Shiv showed his unreasonable side - Page 18

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

@juhi...Shivraj Shekhar is my fav character too...am kind of liking this other weaker side of his personality 😆

unfortunately...we havent seen a good communication happening between anandi-shiv where they share everything with each other ...so i didn't expect him to say that anyways... 😉...that would be expecting him to be just perfect in everything ! i like him with his flaws...it more real, believable...BV is sure getting interesting !

Originally posted by: aparnauma

When Anandi was not ready for physical intimacy because she was still in the process of recovering from the emotional wounds and rejected his advances she is an ungrateful woman who doesn't care for the wonderful man who became her husband.

When she was upset because her Dadisa is upset and crying and her mood was off she was being more concerned for the old lady and has no feelings for her husband at all.

When Shiv ignores his wife and behaves as if she doesn't exist and even ignores the fact that she is in pain that is quite alright because he is pained by the current state of his sister's life.

Why such different stands for different characters?

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

Sweta,

I am glad you are enjoying this side of Shivraj shekhar😊

Since I am not enjoying it, I will take solace from watching your VMs 😉

awww...Juhi..🤗.i am waiting for your wonderful comments on my latest VM...😊

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

Sweta,

I am glad you are enjoying this side of Shivraj shekhar😊

Since I am not enjoying it, I will take solace from watching your VMs 😉

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

Aparna,

I am guilty of accusing Anandi too at that time. And now I am terribly upset with Shiv for being unreasonable and rude towards Anandi. I believe both of their characters were portrayed in such a positive light that it is hard to accept their faults.😊

In Shiv's case it is harder for me to support him because he is barking up the wrong tree.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Juhi I remember your posts.

At least your stance is similar with both Anandi and Shiv.😊

What you felt about Anandi that time you feel the same about Shiv now.

I am finding it easy to accept these flaws in them because I never really saw these two characters as extraordinary.

I always saw both as flawed characters who always try to do their best to make others happy even if they fail many times.They always do things with the best of intentions in their mind.

Shiv is pained at not being able to do anything for his sister's pain and he is angry with himself he is searching for ways to relieve his pain and he found two targets Jagya and Anandi.

I am not saying whether it is right or wrong.It is just the way he is seeing things.

Some of his acts are justified and sometimes he crossed the line.

Aparna, that's a very good approach. I wish I could do that. Unfortunately when I love or like some characters I place too much expectations on them. Not the best thing to do when we are watching soaps. My favorite character Sandy in DABH too is behaving very weird and nutty and OTT these days 😔

Maybe all the jhoom jhoom dulled her senses.

aww Kools, ur post reminded me of KC...🤗

Originally posted by: anu rulz

aww Kools, ur post reminded me of KC...🤗

Originally posted by: aparnauma

When Anandi was not ready for physical intimacy because she was still in the process of recovering from the emotional wounds and rejected his advances she is an ungrateful woman who doesn't care for the wonderful man who became her husband.

When she was upset because her Dadisa is upset and crying and her mood was off she was being more concerned for the old lady and has no feelings for her husband at all.

When Shiv ignores his wife and behaves as if she doesn't exist and even ignores the fact that she is in pain that is quite alright because he is pained by the current state of his sister's life.

Why such different stands for different characters?

somehow i feel you think people who support shiv have a different stance for anandi & shiv...well i really never intended to treat them differently...but since anandi is the soul of BV...story revolves around her...there are certain expectations of her naturally...which is not the case with shiv..i don't know what happened in this forum earlier..but since i started watching BV sometime from march, to me shiv was never perfect...he is a flawed brother...a flawed hubby as well in certain areas...but i had an instant liking towards this character because of his overall stature, his commitment to his work..his attachment with anandi ...being respectful to his elders!

just like shiv has provided much needed space to anandi during the initial marriage days...as she was still recovering from her past..which i don't think he was doing any favor to her...in a similar way..anandi needs to understand & give him that much needed space to come out of his anger & hatred towards jagya.

well, there are different unwritten rules/code of conduct for a man & woman in our society whether we accept or not ! shiv-anandi are no exceptions ! having said that shiv has successfully broken these rules when he married anandi & provided her this space ! now anandi should try to control her emotions where jagya is concerned ! that is definitely her weak point & this has already created a lot of problems for everyone.