Why Jagya backed out?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I wish Jagya should have married sanchi as a challenge.

Why did he backout?

He could have married her and then tried to mould her or tame her.

Bravehearts accept challenges and dont backout.

Once he marries sanchi, Ira and co cant have that much hold on him and he can always do to them what they are now doing with anandi.

Marrying ganga means he wanted easy way out.

He has become a coward. And Bhairon is proud of him.😆


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Posted: 12 years ago
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ha ha good one leavesandwaves!!
Infact, I had been hoping the marriage would have gone through because it would have been fun to see saanchi's adjustment process within jayetsar and badi haveli. Her eventual clashes with sumitra and dadisa etc. And life as the hospital CEO which is the career path she had chosen for herself.

But on a more serious note, I really do believe that too many people believe that going through needless challenges and overcoming them makes them more "worthy" or deserving of a trophy -- like as if to say "look, I went through all this and I'm still standing!" trying to earn the applause of others.

I personally have come to the point in my life where I side-step issues. I dont see it as the easy way out. Rather I have a zen buddhist approach to it and call it "the path of least resistance" 😆😆😆.

Life is short. Why create unnecessary drama for oneself by inviting unwanted situations into one's life just to prove to other people that one is up to the challenge or be given a certificate by them as "brave".?

I lead a pretty easy life through my path of least resistance approach and keep my life simple. Others may see me as lazy, but I say who cares??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Basically jagya never tries to make his marriages work.

In anandi's case his lame excuse was child marriage. Whereas the real reason was adultery.

In Gauri's case, he always made her insecure by always thinking of his family and talking to anandi.

In sanchi's case, he made her believe that he is not averse to her and then dumped her. Just the way we dump trash without second thoughts.😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

ha ha good one leavesandwaves!!

Infact, I had been hoping the marriage would have gone through because it would have been fun to see saanchi's adjustment process within jayetsar and badi haveli. Her eventual clashes with sumitra and dadisa etc. And life as the hospital CEO which is the career path she had chosen for herself.

But on a more serious note, I really do believe that too many people believe that going through needless challenges and overcoming them makes them more "worthy" or deserving of a trophy -- like as if to say "look, I went through all this and I'm still standing!" trying to earn the applause of others.

I personally have come to the point in my life where I side-step issues. I dont see it as the easy way out. Rather I have a zen buddhist approach to it and call it "the path of least resistance" 😆😆😆.

Life is short. Why create unnecessary drama for oneself by inviting unwanted situations into one's life just to prove to other people that one is up to the challenge or be given a certificate by them as "brave".?

I lead a pretty easy life through my path of least resistance approach and keep my life simple. Others may see me as lazy, but I say who cares??



But we worship heroes and we want them to lead us.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



He has become a coward. And Bhairon is proud of him.😆



Avoiding danger is not cowardice 😆😆. It is smart. And Bhairon is proud that he is smart 😆😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



But we worship heroes and we want them to lead us.


Speak for yourself. I don't worship heroes and I don't want anyone to lead me.

I lead myself. I do what is best for myself. I am my own leader.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo


Avoiding danger is not cowardice 😆😆. It is smart. And Bhairon is proud that he is smart 😆😆



If Shekhars are fine with that danger, why cant Jagya? He just has to dance for her or make her dance for him.😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Basically jagya never tries to make his marriages work.

In anandi's case his lame excuse was child marriage. Whereas the real reason was adultery.

In Gauri's case, he always made her insecure by always thinking of his family and talking to anandi.

In sanchi's case, he made her believe that he is not averse to her and then dumped her.

I thought you liked thinking rational.

Anandhi changed herself for shiv. Did she do that when jaggiyya asked her to change for him? She only wanted to impress her in laws and she payed for her deeds. During his college days, When she knew jaggiyya hid his relationship with her in front of his friends, she said nothing about it at her house and she thought she was doing a favor. She screwed herself up, jaggiyya would have corrected himself once some action was taken. Anyway I hate that adultery track because they only showed anandhi suffering from child marraige.

With gauri, he was shown getting attracted to her. If she had any sense, even if jaggiyya was shown committing suicide she wouldn't budge. She did everything out of her greed. It's not at all entirely jaggiyyas fault. Like someone mentioned before gauri is the reason he had to talk to anandhi.

and please he did not dump saanchi. As a matter of fact she always felt that coldness coming from him. She is the one was playing games around him.

so please when you claim yourself a rational viewer of balika Vadhu you have to think from all the angles :)



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Basically jagya never tries to make his marriages work.

In anandi's case his lame excuse was child marriage. Whereas the real reason was adultery.

In Gauri's case, he always made her insecure by always thinking of his family and talking to anandi.

In sanchi's case, he made her believe that he is not averse to her and then dumped her. Just the way we dump trash without second thoughts.😆


True, but here I feel all the girls were at fault too -- by tolerating his behaviour, accommodating his lies and making excuses for him. They were 'enablers' to his behaviour. It takes to hands to clap...and each of these girls gave the second hand to his one-sided clap.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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good one @leaves 😉
well, i won't call him coward but practical for backing out 😆 if running away from sanchi is cowardice...i am okay with this aspect of his ...no point acting like mahaan atma...whats the point ? it will fail flat & pretty fast.

BS is more proud of him for trying to safeguard anandi's interests ! jagya did this with honest intentions, but would it help him & the case... 😕..ira has gone completely mad, shekhars wont bother about this gesture from jagya.

but shiv also knows that anandi is a witness to coffee shop incident & an important one for jagya !
interesting thing to watch would be shiv's reaction on jagya's statement, will he be relieved, jealous or appreciate him for that ! he himself has hidden this fact from the inspector...not fair on his part. so far shiv has been quite insensitive to anandi's interests in sanchi's case.

atleast, he should not be shocked if anandi supports jagya on this front...which she will...am sure.

tables have turned now, jagya is more worried about anandi than shiv in this case...whats going on 😆
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