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Posted: 12 years ago
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what the!?
I just read the post. Why is Ganga shameless?
Here is my POV :


I don't blame her for a second. The singhs should be thanking her for saving Gehna and her child;s life.

So Them saving Ganga and helping her Vs. SHe saving gehna and her child = everything settled in my opinion.

after that Ganga yes, started loving Jagya.. I say so what!

She did not do a crime and fell in love with a man, the only man that supported her. Thats soo natural.

The fault lies with , yes Jagya that he did not wait for a proper proposal and marriage. But then again I also do not blame him cause, that was never going to happen. They would insult ganga and send her back.

This way she is staying and they cannot do anything about it.

The problem is Sumitra really. Everyone else likes Ganga. Including Anandi.

I do not think Ganga is shameless. There is nothing shameful in wanting a good life and a good husband and a good family. Which she was sooo deprived of.

She does not want anything material like money etc.
And she did study and earn her own identity which is good enough for her husband Jagya and ofcourse herself.

Who cares about what singhs think. We cannot always think about others. I am glad she listened to jagya and yes he should have married her proper way with everyone's approval..

I say YEAH RIGHT like thats going to happen. So jo hua acha hua.
He got two birds out of one stone.

a) Got rid of Sanchi YAY!
b) Got Ganga a safety and a family that she soo needed.
And will ganga make her way into Singhs hearts. YUP cause the only person that needs an eye opener is Sumitra nd that will happen once she sees sanchi in action. And see her true colors. So really there is no issue.


allright now another point:
They have to show a comparison between Ganga and Gauri.

Gauri and Jagya too were on Mission Ashirwaad before.
But everytime Gauri just feel lower and lower and lower.

Here will be Ganga's true test

a) her relationship with Anandi. Is she comfortable with Jagya and Anandi's friendship? Will she take it in the proper manner. Will she be secure and not be jealous?

the answer is YES. So 50% issues that gauri faced are already gone cause Ganga has no such issues

b) her relationship with Singh family. Does she respect them? does she consider them to be of a higher level than she is (in age and relationship value)? Is she ready to sacrifice for that family?

The answer is YES. unlike gauri, she does not want to take jagya away from the family. She wants to be with him, and the entire family. Keep the family intact and thus the rest of the 50% problem that gauri faced, ganga has already solved that.


so now what we have is a simple misunderstanding. And once hte reality of Sanchi comes forth everything will fall in place. cause unlike Gauri and Jagya's relationship...

Ganga has already made a strong foundation in the hearts of Singhs. She is loved by everyone and yes even by sumitra.

Once her blindfold of sanchi is removed, she willl be fine :)

Thus .. I conclude. Ganga is NOT shameless but this time Both Jagya and Ganga are not at fault and they did the right thing looking at the circumstances. :)


p.s. I could have pasted it on that thread but I wanted to create a separate thread.. well cause that thread was too long :)

Sorry :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Such - long post, and your POV. But i do not agree with you, she is not only shameless but an opportunist. She does not gain any sympathy from me. Anyway you should not be bothered, because Ganga has her fans who think she is goddess.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

Such - long post, and your POV. But i do not agree with you, she is not only shameless but an opportunist. She does not gain any sympathy from me. Anyway you should not be bothered, because Ganga has her fans who think she is goddess.


I do not think her fans think she is a goddess..
she is just another person. Makes mistakes and wants good from life.

ANd if she is wanting a good life then I do not think she is wrong in wanting that. We all want good at one point or another
If she is a opportunist , then that means she wants a material gain, which i fail to see.

Sanchi would fall in that category not Ganga.
She wants a good life for her son and a secured life for herself. Nothing wrong in that.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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very nice post suchi..
i loved the point that sumi also loves ganga..
yes.. even i feel the same.. she loves ganga but she doesn't wanna accept it..
whenever someone says to ganga you are much like to anandi a fear grew in her heart that she will take the place of ladoo in BH ppl heart n when jagya chose ganga over family her fear grew up as insecurity and touchups of sanchi increased the size..
once she get to know sanchi's trueface n the way she talk to anandi n thinks abt JaAn she will definetly hate sanchi..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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lol i dont even know anymore

@suchi- there's no point Suchi because if 9 people think she's right and 1 person thinks she's wrong, that 1 person will think that this majority is $hitting themselves in thinking she's right. I mean...I give up...

I only remain on this forum because I've made some friends...otherwise, I can enjoy BV through my living room...and I can enjoy the rest through FFs I write & my friends here write.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post Suchi yes I also feel Sumi has feelings for Ganga deep down in godbharai when she bursted on her she again went to see her. She knew she is doing bad with her because of some fear and that fear is Gauri, she thinks Ganga can becum lyk Gauri and start feeling jelous with Anandi. I know one day she will accept Ganga. Even when she sccold her their is a huq its never lukd that she scolding a gair. She crossd all level of rudness but in this hatness she also aware of Ganga's goodness.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Excellent post suchi...Much needed one...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Suchi nice post i agree with you
Ganga is not shameless neither opportunist She is innocent lady with a heart of gold

I don't blame Jagya for the step he has taken I am actually proud of him he did the right work I don't blame him He was forced to take this stand The poor fellow has been forced by his family to accept Sanchi's proposal they made him bali ka bakra there , the poor thing could not even realize his love in natural way It came with facing so many taunts and insults of what is his rishta with Ganga ? he tried hard to forget his love and marry the girl of his family;s choice the girl proved to be horror fake , liar No body gave him chance to speak the truth again so much character assasination of Ganga and their relationship forced him to take this stand in this way and he is not wrong this time Those who are wrong they will pay karma will hit them and they will apologize to these two

I don't hold Jagya at fault The fault lies with Singhs who once again proved themselves as failures for their children Jagya actually saved himself and his family from life long destruction and singhs will realize their blunders very soon Shekhars i don't want to comment on these losers Their eyes will open when Sanchi will bring more shame for them They will realize she is no marriage material infact she is not even a worthy human being 🤢

JaGan are not wrong
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very nice post Suchi. Aap ke muh me shakkar. Yes exactly! What is wrong with Ganga falling in love.
Is she not allowed because she is poor and not a pampered brat like Sanchi?
I am reminded of thecsong " pyaar kiya tho darna kya.pyar kiya koi chori na ki thi pyar kiya" 😆
How hypocritical Sumi is when she has palmed off her daughter Suguna( bless her soul) who
Became pregnant to another man against the wishes of his parents. They are right because
They are zamindaar family? And Ganga is acchut?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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sumi is just insecure.
you know as mentioned here... her insecurity was caused of the constant comparison done between Ganga and Anandi. She knows Ganga is good and is capable.
She is just finding excuses to hurt her cause she does not want Ganga to take the place of Anandi. Which is what everyone was doing.

Then came the whole sanchi thing.

She was glad taht Ganga was going to live her life. Away from Jagya. No more comparisons. No more headache.

Now the thing she feared happened.

Ganga is put in the same place Anandi was.
Jagya's wife.

So boom. The comparison bug is back with double game.
so she just lashed out.

Once she will realise that Sanchi is an idiot. a brinless twit , worse than Gauri ... the mother of all gauris put together. She will come back to her senses and her old loving self.

Sumitra by nature is not bad. Just insecure. SHe is afraid that Ganga will take Jagya away like Gauri did but more than that she is afraid Anandi will be lost somewhere.

Once she realizes and understands that Anandi is Anandi and Ganga is Ganga. Two different people. She will be fine.

Not to add... once gauri lands with her kid... then I will see what she will tell about Ganga having a child and marrying again.

That would be fun to watch

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