Sexy Image, Respect guranteed or Not? - Page 2

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Posted: 18 years ago
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just because you wear short skirt....does not mean that u are looking for groping nor should that be tolerated. men should be able to respect women and not go after someone just because they wear something that they like. also for bipasha's case, she is an actress. just because she plays certain character and wears certain attire does not mean that she should be harrased. just my thoughts 😳
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Here you have to dissect of what it means to be sexy and why would somebody want to be that way and what are the associated ripple effects......there are lot of dynamics around this.. 😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: MNMS

Bipasha Basu : "I deserve respect"

Yesterday, news channels across the country splashed the story of Bipasha Basu being molested while in America.

According to the reports, Bipasha was to attend an India Day parade in Edison Township, New Jersey when two of the organisers misbehaved with her. She then came on stage and accused them of harassing her physically and mentally on the way to the function.

When we spoke to Bipasha yesterday, she explained that she wasn't molested. Instead, she was put off by the rude behaviour of the organisers.

What happened?

Bipasha was scheduled to lead the India Day parade as Grand Marshall, an event organised by the Indian Business Association, on August 13. She arrived late at the parade, which was flagged off at 3 pm.

Before the parade reached the venue, Bipasha appeared on stage and explained the delay. She apparently said, "I wanted to attend the parade, but I could not."

She was in the middle of explaining her reasons for not turning up for the parade, when the organisers tried to cut her speech short. But Bipasha is not the type to be deterred.

In her gutsy style, she continued, "I come from a profession that deserves respect. I deserve respect," she said. At this point, one of the organisers intervened, and she stopped speaking.

Badly organised

When we contacted Bipasha, this is what she had to say. "I think everyone has gone mad making a mountain out of a molehill. It was a badly organised event and two people spoke to me very badly. I said on stage that people should start respecting women from every walk of life. Period."

She sounded exhausted, "I am in Los Angeles and am going to sleep right now. I am fed up of all that's happening."

Not guilty till proven

Satish Poondi, a spokesperson for the Indian Business Association, said in the media that the organisation would take Bipasha's allegation very seriously. But he was quick to blame her for turning up late for the event, adding that they couldn't call anybody guilty until proved otherwise.
When quizzed, Bipasha curtly said, "I don't know Satish Poondi."

Bipasha Basu officially clears the air

This is with reference to the reports in the media about a bad experience I had in New Jersey on the weekend. To set the record straight, I would like to say that I was in New York for a few days and got a call to attend the New Jersey parade for Indian Independence Day.

Since it was Independence Day and since I knew one of the organisers and had done an event with him before, I agreed to attend.

The drive from Manhattan to New Jersey is nearly an hour. I said I prefer if a known person accompanied me on the drive. But unfortunately, the two men who landed up were not known to me.

However, since I had committed to be present at the Independence Day Parade, I decided to go ahead. Right through the drive, they spoke irresponsibly and made over-familiar and derogatory comments. I was really upset with their comments.

At the event, I brought up the matter on stage and said it is shameful that some men don't know how to talk to a woman. The entire crowd was very supportive of my view. I am sure the two men have learnt their lesson and will never talk badly to a woman ever again.

[Coustesy: Sheetald in IF-Bollywood section]

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Go Girl.. these people need a bash!!!👏

So...Here is the question:

Why is it that Actresses/Models carrying sexy image are harrased/ molested on different occasions? i remember sushmita sen harrased by Coka Cola official plus a photographer and one actress who acted in "karma confession and holy"(yet to be released) was also harrased at night by street people...🤢 Thank God she managed to escape b4 the unfortunate could happen😭

I don't support people who rag these models but its quite natural..... 😛

Why don't people tend to respect them? Why are we encountering such situations : Actress harrassed by single/group of people😡

Lack of Professionalism!!!!

Why not someone think of harrassing Vidya Balan??😕 Why Bipasha Basu??

Now Vidya is also out of this decent clan!!! She is desperately trying to shun the girl next door image

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjali.nair

I think it was worse in those times because most of them like Meena kumari, Madhubala were from very poor family came to this profession only for a living. I think those were the times when they couldn't even come out in press. See the tragic end these two actors met. They were used by many men in the industry.

Whatever mentioned seems to be true but people never remain same after getting money and fame.They might have changed their habits and that might have lead to miseries and deaths!!

Some actors really do all the roles in their young age and finally after some years settle with mother roles🤢.They speak several dialogues about customs,tradtions and alll...........

Any how "Vriddha Naari Pativratha"...

Cheers,

Mythili

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Posted: 18 years ago
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men!!!!! 😡 its the mentality of men which needs to be changed. i think its dosent happen with actresses and model its happenes with comman women also. and its not just with women who wear skimpy clothes. so the whole problem lies with mentality of these men.
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i applaud bipasha 👏 for her act. it even said that she was said not to mention that incident. but still she went ahead with it.

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