Gauhar, A Bully ! - Page 2

Originally posted by: wickedkid

She is a bully! And she is a very skilled one. She targets strategically and often leverages intimidation to achieve her goals.

I'm no Sangram fan. Gauhar is very capable of only selecting dominant/favourable contexts and choosing the apt bullying behaviours in causing psychological pain for her targets.

All these weeks, it is very clear that her political skills as a bully are very sharp; she is able to recognize and sway power differentials & effectively use that knowledge to influence others in the house to act the way she attains her personal objectives. Kushal is a bully but she has influenced him to a very large extent for her own benefit. Her influence attempts are sometimes seen as genuine & sincere by her victims in the house rather than motivated by personal ambition; but by doing this, she has build broad & strong networks to facilitate her goals. Then there is a systematic aggressive behaviour with repetitive offensive remarks till the other person withdraws.

Bullying at it's worst is 'The crying', 'howling' and 'fainting' towards the end of every situation; it is a competence to put pressure & to get hold of a losing ground - a best way to describe - ''Bully pretends to be a Victim''. Because we all know, compassionate instinct wins over self interest.

Originally posted by: MsCeylon

I don't know whether she is a bully or not but I really feel she is stupid...

She seems to have a tendency to talk in everyone's matters... keeping quiet and observe the rest would have been a shrewder way to play the game... like Ellie... I think she plays well

Even Tanisha is playing well by portraying her self as 'abla naari' who takes all slain remarks from Armaan but in reality she is just using him as her bodyguard, now this is called master mind and makes the game worth watching 😆

When will the rest of the inmates start really playing this game... 😕

Originally posted by: raj5000

WOW @ bold, sounds like transcripts on wild life behaviors right out from discovery channel... in simple terms I can describe same as being irritating and highly mean, selfish tactics...