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ExcuseMePlz

@ExcuseMePlz

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: SPuja

Replying only to the bold part.
In some other thread I said the same thing that creatives want to show that Ganga has to marry to be safe, and people said it is not true and in serial, it was not shown. Where is the guarantee that after marriage such incidents - molestation/rape etc. will not happen? In real life, a lot of married women get raped- even in front of their husband/other family members, so why they want to show such things? [This is medieval mentality - that is responsible for the evils like bal-vivah - people then thought that by marrying the girls early, they can save their honour.] I would have liked if the marriage is only for love.

Sorry I just saw this...couldn't reply earlier...

Jagya loves Ganga thats the reason he was tensed and apprehensive about her honour and security otherwise he would easily gave her a job in Jaipur.He loves her thats why he couldn't accept what sumitra has said to ganga.That filling maang incident expressed his love more strongly.It was not easy for jagya,he gained everything after a very long time,family,trust,honour,he had nothing but slowly he earned all this but he knew he will once again be blamed and his past will be rubbed on his face even then he married ganga.Even then he showed the courage and marry ganga,thats strong feelings of love.What shiv,ira and shekhars said was scary to hear.If somebody would have said it to me I would have fainted in that very place.You are a fool,if somebody tells me that I get offended but here jagya was slapped,cursed and all other things.

If sumitra haven't said such things no doubt jagya would have take more time to marry ganga or confess his feelings.He just wanted to give a job to ganga in jaitser where everybody knows her.But as ganga was leaving and saying you have no right to stop me so jagya confessed and to proof he was not saying it yuhin,he married her.

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Brahmaputra

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

@leaves- I did not notice that. Sorry!

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WinterAesthetics

@DanceUntilWeDie

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Posted: 12 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Scold me, beat me, banish me, seems to be jagya's attitude.

Jagya was stoic. He took everything on his chin and not retaliated violently.

They all shouted at him slapped him, insulted him, threw mud on him.

Only anandi silently empathised but could not open her mouth as the situation was taken over by unreasonable people. When fools talk, better to keep a discreet silence.

I was disappointed by Bhairon's behaviour but he was also in anandi's position more or less.

Ira asked singhs, maafi maangne se kya hoga? What did she mean? Did she want all of them to beat Jagya and disown him permanently?

Ganga is the proverbial Cinderella whom the prince marries.

Ira's own son had indulged in pre marital sex and her daughter also was not averse to have pre marital sex with Jagya even before engagement. Her son Shiv also was actively wooing a girl without her knowledge. Her children are no saints.

Ira's anger against Ganga was simply unjustified. The girl whom she wanted to throw out becomes Jagya's wife, was intolerable for Ira's ego.

Sumitra was behaving like ladkiwale not ladkewale. Samaj kya sochega?

She was more perturbed over losing sanchi than anandi. Her tears for anandi were just crocodile tears.

Jagya's marriage valid or not, he decided to live with ganga and it is ganga who gave him freedom from the clutches of nymphomaniacal sanchi.

Even if gauri comes with a child, Jagya wont give up ganga.

Ira said ganga wont have anyone to give support. Ira forgot that ganga has a son.

yeah they convveniently 4get that

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naq5

@naq5

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Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz
Very very very well-said. 👍🏼

exactly.. if ira was so sure about jagdish leaving ganga. how was she so sure that he wouldnt leave sanchi after marrying her😲 or she thinks her daughter is so beautiful tht koi bhi phasa rahega. OR i think she wanted to use her ladkewale cout in relation to anandi & keep on pressurising jagdish to keep sanchi happy.

that is why i believe even if sanchi was posive or a GOOD CHARACTER the singhs should never have agreed to her rishta. in any1s married life problems can always crop up, so that was always going to have issues for a lifetime. it would have been an issuse for a small time if they had rejected the rishta initially

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naq5

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Posted: 12 years ago

#45

for those who think ganga shouldnt have come to jaitser. we are all forgetting that SHE WAS SUPPOSED TO COME BACK TO JAITSER TO WORK AFTER HER COURSE. if we rem she had even booked tickets. but it was changed in the last min as it was jagya who felt he couldnt control his love for ganga if she works in the same hospital. GANGA NEVER KNEW JAGYA LOVES HIM. for him he was the star she could never dream of reaching. unlike jagya she could ignore her love for him & had lived in the same house without having to control herself. acc to her jagya would get married to sanchi & she would have worked at the hospital. its not necessary that once you fall in love & cant attain tht person, you have to forego friendly relations as well. it was because jagya loved ganga they got married & the families are facing problems. otherwise ganga would have loved him all her life n never told him & never come in between.

GANGA ALWAYS WANTED TO COME BACK TO JAITSER AS IT WAS HOME FOR HER. DUE TO SOME SUMITRA NOT LIKING HER WHY SHOULD SHE DECIDE NOT TO. it was always her comfort zone

it was decided before only tht ganga would work in jatser hospital. even DS had even spoken to sunitra that its jagya perrogative who works in his hospital or not & she had agreed also. but i think she convinently forgot that in the backdrop of saanchi's rishta breaking. and misbehaved with ganga. jagyacouldnt see this. ppl always questioning his ristha & he married her. ganga for that matter dint know that saanchis & jagyas engagement had broken. otherwise maybe she would not have come . she was not ready for sumitra's wrath. And i believe jagya should not have married in such a haste. he should instead have been firm with sumitra & told her that ganga is not the reason for engagement breaking it is saachi herself & told everything there itself in front of ganga. and also that hospital management & giving job to ppl is my decicion & ganga is going to work here. im surprised how everyone in bh let sumitra talk nonsence & do not interrupt. yes ganga should have stopped jagya but she was too shocked i believe and she has always been weak in front of jagya, out of respect. she drifted in the moment.

but i would love to have seen jagya refusing saanchi again saying you trust tht ur daughter was lying to her friends but i dont. 😉😉. And should have refused anandi requesting him also. that would have been fun . he should have been firm in refusing saachi & giving ganga job in jaitser not in marrying gangA. that would have savedganga of blame atleast. now she has been unnecessarily dragged into this.but that is jagya he is hasty he is not a challak lomdi like anandi. wait & then have her way. he wants to have his way first.

Again it is surprising that ganga's one moment of inacttion is being blamed more than the wrong decicions of people who had all the time to see that their son was not happy. who had seen before that jagya had a bad past. And anandi who had all the time to have cautioned singhs against saanchi & also the singhs against jagya's fondness for ganga & ASKED THEM ITSELF TO BREAK OFF THE RISHTA.

Edited by naq5 - 12 years ago

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SPuja

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: shankythebest

Sorry I just saw this...couldn't reply earlier...

Jagya loves Ganga thats the reason he was tensed and apprehensive about her honour and security otherwise he would easily gave her a job in Jaipur.He loves her thats why he couldn't accept what sumitra has said to ganga.That filling maang incident expressed his love more strongly.It was not easy for jagya,he gained everything after a very long time,family,trust,honour,he had nothing but slowly he earned all this but he knew he will once again be blamed and his past will be rubbed on his face even then he married ganga.Even then he showed the courage and marry ganga,thats strong feelings of love.What shiv,ira and shekhars said was scary to hear.If somebody would have said it to me I would have fainted in that very place.You are a fool,if somebody tells me that I get offended but here jagya was slapped,cursed and all other things.

If sumitra haven't said such things no doubt jagya would have take more time to marry ganga or confess his feelings.He just wanted to give a job to ganga in jaitser where everybody knows her.But as ganga was leaving and saying you have no right to stop me so jagya confessed and to proof he was not saying it yuhin,he married her.

No need to say sorry. But I did not get the answer. I still think that creatives want to show that a girl needs to be married to be "safe". The bold part also clearly states that. And I resent this message.

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ExcuseMePlz

@ExcuseMePlz

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Posted: 12 years ago

#47

Creatives are highlighting that as ganga was called names jagya was compelled to marry her as he can't see her love getting defamed...

What creatives are showing through anandi track is utterly reggresive...What ira was doing was disgusting...Creatives are showing a nanad can marry her bhabi's ex...but at the end of the day its a indian soap and these are normal...in indian soap putting sindoor means you are married...so atleast its better to show that when question have arised that who is ganga and why jagya care for her so much as jagya truly loves ganga he is not scared to give a name to their relation...He answered the question who is ganga...Ganga is my love what relation you have with her...she is my wife not 'to be wife' she is my wife from now on...