The Demise of BiggBoss : As we know the show

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Bigg Boss was the show that gave respectability and acceptance to the Gay community. It helped people to come out of the closet and be open and unapologetic about their orientation.

BiggBoss was the show that brought a woman like Lakshmi and gave her a platform to not only represent her community but also be counted as an individual beyond the stereotype image. In that season I found Lakshmi as the only sensible and watchable member of the house.

BiggBoss was the show that gave women like Seema Parihar and Sampat Pal not only a voice but a platform to voice the issues closest to their heart. We might've laughed at Sampat but she stayed true to her mission and that was highlighting the condition of women in the villages. So sincere was she about it that people in the house took to avoiding her. Yet THIS was the platform that helped her to reach out to millions of people out there.

Today BiggBoss is the show where a man tells a woman that he'll strip her and nobody takes the offended woman seriously - not the housemates, not the other women, not the producers, not the channel and certainly not the host and the other men on the show.

BiggBoss might've got the warden as a sop to feminism but it's lost out majorly in its inability to stem and punish such lewd behavior.

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Just realized that the title of the post could be misleading and so updated the same. Thanks Raj for pointing it out. That is if you have just landed on this page and If you are not already tired of my tirade :)

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with you.
Armaan should have been reprimanded, is BB not aware of all the rape cases and eve teasing cases happening in India these days.

BB sucks 🤢😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I get what TM is saying but I don't agree tht in the previous seasons Bb upheld the dignity of women and people like Laxami. In season 5 Sky and Sid were worse and yet were retained till the finals and Sid was soo proud of his youth icon image.🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i dont know about previous seasons but the way armaan behaved was cheap .he should b in prison not BB.he dont know to respect women.from day 1 he was like dat aurat ko apni jagah dhikhane ki khoshish kartha hai khud ka koi aukaat nahi.guahar was d only one who said to ellie to stand up for herself others r trying to prove ellie was wrong which she clearly is NOT.colours should b ashamed for showing women abuse on national TV and trying to make fun out of it.And i saw some people saying ellie was inviting armaan i dont understand does saying "thappad marungi" is inviting 😕 .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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sorry , this is not the first time a woman has been verablly abused or has been talked bad about ,past seasons have such various incidents . back then bigg boss did not do anything in terms of stopping this cheapness ,then how could he do now? Also, the lady Laxmi , who you are putting up as an example was not abusive with woman , shradha ?


btw, this is only a show and even scripted as people says,so please don't take anything happens in it seriously . and this is not first time this show lost its dignity ,it kept losing its dignity from very beginning from the first season ..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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totally agree about the armaan thing and i feel more disgusted toward pratuysha instead of supporting her she was making elli feel like the guilty party ..khud usse ratan or gauhar k baat bardsht nahi ho rahi thi ..cheap girl...only gauhar supported her others were making fun of her i would like to see how would kamya and prats behave if they were subjected to this kind of humour ...just because he is ur group member it doesn't mean k ap uski har galat baat py uska support kar skte ho ,.sick bunch of ppl
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Season 5 was probably the only season I deliberately did not watch. What snippets I saw of it I was like if the only person I can respect in the entire show is Lakshmi - then I'd better not watch the show.

I agree my attitude towards Lakshmi sucks, apologies to all those who are offended by it.

I however do not remember any other instance where a man told a woman that he would rape her. If Sid or Sky said something demeaning and derogatory I would not know because, like I said, I did not watch that season.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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1. The whole concept of Bigg boss is based on that where some will play the role of victim and some tormentor in every season and every stage.
2. It is futile to expect that they will take steps to change the society or giving some good message to society, when the show extract its TRP from planning , scheming, abusing etc. Every season they have one side Raja, , sky , sid etc. and the other side sambhabana, Mahek , Pooja etc. All are playing their game . If no one will do anything then BB/channel itself send pervert like santosh sukla and our savior salman will encourage him to show his skill. It is a phenomenon in all seasons.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Season 5 was the worst with Sky Chamanlal Seigal and Sid the bully kid... Sky was seen abusing female contestants time n again...Sid even went to the extent of kicking Pooja Mishra...Armaan was no doubt cheap yesterday with his crass statements, but Sky definitely is the biggest abuser and a pathetic guy...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Also I don't agree that it is scripted. Like I say every season - if these people are such good actors that they can put on act 24x7 without a break for 90 days at a stretch why are we not hiring them for the movies we send to Oscars.

Yes this is a show, but why should it not be taken seriously for that reason. This is a reality show, those are real people and these are real incidents taking place as we watch them on national television. Because it is not happening in front of us does not take away from its reality.

None of the events reported in news happen in front of our eyes - yet we comment on them. The debates that happen on news channels are staged and filmed - aren't they real and don't we all take them seriously?

The DelhiRape and the MumbaiRape are only incidents that we heard through electronic media - yet we take them seriously enough to take to streets, don't we?

There are certain things that go beyond entertainment and raise pertinent social issues - and irrespective of the medium and person who raises these issues they need to be addressed in all seriousness.

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