How selfish is Bani only thinking about herself and not thinking about Rajji for even one second when she drags Sohum into her problems? Is she behaving this way because Rajji is not her real sister? Yes Bani and Rajji are related by blood but still they are not real sisters; they are cousins and so called "best friends" through relations. To me, Bani cares way more for Jass than Rajji. These days Bani cares so much about getting Jass and Vikas's rishta fixed again; she even played mediator between those two getting them back to talking terms and they're not even married. Rajji on the other hand is married, has she ever cared to ask Rajji how's her married life? I can understand before it might have been awkward for her to ask Rajji how she and Sohum are doing especially after Sohum declaring to Bani that he will only love her. But these days Bani has the nerve to tell Sohum she wants to talk to him in private while Rajji is standing there but she still can't ask Rajji if everything is okay with her marriage?
It's really disgusting how without even thinking for a second about Rajji's feelings, she gives Sohum permission to get involved in her problems. And now Sohum isn't even jumping up and down to solve Bani's problems but she emotionally blackmails him to help her? It's even more disgusting she's meeting up with Sohum whatever suits her schedule even if it's late at night. How can you not feel guilt for spending time with your "sister's" husband late at night while his wife is probably waiting at home for him and probably waiting to serve him dinner.
It makes me wonder if Bani would be this selfish if Rajji was her real sister; if they shared the same parents. If they were real sisters would Bani have more concern for Sohum and Rajji's marriage? I actually felt bad for Rajji today when she looked upset that Bani just left without talking to her; what a real "best friend" or "sister" you are Bani (smh đ¤). Bua ji can get very annoying with her taunts and lectures at times but so glad how she openly hinted to Rajji about Bani in yesterday's episode... I hope eventually Rajji starts to realize how selfish Bani is. I know Rajji is too sweet to do this but I really hope she plays the "you're not my sagi behen" card on Bani when she realizes Bani doesn't give two hoots about her marriage with Sohum.
Sohum is going to get a slap in the face the day Bani is done using Sohum for her gain and doesn't care anymore to keep any relations with him. I don't know about everyone else but I never saw Bani having any true feelings for Sohum; she always turned a blind eye to Sohum having feelings for her. There was a time when Bani did want to get married to Sohum but I feel like that was because she was enchanted finding out Sohum likes her, and all of a sudden started to think about Sohum because of that. The way Bani instantly turned off her "feelings for Sohum" after she got married, I don't think she ever had any true feelings for Sohum. I don't see her ever falling for Sohum; she's a little too preoccupied bring selfish for that to happen. I hate how she keeps saying she's doing all this for her "family's happiness". By doing all this to make your family (read: parents) happy will not downplay/wash away your sins of hurting other people (like Sohum and Rajji) Bani.
The CVs hasn't established any OTPs yet. Despite Sohum and Rajji being married, I wont say Sohum-Bani is impossible (everything depends on TRPs of course). However I feel like SohJi may be the endgame. If Rajji continues on standing by Sohum (trying her best to win him over) and Bani continues to be selfish and not care about Sohum... I think Bani will ditch Sohum completely one day and Sohum may decide to be with Rajji after realizing how hard she tried to be in his life, but by that time will be too late and Rajji would have given up on Sohum... and we may see Sohum's redemption track trying to win Rajji back... that's my predictionđ. The CVs are starting to show Rajji falling in love with Sohum. Rajji has always been a sweetheart and never intentionally tried to hurt anyone. Her parents have not done any crimes that we know of so Rajji isn't barring any consequences because of them (unless you want to count them pushing Rajji to marry Sohum, but they did give her the option of coming back home). With Rajji's sweet nature and falling in love with Sohum (probably way more than Bani ever could), I don't see Rajji losing Sohum to Bani in the end. (SohJi fans- don't throw chappals at me if I turn out to be wrong đ)
Okay so this turned out to be a longer post than what I expected. đ I was planning on talking about Bani's selfishness but I ended up ranting about other things. Sorry if you wasted time reading my bakwaas. đ
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