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Skepblun,
Your last post on differences between G & Sa are the exact difference Sumitra calculates in her mind. And that's why on surface level she prefers Sa over G any day. And nothing wrong if that's her choice. She never went to Shekhars to beg that please give your daughter's hand for my son. They came with a proposal and she accepted it with open arms.
Even on a deeper level, as per Sumitra, Sa will keep J happy in every way. Sa is from a well cultured family, who is now even adjusting to Singhs requirements. Sa adds a nice flavour to J's life. So what makes G any better than Sa as per Sumitra? In fact G has been more like someone who feeds on them and returns her gratitude by working in the household. G never reflected any distinctive characteristic of a would-be DIL. And Sumi has never seen her in that and neither does she want to, due to G's background.
Just not liking G and loving Sa, does not make Sumitra bad.
It's unfair to expect that Sumi should love G just because she is nice hearted.
It's 2 things;
- SaJa was never compatible even if G was not in picture
- And Sumi would have never accepted G as her bahu even if Sa was not in picture.
So Sumi has her own stand, and it is right as long as J is committed to Sa. But since it is J's life, he needs to make his decision.
I support J for what he is doing but can't blame Sumi for her anger on J or for suspecting G as an indirect reason for this break up. In the past 6 months J never told anyone that he is not happy with Sa, so a sudden decision does not make sense.
Let's wait to see how Sumi reacts on knowing Sa's truth. if she still blames J then I will not defend her actions, because then she (Sumi) would be wrong. Until then, to me, Sumi's reactions / actions are justified.
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