Originally posted by: sheenug
I understand what you are saying is true that in most homes still divorcee or widows are not accepted with full heart. But things are changing now drastically and people are accepting divorcees and widows. So by representing women like this in a daily soap is not good for the society and it's like demotivating families who have accepted divorcees and widows. Also, here the situation is also different because Jagya is not marrying first time it's his third marriage. So if Jagya marries a divorcee that shouldn't be a problem for his family. He has given his explanation that why he didn't married Sanchi but Sumi and DS was not ready to understand. They just wanted virgin bahu. Jagya even don't have to give any explanation to his family as he said he loves Ganga not Sanchi. A person with a bitter experience in the past has full rights to choose his wife carefully and family should support him in this.
You are right my friend that they are showing it wrong in a daily soap which would further affect people countrywide.
However I think it's all wrong since beginning.
As I already wrote in another thread that
"It's easy to fall for a girl and die for her; but very difficult to marry the same girl and spend rest of lives with her"
the chances of a happy and stable marriage is more (I insist only chances are more) when two people are from similar background. That's why in Hindu satra the parents of boy and girl are call "Samudi" abbreviated from "SAMA-DHI" or people of equal status.
Why they showed a fairy tale sort of wedding for Anandi?
Have anyone among us seen this kind of marriage in life? Is it practical?
When Anandi got married to Shiv after loads of hurdle many people were just praying that let the wedding complete without any further problems. However I was more concerned regarding the future as SANCHI NAMAK KIDA WAS GOING TO STAY WITH THEM for ever😡
Anandi should have further excelled in her career and got married to someone of equal status. Shivraj is a man who has never experienced loss of partner; how can he make out Anandi's mental state all the while?
Similarly Ganga could have done so. Or at least she could have been working at least for couple of years before thinking of remarriage. I think she might have done that herself. But scenarios forced Jagya to marry her in a dramatic way 😊
I understand that both Ganga and Jagya are divorcees. However there is a huge gap in their social status which would keep on coming between them from time to time. Be it Sumitra, Ira, village people but it would come and that's practical.
At the end of the day I think if love and trust are intact between a couple; they can surpass all hurdles in life. In case of Ansh also I am not sure whether the basic trust factor is hit 😊
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