IRA:
She is miffed with Anandi. "Tumhari himmat kaise hui Jetsar walon se rishta rakhne ki! Mere manaa karne ke bawajud!"
She hates Anandi for going against her. Or not taking her permission first. She's regretful why Shiv married Anandi.
She'll overlook any good deed done by Anandi and bash her no matter what.
SUMITRA:
Hates Ganga. Thinks she trapped Jagya. Will ignore her good deeds. Is madly livid why Ganga became bahu despite her diktat against her.
She loves her laado Anandi. Used her as an excuse to like Sanchi. And has now grown to like Sanchi like a laado as well.
Both were ignorant and indulgent mothers. Both haven't learnt anything. They still do more to ruin their kids and their spouses' lives by their constant meddling. Both nag everyone like crazy.
Both can't tolerate defiance or disagreement to their views anymore.
Both are hypocrites.
Sumitra has easily broken off with Jagya and Ganga. But said "aise kehne se rishte toot jaate hain kya" when she thought of Ira before calling up Anandi. 😲
Both are root cause of mess in their families and watering this weed called Sanchi!