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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: DevilClan

Atleast pabho is better than her becoz she is completely evil for madhu yet she had confidence in her and praised madhu when she completed the task.


Agree with you, because Pabho is an evil and she admit that time to time to dipali, yet she knew that Madhu will walk extra mile for RK. But this Mrs. Kukku Bhatia is a gone case woman from her early life. She brings boredom in the leaving room!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Poluk


Sayu just answer one question - what is the duty of a mother?

1. Protect her child at any cost - even that of her life. When has Radhaji fulfilled that duty? When did she protect her child? Her social obligations have always superseded her maternal duty.

2 She forces her child (not actively but by maintaining relationship with Bhatias) to stay with them in a house. That inspite of knowing how badly they are injuring her child.

3. She does not understand her son's feelings. She let Dipali and Sicky stay in the same house without realising the hurt and humiliation it must have caused her son intially. A mother is supposed to read her child's expressions. This mother can't.

4. Her love and feelings are there but are fickle.

5. She has no brain and no ideologies and personal beliefs, no mental strength. If she had only been angry that MB had not checked the knife it would have been ok but no she was of the firm belief that MB was unlucky for her son.

6. Real love is not so fickle. She was good for MB only till she was beneficial for her.

In my opinion she is a very selfish and self centered person and not at all a good mother. She does love her child but that love is burdened under her selfishness and her priority for her social image.


Thanks Poluk for bringing this point, yes, she knew that Dipali and RK had relationship, than Dipali betrayed RK and married Sikky, how humiliating was that to RK ??? Did ever that dumb mother realizes her son's feelings??? How she allowed those two stay in RK's mansion.
Only for this heartless thing some son will through their mother along with those betrayer from the house without any further question 😡.
She failed RK as a mother every time. I wish this time she gets what she deserves!!! 🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: NeelM



I got your points Sayu.. it is not about this incidence!! I thought about that too, that Madhu at least should check the knife before doing the scene.
The points I gave was about Radhaji taking wrong decision or wrong side all her life. Check my post, I ever utter about stabbing fiasco.
If she was not so bitter with Madhu by listening crap from Pabho, she would've been trust Madhu and both could've been cry together or worried together.
She needs to have faith that how much Madhu loves RK and what she did for RK previously, but NO, because she is bitter for no reason truly, now instead of standing together and sharing the pain, what she is doing!!!
She knew Madhu gave her blood to RK to save his life. And she is the same Madhu, only Radha ji cannot see it, because she became so blind with listening to crap, because she has no brain of her own.


Neel , I read ur post & I got u analysed her life long deeds... I'm just amused to see the timing...till now she was all like poor woman whose son doesn care about her , such a good hearted lady who loves & supports her DIL so much , an exact example of MIL etc etc ...but just when she turned her back towards Madhu , all these past incidents r now being analysed from new point of view 😆

Well , its not like I'm a big fan of her & find her every action right... Of course she shouldn have fallen in pabo's nakshatra trap , but again , she's an aged lady , who believes in all these . She's not a rare species , in India , maximum aged ppl believe on all these .

About Madhu loving RK...yes , she knows it & its not like she has any grudge against Madhu . If I remember correctly (correct me if I'm wrong) she begged pabo not to put Madhu through all these Nivaran thingy...when Madhu returned with rat bites , she was hell worried & again asked pabo to stop all these . But the thing is slowly slowly her resistance weakened , now she's putting all the things together , which yaa... I agree pabo made the process faster . She is just counting all the incidents...

1. Madhu's father shot RK . Madhu giving blood doesn change the fact it was her father who tried to kill RK

2. The Ballu fiasco also happened bcoz of Madhu . That day RK almost died while saving Madhu from Ballu...he was even admitted to hospital .

3. The whole Sultan fiasco happened bcoz of Madhu...

4. Getting banned was Sullu fiasco's aftereffect

5. Now this stabbing...
How much more wl she stand ? Her toleration power isn't infinity 🥱 She kept mum in above all conditions , but now this stabbing thing was just too much ...the girl for whom she always faught , whom she always supported is herself saying ma I stabbed him with a knife ! This time she couldn keep silence anymore , which is quiet normal for a human .
But as if she did a crime , now everyone , even my friends r trying to prove her a vamp & for that even her past deeds (with which till now no one had any problem) are being dragged & being analysed with new theory 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Poluk

Sayu just answer one question - what is the duty of a mother?[/DIV]

1. Protect her child at any cost - even that of her life. When has Radhaji fulfilled that duty? When did she protect her child? Her social obligations have always superseded her maternal duty.

2 She forces her child (not actively but by maintaining relationship with Bhatias) to stay with them in a house. That inspite of knowing how badly they are injuring her child.

3. She does not understand her son's feelings. She let Dipali and Sicky stay in the same house without realising the hurt and humiliation it must have caused her son intially. A mother is supposed to read her child's expressions. This mother can't.

4. Her love and feelings are there but are fickle.

5. She has no brain and no ideologies and personal beliefs, no mental strength. If she had only been angry that MB had not checked the knife it would have been ok but no she was of the firm belief that MB was unlucky for her son.

6. Real love is not so fickle. She was good for MB only till she was beneficial for her.

In my opinion she is a very selfish and self centered person and not at all a good mother. She does love her child but that love is burdened under her selfishness and her priority for her social image.



Shru , can u answer me , why all these theories r popping out NOW ?? Why no one blamed her or called her selfish or dumb or whatever u all calling her now a days when she was supporting Madhu , even going against her own son ? Why these analysises r coming now ? 😆 simple ! Coz this time she refused to support Madhu . Even if u don't admit this is the truth .

About marrying Bhatia , well obviously she didn do it for her own pleasure right ? She did it so that RK doesn feel the absence of his father , he gets someone to call Dad . Now RK & Kukku didn get well , thats another story & bcoz RK & kukku couldn share a sweet happy happy relation she can't really leave Kukkuji , whom she married , right ?

About controlling who wl stay in that house & who won't...first answer me does that lady even has that much power in that house ?? Her elder DIL openly blackmails her , her son doesn talk to her ...she doesn have more power than a servant in that house . & after RK getting banned , she wanted to leave the house along with Bhatias , but RK stopped her .


About believing Madhu being unlucky to RK , as far as I remember she was against all these Nivaran thingy...she tried to make Pabo understand that Madhu can't b unlucky for RK , if I remember correctly she begged Pabo not to put Madhu through all these nivaran process , when Madhu returned with rat bites , she was hell worried & again asked Pabo to stop all these . But she can't neglect the facts which r open to her eyes . Just think about these incidents -
1. Ganpati shoot out track of last year
2. Ballu fiasco
3. Sullu drama
4. Amar Behel drama
5. now stabbing...
U admit or not , but the fact is for all the above things directly or indirectly Madhu was responsible . Its not like Madhu is unlucky to RK , its just simple plain thing , UNWILLINGLY & UNKNOWINGLY (plz note this 2 words) Madhu is doing harm to RK . Thats why she's now literally gave up on Madhu . Every time by stupidity or carelessness Madhu brought problems in RK's life... but she always kept mum . But for how long ? At one point every thing crosses its tolerance limit , & so Madhu did for her . Not being able to forgive Madhu for such a scandalous mistake , I don't this it makes her "selfish" or "self centred" person . She wasn't one...she always supported Madhu no matter what , but this time it was just too much !

Anyway I won't argue anymore . I don't like fighting , specially with friends . Bye 😳
Waise bhi I rarely comment in any post now a days , bas ye Neel ki post dekhi toh thought to comment...but...anyways ...bye & happy diwali 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: valar

😡Madhu is new to industry. after MC & RK Said knife was fake,so she completely believed it.

How She will check it?


Simple ! Just by pressing the tip of the knife & seeing if the blade is going inside or rigid 😆
Just pressing the tip of the knife b4 doing such scenes , doesn't take experience in film industry , it just takes a little sense of caution 🥱

& I did say , it wasn't only Madhu's fault , but MC & that Spot's fault too . B4 shouting with red face check the logics .
Bye & happy diwali 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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good post neel 😊hate padhaji now 😡she's useless 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: _Evil_Angel_


Neel , I read ur post & I got u analysed her life long deeds... I'm just amused to see the timing...till now she was all like poor woman whose son doesn care about her , such a good hearted lady who loves & supports her DIL so much , an exact example of MIL etc etc ...but just when she turned her back towards Madhu , all these past incidents r now being analysed from new point of view 😆

Well , its not like I'm a big fan of her & find her every action right... Of course she shouldn have fallen in pabo's nakshatra trap , but again , she's an aged lady , who believes in all these . She's not a rare species , in India , maximum aged ppl believe on all these .

About Madhu loving RK...yes , she knows it & its not like she has any grudge against Madhu . If I remember correctly (correct me if I'm wrong) she begged pabo not to put Madhu through all these Nivaran thingy...when Madhu returned with rat bites , she was hell worried & again asked pabo to stop all these . But the thing is slowly slowly her resistance weakened , now she's putting all the things together , which yaa... I agree pabo made the process faster . She is just counting all the incidents...

1. Madhu's father shot RK . Madhu giving blood doesn change the fact it was her father who tried to kill RK

2. The Ballu fiasco also happened bcoz of Madhu . That day RK almost died while saving Madhu from Ballu...he was even admitted to hospital .

3. The whole Sultan fiasco happened bcoz of Madhu...

4. Getting banned was Sullu fiasco's aftereffect

5. Now this stabbing...
How much more wl she stand ? Her toleration power isn't infinity 🥱 She kept mum in above all conditions , but now this stabbing thing was just too much ...the girl for whom she always faught , whom she always supported is herself saying ma I stabbed him with a knife ! This time she couldn keep silence anymore , which is quiet normal for a human .
But as if she did a crime , now everyone , even my friends r trying to prove her a vamp & for that even her past deeds (with which till now no one had any problem) are being dragged & being analysed with new theory 😳

Sayu dear, because we are friends and so we can argue which will never turn to fight 😃, we are just sharing our views... Truce 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: Chitrarocking

good post neel 😊hate padhaji now 😡she's useless 😆


Thanks Chitra, she is useless woman with wrong judgements!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Evil_Angel_



Shru , can u answer me , why all these theories r popping out NOW ?? Why no one blamed her or called her selfish or dumb or whatever u all calling her now a days when she was supporting Madhu , even going against her own son ? Why these analysises r coming now ? 😆 simple ! Coz this time she refused to support Madhu . Even if u don't admit this is the truth .

About marrying Bhatia , well obviously she didn do it for her own pleasure right ? She did it so that RK doesn feel the absence of his father , he gets someone to call Dad . Now RK & Kukku didn get well , thats another story & bcoz RK & kukku couldn share a sweet happy happy relation she can't really leave Kukkuji , whom she married , right ?

About controlling who wl stay in that house & who won't...first answer me does that lady even has that much power in that house ?? Her elder DIL openly blackmails her , her son doesn talk to her ...she doesn have more power than a servant in that house . & after RK getting banned , she wanted to leave the house along with Bhatias , but RK stopped her .


About believing Madhu being unlucky to RK , as far as I remember she was against all these Nivaran thingy...she tried to make Pabo understand that Madhu can't b unlucky for RK , if I remember correctly she begged Pabo not to put Madhu through all these nivaran process , when Madhu returned with rat bites , she was hell worried & again asked Pabo to stop all these . But she can't neglect the facts which r open to her eyes . Just think about these incidents -
1. Ganpati shoot out track of last year
2. Ballu fiasco
3. Sullu drama
4. Amar Behel drama
5. now stabbing...
U admit or not , but the fact is for all the above things directly or indirectly Madhu was responsible . Its not like Madhu is unlucky to RK , its just simple plain thing , UNWILLINGLY & UNKNOWINGLY (plz note this 2 words) Madhu is doing harm to RK . Thats why she's now literally gave up on Madhu . Every time by stupidity or carelessness Madhu brought problems in RK's life... but she always kept mum . But for how long ? At one point every thing crosses its tolerance limit , & so Madhu did for her . Not being able to forgive Madhu for such a scandalous mistake , I don't this it makes her "selfish" or "self centred" person . She wasn't one...she always supported Madhu no matter what , but this time it was just too much !

Anyway I won't argue anymore . I don't like fighting , specially with friends . Bye 😳
Waise bhi I rarely comment in any post now a days , bas ye Neel ki post dekhi toh thought to comment...but...anyways ...bye & happy diwali 😊


Happy Diwali Sayu.😊

Sayu just want to say a few words about Radha. I on my part have never supported her. Have always found her dumb and selfish. May be being a mother myself I can see and analyse all the lapses of maternal duty by her.

Yes did not criticise her when she was supporting RK and MB because there was nothing to criticise. Also Kuku's disappearance for around 6 months and Sikky being made a comedian had lessened the angst one feels towards her because the effects of her behaviour and decisions were not visible.

At times in life one has to take tough decisions. one cannot be an ostrich. If she had ever shown one ounce of an inclination to get rid of the Bhatia clan, RK would have been the first to kick them out. He hates them.She has no compunctions about trying to break her son's marriage but cannot break her own?

Yes women like her don't break marriages but she had a child to consider which I am sorry to say she never did. She made an error of judgement but should have corrected it when she realised her mistake. The sins of Bhatia family kept on piling, her son kept on getting hurt and she kept silent. No mother does that. She was not financially dependent on the Bhatias.

At least she could have separated from Kuku. Even uneducated women separate from their husbands if he is abusive towards their child. Emotional abuse is as bad as physical. Dont think about RK the superstar who can give it back. Think about the weak 14 year old.

She even plays nice with Dipali to preserve her goody image.

And regarding no one listens to her, she doesnot make an effort to be heard. She is happy with her laid back attitude where she cannot be blamed for anything. Not taking required decisions is also shirking of one's responsibilities.

No one is saying MB is not stupid. She has been shown to be one hell of an impulsive foolish person. But her own son and dead husband had equal hand in whatever happened. Why exonerate them and blame only the DIL? At least have the guts to accept your child's mistakes.

Only Bullu drama was the sole act of MB. Rest all were directly/indirectly caused/promoted by her own son and his arrogance.

And one last thing Sayu this is not fighting, this is time pass discussion between friends😊 Afterall being friends doesnot imply agreeing or thinking alike on every point😊. We are not mocking/degrading each other just discussing views. So why worry. Lets continue happily.😊
Edited by Poluk - 11 years ago

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