has is a facade. Deep down now he knows he's finished, but he continues to pretend to be the same old pramaad.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arshics


So true, being in love and being good are not correlated. His roughing up the villagers today proves both - that he loves Kumud and he is still the goonda he always was.

My pity for him is also because of his pitiable attempts to hold on to his pride. All he has is a facade. Deep down now he knows he's finished, but he continues to pretend to be the same old pramaad.


Agree on that arshi. There is repentance on what he lost. And that false bravado n clinging to his pride. Its a little real-what he is going through.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: annete

khudkhushi haraam hai saheb

meri maano to ishq kar lo.😆
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Subhan allah
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Even If she wants to help Pramaad (why she would do that beats me since he is a rapist, murderer, etc etc), she BETTER do that with Saras's help and approval...she is virtually married to Saras now!!!

Else, shame on CVs for killing Kumud's characterization again after trying (and succeeding) in lending credibility and consistency to her character last few weeks.!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mini7

Even If she wants to help Pramaad (why she would do that beats me since he is a rapist, murderer, etc etc), she BETTER do that with Saras's help and approval...she is virtually married to Saras now!!!

Else, shame on CVs for killing Kumud's characterization again after trying (and succeeding) in lending credibility and consistency to her character last few weeks.!!


I don't think it's killing Kumud's character mini, infact if she had been unaffected I would have been surprised.

Now how she deals with the news is what is to be seen. If she decides to help him, yet be with Saras , then that should be ok .

Anyway the first reaction to someone who's been a part of your life dying is of shock

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