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So, the more I think about it, the more opportunities Ira shows that she is not a good mother nor is the family really cared about Sanchi's future.
- When Sanchi tells Ira that Jagya is technically not married because he only put Sindoor in Ganga's maang not taken phera's with her, Ira took it and ran with it. Instead of showing Sanchi that if she insists on marrying Jagya now, her future will be bleak bec he will still love Ganga. You can't force someone to love you (Kind of like the saying, "You can lead a horse to the water but you can't make the horse drink it")
- Ira & the family agree with Sanchi and still are asking Dadisa that it's not too late & Jagya can still marry Sanchi. Did they think about the fact that to save "Izzat"/Respect, to make Sanchi happy now - in the short term, that they're really ruining her life in the long term. If the two couple are not happy now, what makes them think that the marriage will work in the long term? I know if my parents were in Ira & Alok's place, they would slap me for even thinking about a guy like Jagya after he "marries" someone else in my presence. (Not that they would slap me for real but you get the point).
- Shiv is disgusting. I understand he feels for his sister and is trying to defend her (I would expect the same from my brother) but at the same time, why is he also insistent that Jagya should still marry Sanchi? If you hate him that much, if you're pissed at him that much - then why?
- the biggest question the Shekhars should ask themselves - If you're daughter is suffering this much now (self-inflicted but nonetheless), do you really believe she will be happy in the future? IF Jagya can leave Sanchi even before marriage, he's divorced twice already, do you honestly believe he won't one day leave her too?
- Do the Shekhars give in to Sanchi's whims because it's easier for them to give in versus dealing with her tantrums? I hate their parenting style. They've spoiled Sanchi so much that if she doesn't feel like she's controlling everyone and everything around her, then everyone has to pay! The family never holds her accountable for her actions (i.e. when she wore the short skirt & lied). I understand she's said so many lies that the family doesn't know about but what about the ones that the family does know about? Instead of letting her know, if they disciplined her, she might have turned out a little more decent.
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