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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sanchi opened up to her mother saying that she never allowed any boy to come near her even as friend because she found Jagya as someone special and worthy of her.

And after all these happenings also, sanchi is not blaming Jagya.

And desperately she is clutching at straws to win him over even now.

I will not dismiss sanchi's love. Though I dont think she will be happy with Jagya in the long run.

Or she may mould herself and sacrifice all her personality just to be with Jagya.

Now she maybe manipulative and rude, but she may change when she comes to know of Jagya's preferences. Unlike Gowri, she will not have ego problems with Jagya.

I think Jagya has seen one part of sanchi and came to this decision of rejecting her.

Sanchi could have got one chance to redeem herself like Jagya got chances.

anandi, Jagya and ganga did not understand sanchi's love. They all went by sanchi's superficial behaviour.

I feel shiv and shekhars are not entirely wrong.


The problem with sanchi's love is that she did not ask Jagya whether he loves her before her family started all the drama.

Sanchi was overconfident about her so called looks and so called qualifications.

She loved only Jagya and tolerated every other person. Very weird.

She became obsessive and destructive.

She was playing games with everyone, including Jagya.

A love that is coming with such a baggage will lead to unusual circumstances.

Jagya has to deal with a person who always wants to take him away from his people.

His work will also be affected as she has nothing better to do than giving him no private space at all.

She may want him to resign his job and sit in front of her listening to her, making love to her and dancing to her tunes.

Sanchi needs a dog, not a husband.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Dear leavesandwaves,

In real life I have come across with girls like Sanchi.

It's her verdict that she did not let any boy come close to her.

But as viewers should we believe in her? Is it her or is it the boys who don't wish to get any close to her? 😆😆

People of character Sanchi would be never be loved by anyone apart from their own parents. Because they are extremely selfish, liars and cheaters. She wishes others to love and dedicate their lives for her. But she would never do that in return.

Let's see how many relationships she respected so far.

1. Father & Mother: What she did to their upbringing and teachings? Have we forgotten the micro mini dress she wore to allure Jagya.
2. Brothers: She has only used them for her own benefit. What she did for them so far?
3. Grand Father: She cheated him as well wearing another dress which she changed later on
4. Anandi: Better left unsaid.

Such people never succeed in any relationship be it Jagya or anyone else. The Shiv who is supporting her today; would he himself love a wife of her nature?

I think the only thing she is worthy of is therapy. That might make her acts bit manageable and bring back peace to the people around.
Edited by Debbiee - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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We have to give some consideration to Sanchis' infatuation !!--agree with you ! But--- let us see this aspect from Sanchis' point of view !! If Jagya is ...not suitable for UDs' daughter...how he is a considerate var for Sanchi ...coming from a wealthy family...highly educated... beautiful ... a Pari like [!!!]--- [let us consider all these attributes fit for her] how she or her family agreed for this love ...and marriage ?? Initial step itself is wrong ! Later they went on to commit mistakes...till the end until Jagya did that final mistake !?!👏 ...marrying Ganga !! If she ...and her love-- so blind... elders should have take a stern stance at the beginning itself !! An eccencentric mothers' egocenntric daughter is solely responsible for this fiasco !!She herself is responsible for this wrecked engagement and her heart ...finally !

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Posted: 12 years ago
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She has only long long repeating infatuations about him. That actually makes her blind and stubborn. Thus she believes Jagya too loves her.

Aanandi also feels he is good and changed now. But that doesn't mean she loves him.

Jagya once was in Saanchi's place when he realised what Anandi is. But no one supported him because Anandi did not love him then. Same here. Its a bitter truth that when one cannot love another, there is no need to wait for the second person changing or correcting himself. It may sound rude, but the truth.

Why to keep Saanchi under the false belief that Jagya still loves her? I feel breaking the relation is the best thing he did with her. It would've been more painful and devastating after they get married.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Debbiee

Dear leavesandwaves,

In real life I have come across with girls like Sanchi.

It's her verdict that she did not let any boy come close to her.

But as viewers should we believe in her? Is it her or is it the boys who don't wish to get any close to her? 😆😆

People of character Sanchi would be never be loved by anyone apart from their own parents. Because they are extremely selfish, liars and cheaters. She wishes others to love and dedicate their lives for her. But she would never do that in return.

Let's see how many relationships she respected so far.

1. Father & Mother: What she did to their upbringing and teachings? Have we forgotten the micro mini dress she wore to allure Jagya.
2. Brothers: She has only used them for her own benefit. What she did for them so far?
3. Grand Father: She cheated him as well wearing another dress which she changed later on
4. Anandi: Better left unsaid.

Such people never succeed in any relationship be it Jagya or anyone else. The Shiv who is supporting her today; would he himself love a wife of her nature?

I think the only thing she is worthy of is therapy. That might make her acts bit manageable and bring back peace to the people around.


#@red...🤣
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The problem with sanchi's love is that she did not ask Jagya whether he loves her before her family started all the drama.

Sanchi was overconfident about her so called looks and so called qualifications.

She loved only Jagya and tolerated every other person. Very weird.

She became obsessive and destructive.

She was playing games with everyone, including Jagya.

A love that is coming with such a baggage will lead to unusual circumstances.

Jagya has to deal with a person who always wants to take him away from his people.

His work will also be affected as she has nothing better to do than giving him no private space at all.

She may want him to resign his job and sit in front of her listening to her, making love to her and dancing to her tunes.

Sanchi needs a dog, not a husband.



Edited by leavesandwaves - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

The problem with sanchi's love is that she did not ask Jagya whether he loves her before her family started all the drama.

Sanchi was overcondident about her so called looks and so called qualifications.

She loved only Jagya and tolerated every other person. Very weird.

She became obsessive and destructive.

She was playing games with everyone, including Jagya.

A love that is coming with such a baggage will lead to unusual circumstances.

Jagya has to deal with a person who always wants to take him away from his people.

His work will also be affected as she has nothing better to do than giving him no private space at all.

She may want him to resign his job and sit in front of her listening to her, making love to her and dancing to her tunes.

Sanchi needs a dog, not a husband.




why dear...😆🤣
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I was thinking and all of you helped me to come to a conclusion about this thing.

If some of you read Anna Karenina, you will understand how this type of love results in tragedy for one and all.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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On second thoughts, shekhars must give their sanchi a small puppy to shower her love and make her happy.

Nothing better than a pet to uplift the mood and make one happy.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I can't name her feelings as Love
Love is a stronger word...
If u love someone...u accept him as he is
But she expected him to change for her...which Jagya can't do as he doesn't love her
If the feelings which she hav for Jagya r true, then there is no need of manipulation reqd even in the dates or what so ever.
This itself proves that she doesn;t trust him...without trust,love can't live longer.For any relationship, trust is most important...She is not blaming him now because she is unable to acknowledge that Jagya has rejected her for a mere village girl. In her view, no one can reject her as she is the most beautiful person. She still think he loves her, when he clearly stated that he doesn't. She can't accept the rejection and hence no blaming game. The blame shifted on Ganga as she thinks he got manipulated to say a no to her...I can't call this as love

If Ganga is not present in Jagya's life and If Jagya and Sachi would hav married, the marriage would hav broken in no time...
Even if she changes, that will be only to show others but not wholeheartedly as the same way that she has done before also...she will always think of manipulating him someway or the other.

She already knows Jagya loves his family a lot and respects them...she made fun of the same family in front of her frnds
How can u expect her to respect his likes??

Sanchi doesn't love him...she wants to own him as a toy

May be Jagya is the only person she came close to...but as we hav seen earlier,she can't change her views for Jagya
As soon as the honeymoon period will be completed, she will be back to what Sanchi was before...and he can't change for her either as he can't repeat the same as he has done before with Gauri.
If she had made an honest try to actually change for Jagya during the 6 mnths, then I would hav said that she really loves Jagya...but not now
Her expectations from her husband r diff than Jagya...and she can't be happy with him in the long run...they r bound to hav differences even if Ganga is not in the equation.

So, I think its actually better for everyone that SaJa didn't happen...

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