anandi a misfit in shekhars family? - Page 8

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

No 2 persons can be similar. If Jagya has some defects, he also has some positive points.
Saving women in distress and expecting nothing from them.

He got engaged or married to women he saved. He may not have expectations but this always ends up happening!😆

He expects nothing, he just gives of himself.

Originally posted by: redapple1

Yes leaves. All the characters have positive and negative points. I just tried to bring the contrast between two heros. One is on one extreme for being there for his sis (even though she is wrong) and the other on the other extreme forgetting about her existence. 😃

I think for some time Shiv had also forgotten he had a sister, which is why she is taking revenge and he is also serving her cause to make up for ignoring her earlier!🤣

Main uska bhai tha aur main kuch nahin kar saka? Mera pappu ban gaya? Revenge! Court case!🤪

Originally posted by: Picasso9

Sorry, but this is how I see it.

Similar to Anandi, Ganga is of a rural background, also suppressed, actually abused and tortured even more. So it is quite easy to make an educated guess that to a girl like Ganga, having congenial relationship with in laws especially mother in law is also top most desire. How can you say she is attached to only one person. Jagya comes with a whole extended family. A family that she received shelter from. Obviously she has attachment to that family as well. Actually her attachment COULD be to the point of worship because she never had a family like that. Sumitra treated her worse than Ira ever treated Anandi (calling her baasi Phool, abshagun). Doesn't those abuses point to her tortuous past of being raped over and over again.

Anandi is not completely alone, like Ganga has certain members supporting her, so too, Anandi has CM supporting her and Alok speaking for her and Daddu sometimes hushing Ira like DS does Sumi.

Anandi is appeasing them by being silent to all the abuse. Just looking on with tearfilled eyes. Standing with trays, serving them, telling them they are not wrong in how they are feeling. Telling them she understands why they are feeling the way they do, but leaving things incomplete. She is appeasing them by not giving her decision of yay or nay for support but buying time. What's the use of springing it on them in the court?

Don't bring her tortured past in this. A person who has been tortured so badly will not enter into romantic relationship so soon nor trust people easily, especially of opposite sex. Ganga moved on pretty quickly.

So okay, I accept she is really strong. Compared to likes of Anandi, Phooli, Sugna, Gehna, Asha, Gauri even - who took long to get over their past or whose trauma got the better of them.

She has foremost desire of acceptance from MIL? That will be fulfilled. She is not going against her. Rather defending her son.

This is a chance for her to prove her worth to Singhs and of course, to save her husband.

She has absolutely nothing to lose in her decisions or actions in this case.

So she is more assured.

In case of Anandi, she mostly waited for them or tried to convince them to change their decision. And she is under intense pressure because her husband is not with her as of now.

It is about who a woman has to live with - that makes her assured or unsure. In case of Ganga, even if Sumitra detests her, still her husband is with her (I mean support). Her Bapusa is with her. In Anandi's case, the ones who she has to live with, are not with her except CM who cries with her or gives her shoulder to lean on. Alok has spoken to Ira in Anandi's absence. Anandi does not know if anyone is with her except CM.

Anandi has obligations to both families and something to lose no matter what. So she is unsure.

What appeasement? Ganga also tolerates abuse of Sumitra silently! And if she were at their home, she too would be doing some housework around as she now does at Lal Singh's house!

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

I just want to ask how do you know mahi and ashima had one night stand ?

I am not talking about anandi here. What's wrong in ashima and mahi doing whatever they want with their each other consent ? It's not they r forcing on each other. There is no need to tell it to family.

It makes sense only if they tell it to their future life partners about the incident as its good to tell past affairs. There is no characterless in it. They r not married or engaged to other people to call them characterless.

Come on! They were holding each other. Look at the BGM, camera and ultimately the picture they focused on and later how Ashima was angry and guilty.

ONS is like this only in Hindi serials. 😆

Okay, sleeping around before marriage is not characterlessness. According to you.

You are against Anandi feeling for her maika but find nothing wrong in ONS and still want to give benefit of doubt?

Shiv bhakti is okay. Is Mahi bhakti a part of Shiv bhakti too? (No offense)

Originally posted by: Skepblun

Come on! They were holding each other. Look at the BGM, camera and ultimately the picture they focused on and later how Ashima was angry and guilty.

ONS is like this only in Hindi serials. 😆

Okay, sleeping around before marriage is not characterlessness. According to you.

You are against Anandi feeling for her maika but find nothing wrong in ONS and still want to give benefit of doubt?

Shiv bhakti is okay. Is Mahi bhakti a part of Shiv bhakti too? (No offense)

Originally posted by: Skepblun

Come on! They were holding each other. Look at the BGM, camera and ultimately the picture they focused on and later how Ashima was angry and guilty.

ONS is like this only in Hindi serials. 😆

Okay, sleeping around before marriage is not characterlessness. According to you.

You are against Anandi feeling for her maika but find nothing wrong in ONS and still want to give benefit of doubt?

Shiv bhakti is okay. Is Mahi bhakti a part of Shiv bhakti too? (No offense)

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leaves can i join the discussion ...are do you think i am misfit to discuss here 😊

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

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Originally posted by: Skepblun

Come on! They were holding each other. Look at the BGM, camera and ultimately the picture they focused on and later how Ashima was angry and guilty.

ONS is like this only in Hindi serials. 😆

Okay, sleeping around before marriage is not characterlessness. According to you.

You are against Anandi feeling for her maika but find nothing wrong in ONS and still want to give benefit of doubt?

Shiv bhakti is okay. Is Mahi bhakti a part of Shiv bhakti too? (No offense)