Some questions Anandi should ask Shekhars?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Do Shekhars want to prove that without Anandi they cannot get put or escape any messy situation...are they so dumb?...fine Anandi knew little more than others but what she had warned them about wasn't enough for Shekhars know that there is something wrong about this rishta

Chotima instantly saw that Anandi was reluctant about her marriage with Shiv but why was she not able to see the same in Jagya

They are now all the time emphasizing on the fact that Jagya is Anandi's ex who left her but neither do they see even after going through real betrayal Anandi stood up because of positive attitude and not because like Saanchi she was still trying to get Jagya back or blame others for the situations nor do they see that today they suddenly remember that Jagya is Anandi's ex but when they were fixing this rishta they never thought that Jagya was Anandi's ex so this rishta would be so embarrassing for everyone

Should Shekhars' attitude towards Anandi be directly proportional to Saanchi's mood and her life?
If Saanchi is happy, Anandi will remain happy but if Saanchi is unhappy we will also keep Anandi unhappy and top of it try to blame her for the situation.

Someone should ask Shekhars if even for fun their future bahu would have said something so bad for their family will they brush it up in carpet and she that the bahu is nadaan

Why is Saanchi's mistake called nadaani but Anandi's mistake a crime...why cannot Ira or Shiv brush off Anandi's mistake by saying that she was confused...why are Anandi's every step questionable but not Saanchi's every mistake




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Posted: 12 years ago
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It's shekhars elders fault to praise anandi for every tiny task infront of saanchi till now. Only after saanchi and jagya marriage talks they r not bothered about anandi. Daddu ad alok used to praise anandi a lot infront of saanchi and many times told saanchi to be like her and learn from her. Nobody likes comparisons with a new girl who entered the house. They shoud know better that saanchi is immatured and these comparisons will make her even more bitter. Women will never like compared with another one.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The thing is .. they have put Anandi in a pedestal and even one single mistake or even misjudgment in this case has blown out of proportion and the one true culprits are getting away.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suchi-

The thing is .. they have put Anandi in a pedestal and even one single mistake or even misjudgment in this case has blown out of proportion and the one true culprits are getting away.

Anandi should understand and keep out of saanchi Ira conversations. I got irritated seeing so many times anandi coming in between mom and daughter conversations. Why try to pacify saanchi knowing she hates her. Anandi should learn to be practical now as these people r different from singhs.
There were so many times she cribbed about saanchi not understanding her with shiv during initial days of marriage. Shiv told her clearly to give space and time to saanchi and leave it. But anandi seriously does not listen to people and wants everyone to like her.😲
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Posted: 12 years ago
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well Aanndi is one who wants everyone to be happy... bt sumtmes we fail to understand dat if we ty to keep everyoen happy we mstly hurt everyone...

basically anandi is handling Saachi the same manner she used to handle Jagya... Anandi used to hide Jagya's mistake n she is doing same Saachi... She nvr told ny1 wat happened in Mumbai wen she went to surprise Jagya on his bday... n hw Jagya introduced her as Nandani n she is her relative.. same wid saachi she dint tell ny1 hw saachi insulted her father... she dint let her dad speak to Shekhar's coz being an outsider he knw in wic situation anandi would be...
par khate hai na tali ek haath say nahi bajti... I just hve one question hw can a city based family how ever modern u r can keep the proposal in front of dere DIL's ex husband... rite nw dey all r upset ki saamaj hasse ga... n badnami hogi... yeh saamj tab kya karta wen dey would hve cum to knw dat dey married dere daughter wid their DIL's EX hubby... n to beleive dat dese ppl r educated...
Dey were seeing hw saachi is changing herself... doesnt Shekhar's knw dat a gurl cant change in a night...
Ira is one person who accepted anandi once she heard abt her... unlike meenu dats the reason CM understands Anandi unlike Ira...
Nw pinpointing fingers on Anandi is d sole reason coz she is related to Singh's wen despite of Singh's hvng no fault in dis matter Ira blamed dem n broke all relations wid dem... wen the fact is dey dint knw wat happened also...
As i said earlier also agar Jagya ki jagah for instance uska koi chota bhai hota n same would have happened tabhi bhi fingers anandi pay utt te... coz its her MAIKA...
aur waise bhi it tuk 17 yrs for Anandi to make singh's her Maika... yaha tho abhi kuch hi mahine hue hai...
N mujhe aisa lagta hai until Saachi will go thrugh d same wic anandi went thrugh will nvr understnd anandi...
N also its high tme all the Shekhar's shuld cum to knw wat pain Anandi went thrugh uska sirf 10% Saachi is baring...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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CM accepted Anandi as her daughter not as DIL, but for Ira she's just his's son's wife. At the beginning she accepted the rishta as she wanted her son to get married as soon as possible & may be she thought that shez doing bada ehsaan on Anandi & her family by accepting a divorcee as DIL. Till the day she accepts Anandi heartfully...all this tamasha is bound to happen. Today it's Sanchi...maybe tomorrow something else.
The Sekhar's always try to sweep 'Sanchi's tantrums as bachpana' under the carpet especially Daddu, let Anandi ask them for how long they are going to keep on ignoring all this & I want anandi to question them if they all really love Sanchi ?

Anandi should also try not to be a punching bag to one & all irrespective of her relation with others.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shekhars are proving that a DIL can never be treated as a daughter of the house ...they are no where near the SInghs -- when Sunitra and Bhairon said that A is their daughter, they meant it , infact they loved her more than Suguna...disgusting shekhars, only talk big but soch so small...thier daughter is no 5 yr old that all her mistakes can be called nadaani...disgusting but the sad part is this stupid Sanchi saga is no where near its end , we have to bear her for a few more weeks, more torture for us and Anandi :(:(
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Posted: 12 years ago
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On the point here is not whether Anandi was put on a pedestal or whether unfair comparisons were made between Anandi and the daughter of the house. The point is how just are the Shekhars in their interaction with the DIL as opposed to the daughter. It's obvious that the daughters is offered more bailouts and the DIL is cornered. Maybe they need to look at their own nazariya (the whole people and glass houses...adage).

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