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That's it. Back to reading WU's instead of watching episodes.I am mad today at
1.Ganga primarily because of her dialogues. Seriously woman, he married you. Now stick by his side and help him through this instead of wanting to cut and run at the first site of trouble to him and you. I love you but I cannot handle this constant deluge of tears and self blame. Marriage to me is a pretty serious thing
Ranitha, I agree her todays' viewpoint seemed like she was not giving in, but I feel it's on the contrary her noble character wanting to stop tears of all the loved ones & the ones she respect by stepping out & on the side.
That said, do I agree with it?
Absolutely not, I think she needs to step up, like she always did & stand up for her love.
But it's also important to understand first where she coming from, I just wrote this in another Message, but I think there are many layers to Ganga which needs to be understated & highlighted.
Ganga is Baalika Vadhu who started her life journey plagued with physical - mental & emotional truma.
She was budding her growing up years amidst sadist of the choicest level.
Suffering had taken a new meaning in her very demure life.
Think about it, right there, at that tender age, she had NO one to look up to, guide her.
Next, her mother instincts get ignited with Mannu being born.
Now we see the durga roop of the erstwhile sedate attitude.
She tries to escape not once but multiple times so she can provide a better life for her child.
When she finally escapes after being beaten up brutally, she walks into BH & for the FIRST time in her adult life glimpse what being a human mean, having compassion means, being respected as a person means, living with dignity means...et al.
Amidst all this is her VERY special Dr. Sa who has a soft corner for this very brave yet extremely dignified & grounded person.
Love In the way of High regards & respect, blooms amidst all this & yet when she is faced with seeing her love getting stamped & stomped under the Jhooti-Saachi Saga, she bows out gracefully.
In this very guileless & unworldly mind, she is not EVEN a suitable candidate for her Dr. sa.
She ONCE again steps up & moves to new city & starts ALL over again, all by herself.
New place & no once to call her own to guide her.
Her emotional growth which has been stumped early on, ONCE again gets pushed back!
Back to the Current Saga.
She once again becomes victim of another animal instinct of a very nefarious man.
She stands up, protects herself & YET gets to be the scapegoat for being a nobody by the corporate world & put into jail.
When she is back to Jaisal at Jagya's insistence, she is pelted & charged with ALL possible Vile words & accusations.
Than, Jagya steps up & does the Maang-bharo-saajna act & all hell breaks loose.
The accusations become morbid & loathsome & she is looked at this grisly-grim-gory person who has destroyed EVERYONE's happiness!!!
Think about it, what would be the Confidence, faith, belief of such a person?
Her self-esteem has permanently deserted her & she is sinking into guilt & sorrow.
The feeling what is engulfing this fragile person right now is that her Drsaa would have been much better off without her presence in his life...
I feel amidst ALL this spectacle, Ganga has suffered the MOST, without an iota of respite. I hope some thoughts & care goes into blooming this character by CV's before it's too late.
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