Re: Anandi - Khamosi became Tamasha

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Posted: 12 years ago
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We are highly criticising shiv - ''Aap baith ke tamasha dekh rahe the". A very wrong allegation, but is it a total misstatement? And my apologies to Anandi fans I really do not feel she was honest in this case.

- Anandi got to know Sanchi and Ganga s weakness for Jagya when Jagya was in his death bed. She told her assumption for Sanchi to Shiv but she kept numb for Ganga to everyone. She felt Ganga is the right choice and she has promised Jagya that she will find her bride, she did not bother to suggest Ganga to Jagya and Badi Haveli.
- When Sekhars were taking the rishta she did not think of calling singhs up and tell them that she is not for it. Even when Jagya said yes - she did not try to tell him he is making a mistake. Jagya is her friend so will you not guide your friend to take a right decision.
- She was doubtful about Sanchi's change, but she gave in and started believing. Anandi who is supposed to be very intelligent became dumb in front of intelligent Sanchi. Why did not she wait before getting fully convinced.
- When they were over hearing coffee shop conversation she was supporting Sanchi and in front of sekhars she supported Jagya. She has just done the opposite, so jagya shouted and shiv yelled.
- She was praying to kanhaji, for Jagya and Ganga to be together but she wanted everything to fall in place nicely. Anandi a reasonable woman how can she expect that a break off and a JaGan marriage will happen smoothly.
- Her golden words, mein shiv se baat karungi, leking Ganga ki batein nehi baloongi. She planned to save JaGan by telling sanchi is doing drama so she is not right and cancel the wedding then Jagya and Ganga love story will fall into place gradually. And I have no doubt in this. She thought shiv always listen to what I say so I will use shiv to break the marriage and then dance at JaGan wedding. But her entire plan crashed with Jagya s jaldbazi.
- Yesterday was height, she really fumbled and did not have a strong answer to shiv's allegation. She was defending Jagya which is her natural self she defended him for Gauri also, but in her defence she never told the way Jagya married Ganga was not right. It is a simple answer - The way things have happened is bad, but it is good in the long run since Jagya does not love Sanchi. But she went round and round and showed her true colors - for me Jagya and Singh matters, shiv and sekhar gaye bhar mein. She is an individual she can have preference of her ex sasra over current sasra, then why dialogues '' mein hamari baat kar rahi huin'' sanchi bhi mere utni apne hein''.
Anandi - you thought Ganga is the right choice, Sanchi is not right and whatever happened is right. So in between so many right thoughts, why you did not stick to your initial thoughts. Beech mein rahe se bhatke kiun? There is no need to shred tears for Sanchi s grief, or take care of her and feel bad that shiv is blaming you. You did not speak when it was time to speak, now it is too late to mend things, your relationship with husband and in laws is damaged beyond repair. Tamasha to baan gayi. sab ki aur tumhari. Your question to Choti Maa mujhse kahan galti huin is ghar ki bahu banne? You know that answer, your preference is always Jagya over shiv, what may be the reason. Now Sanchi opening the vein will leave you no where. So it is time for you to leave shiv and KB, and go back where you belong to- BH. Shiv does not trust you anymore and there is no point on thrusting yourself on him.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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it was wrong of shiv to say anandi was waiting for tamasha when he knows anandi can never have wrong feelings for anyone
anandi hiding saanchi's truth from shiv was wrong...even if she wanted to give her a chance she should have told shiv about saanchi and even add that she still wants to give her a chance...but she decided of handle all this herself and now she is blurting the truth when everything has messed up...but anandi hiding about jagan was no wrong...it now about protecting them but it's because she herself was confused whether what she was thinking about jagan was true or just her imagination plus there is something known as privacy...why should anandi disclose something so personal when jagya himself did not...shekhars are unnecessarily bringing ganga in all this when she was not even the reason for break up...they are bringing ganga in all this because if not ganga then the only option left for them to believe is jagya-saanchi incompatibility for this marriage which they cannot bear to see since they think their daughter is so perfect she can match up with everyone...blaming ganga is a better option for them...what i don't get is why do the bunch of elders=singh+shekhars need 26 yrs old girl to decide what is wrong and what is right..can't they decide for themselves...and why is anandi bothering with all this when she knows she will get bashing and nothing else...if she choose to remain quiet that time then why not now too?
let all this drama get folded itself...the more she remains out of this the more better it is
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

it was wrong of shiv to say anandi was waiting for tamasha when he knows anandi can never have wrong feelings for anyone

anandi hiding saanchi's truth from shiv was wrong...even if she wanted to give her a chance she should have told shiv about saanchi and even add that she still wants to give her a chance...but she decided of handle all this herself and now she is blurting the truth when everything has messed up...but anandi hiding about jagan was no wrong...it now about protecting them but it's because she herself was confused whether what she was thinking about jagan was true or just her imagination plus there is something known as privacy...why should anandi disclose something so personal when jagya himself did not...shekhars are unnecessarily bringing ganga in all this when she was not even the reason for break up...they are bringing ganga in all this because if not ganga then the only option left for them to believe is jagya-saanchi incompatibility for this marriage which they cannot bear to see since they think their daughter is so perfect she can match up with everyone...blaming ganga is a better option for them...what i don't get is why do the bunch of elders=singh+shekhars need 26 yrs old girl to decide what is wrong and what is right..can't they decide for themselves...and why is anandi bothering with all this when she knows she will get bashing and nothing else...if she choose to remain quiet that time then why not now too?
let all this drama get folded itself...the more she remains out of this the more better it is




@libsrocks - yes...shiv was very rude to anandi. yesterday after she revealed the truth..agreed..but he is not completely wrong.....

also anandi hiding about jagya is absolutely wrong on her part ! if she would have confided about her confusion on jagya to atleast shiv...this ugly situation could have been avoided or atleast shiv could not have blamed her ! what privacy are you talking about ? this is the question of her sister-in-law's life... and if she thinks that JG2 is a personal matter...that what they feel about each other is a private matter...when her SIL is going to marry this guy...then i don't know what to say...😡

yes..she should have remained quite even now...let shiv do whatever he wishes...its personal to him...what he thinks about jagya...when she didn't stop shiv from going ahead with his sister's marriage to jagya...why stop him from filing a case against jagya?

i also think had she not overheard shiv talking on the phone...she wouldn't have spoken even now. it is another matter altogether that shiv may not proceed with the case as now he atleast agrees with anandi that sanchi is not right for jagya.


Edited by BeyondTheSky - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@libsrocks - yes...shiv was very rude to anandi. yesterday after she revealed the truth..agreed..but he is not completely wrong.....

also anandi hiding about jagya is absolutely wrong on her part ! if she would have confided about her confusion on jagya to atleast shiv...this ugly situation could have been avoided or atleast shiv could not have blamed her ! what privacy are you talking about ? this is the question of her sister-in-law's life... and if she thinks that JG2 is a personal matter...that what they feel about each other is a private matter...when her SIL is going to marry this guy...then i don't know what to say...😡

yes..she should have remained quite even now...let shiv do whatever he wishes...its personal to him...what he thinks about jagya...when she didn't stop shiv from going ahead with his sister's marriage to jagya...why stop him from filing a case against jagya?

i also think had she not overheard shiv talking on the phone...she wouldn't have spoken even now. it is another matter altogether that shiv may not proceed with the case as now he atleast agrees with anandi that sanchi is not right for jagya.

When she had doubts about Sanchi and Ganga's feelings for Jagya she told Shiv about Sanchi's feelings for Jagya with him because it is relevant for their family.
Ganga's feelings for Jagya how are they relevant to them?Why only Ganga they could have been other women who liked Jagya are all these things relevant for them?
The more thing than Ganga having feelings for Jagya is whether Jagya was having feelings for Ganga.At that time he did not have feelings for either of them.So it is irrelevant to talk about Ganga.

At the time of engagement when she saw Jagya she started having doubts.
Then when he went to Mangalore during Teej she had a strong suspicion about Jagya's feelings for Ganga and that's when she tried to express her doubts to her husband.But the greatman told her that he had spoken with Jagya and he had full faith in him.
Only after that in her frustration she screamed at Jagya that's when the man realised that he is in love with Ganga and he did not tell this to anybody so how will she know when he had not told her anything?Not only that Jagya did not break his engagement too so how can Ganga be the reason for breakup?

Jagya has in any case made it clear that he has been in love with Ganga but was ready to let go of it because his family wanted Sanchi as their bahu.He continued his engagemnet until he found Sanchi unsuitable to be the bahu of his parents.

Whether Anandi spoke up on this issue or not it is Shekhars who entered into a relationship with Singhs despite Anandi not liking it and they have no business to blame her.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I do not have a problem about her thoughts, if she think jagya was right she has every reason to say it, as she is an individual. Then why help and support sanchi when she believes she is not right choice. Yesterday she said Sanchi is not compatiable and jagya tried his best, where did she see that and why did not she say both are incompatiable. Blind support is fine, then take one side do not be a pendulum. You have got what you wished JaGan and Jagya happiness, now why bothered. Let shiv deal with Jagya why intervene? You are telling shiv that he is wrong. Is it not reasonable on your part to tell Jagya that he did not do the right thing by creating the tamasha.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

When she had doubts about Sanchi and Ganga's feelings for Jagya she told Shiv about Sanchi's feelings for Jagya with him because it is relevant for their family.
Ganga's feelings for Jagya how are they relevant to them?Why only Ganga they could have been other women who liked Jagya are all these things relevant for them?
The more thing than Ganga having feelings for Jagya is whether Jagya was having feelings for Ganga.At that time he did not have feelings for either of them.So it is irrelevant to talk about Ganga.

At the time of engagement when she saw Jagya she started having doubts.
Then when he went to Mangalore during Teej she had a strong suspicion about Jagya's feelings for Ganga and that's when she tried to express her doubts to her husband.But the greatman told her that he had spoken with Jagya and he had full faith in him.
Only after that in her frustration she screamed at Jagya that's when the man realised that he is in love with Ganga and he did not tell this to anybody so how will she know when he had not told her anything?Not only that Jagya did not break his engagement too so how can Ganga be the reason for breakup?

Jagya has in any case made it clear that he has been in love with Ganga but was ready to let go of it because his family wanted Sanchi as their bahu.He continued his engagemnet until he found Sanchi unsuitable to be the bahu of his parents.

Whether Anandi spoke up on this issue or not it is Shekhars who entered into a relationship with Singhs despite Anandi not liking it and they have no business to blame her.


@ bold - i agree totally!

and about anandi helping n supporting sanchi to learn cooking n become a good bahu etc, even if anandi didnt like the rishta, it was still happening, she wont sit and protest that i wont take part in this wedding because its not with my approval. obviously she will help sanchi she is her SIL!
n anandi said sanchi is not compatible but she was always convinced that sanchi really loves jagya seriously n acc to anandi, if sanchi loved jagya she will b able to make him happy, thats why she hid that pandit bribe issue!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why anandi supported sanchi?

1. there was no clear indication that Jagya also loved ganga. Or he did not like sanchi.

2. sanchi enacted a drama of changing. When the entire house is so happy anandi as the eldest bahu cant keep neutral face and be indifferent. Ira will immediately smell and be annoyed with anandi even thinking that anandi may still harbour something for Jagya.

3. whenever anandi expressed her misgivings, Shiv did not take them seriously most of the time and he went with his family members.

anandi's mistakes

That pandit bribing anandi could have informed him tactfully.

after mangalore trip, anandi should have sensed something. Instead of alerting Shiv, she blasted Jagya for not reciprocating sanchi's so called love.

anandi also started parroting that sanchi is in bachpana mode.

When Jagya directly asked her was sanchi suitable for BH(not him), she cunningly said that everyone will have some negative points and he should understand and adjust.

anandi not even once said anything about muhurat thing to dadisa or sanchi's true nature.Reshmi, I agree that more than shiv, anandi's list of mistakes is growing up.

anandi made mistakes and shiv is making mistakes and they are going to make more mistakes. Let all of them suffer for sometime.😆


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Posted: 12 years ago
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ganga is not the reason for breakup...that fact is known to only jagya & anandi...everyone else has the impression that she is the cause of breakup & that jagya is using sanchi's buddy talk as an excuse for breakup...which will change only after sanchi's complete exposure happens..😕

shekhars have no business to blame anandi as its mostly their fault...but she is definitely answerable to shiv's questions. & to her dadisa...why she hid facts from him...kept them in dark on a lot of things...CVs have very cleverly depicted that anandi didn't get a chance to speak to shiv about it & in the past shiv never took her seriously ! & we audience are going bonkers over it 😉


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: poorvab


@ bold - i agree totally!

and about anandi helping n supporting sanchi to learn cooking n become a good bahu etc, even if anandi didnt like the rishta, it was still happening, she wont sit and protest that i wont take part in this wedding because its not with my approval. obviously she will help sanchi she is her SIL!
n anandi said sanchi is not compatible but she was always convinced that sanchi really loves jagya seriously n acc to anandi, if sanchi loved jagya she will b able to make him happy, thats why she hid that pandit bribe issue!

Moreover when Anandi told the whole family not to agree for the rishta , IRA told her in front of everyone " keya aab hume tumhari salah lena parega?"
What will she say when her MIL talks like this and not a single person protests. So when they have decided better to make Sanchi learn something so she did that.
Actually in this entire track somewhere everyone is wrong that too the first place the rishta is very wrong , everyone is in sensitive position, no one can blame/support others properly
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Why anandi supported sanchi?

1. there was no clear indication that Jagya also loved ganga. Or he did not like sanchi.

2. sanchi enacted a drama of changing. When the entire house is so happy anandi as the eldest bahu cant keep neutral face and be indifferent. Ira will immediately smell and be annoyed with anandi even thinking that anandi may still harbour something for Jagya.

3. whenever anandi expressed her misgivings, Shiv did not take them seriously most of the time and he went with his family members.

anandi's mistakes

That pandit bribing anandi could have informed him tactfully.

after mangalore trip, anandi should have sensed something. Instead of alerting Shiv, she blasted Jagya for not reciprocating sanchi's so called love.

anandi also started parroting that sanchi is in bachpana mode.

When Jagya directly asked her was sanchi suitable for BH(not him), she cunningly said that everyone will have some negative points and he should understand and adjust.

anandi not even once said anything about muhurat thing to dadisa or sanchi's true nature.Reshmi, I agree that more than shiv, anandi's list of mistakes is growing up.

anandi made mistakes and shiv is making mistakes and they are going to make more mistakes. Let all of them suffer for sometime.😆


Yes, anyway this track is interesting and got TRP, misunderstanding, fights. I wonder what will happen when Sanchi opens vein. Both JaAn will have thunderstorm on their life. May be Anandi will be drawn to court to give a testimony, and again she has to choose whether to save Jagya from the bars. And she will choose ''save''. The final patta cut to uljahayo the suljha rishta.

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