Double standard in sympathy toward Ovi vs. Soham

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MidnightRambler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: AWalk2Remember

Ek limit tak koi mahaan ho to chalta hai par jab limit cross ho jati hai, to phir annoying lagne lagta hai.

I think they should show a track in which Purvi and Arjun go for a honeymoon. So that Purvi ke pravachan se sabka peecha choote. 😆

YES Please! If only we were that lucky! I wish they sent Arjun and Purvi for a honeymoon and we didn't have to see it! Or even if we did see them, I could just forward their scenes without missing any of the other storylines.

And Purvi's pathological nose picking needs professional help! That girl does NOT know how to mind her own business. The only person whose life she hasn't interfered in is Teju and look how Teju has always been happier than her siblings.

She has forcefully inserted herself in Manav, Archana, Ovi, Sachin, Soham, Onir, Shalini's life. It's honestly easier to name people who hasn't tried to do "bhalayi" for.

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sfdiva23

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Posted: 12 years ago

#62

I think the main issue is does that other person return your feelings or not? Yes, Soham mistakenly believed that Gauri by being nice was reciprocating his feelings, but that is not the case. So, despite Soham he needs to do what makes Gauri happy and she wants to marry Soham. She has not said she loves him so he needs to listen! If you continue to pursue someone who is not interested then at some point it can become stalking or obsessive behavior, though Soham has not done this. If someone tells you they are not interested in you then you need to listen and respect them and their feelings and what they want.

Soham is allowed to feel bad and hurt that Gauri is not reciprocating his feelings but he is being selfish, what about Soham his brother and won't he be hurt if his engagement to Gauri is broken. If you truly love someone you let them go and if they are your's they will come back.

It was different in Purvi and Arjun's case they both loved each other, Arjun should have been honest with Ovi and Purvi right away his delaying telling how he felt hurt everyone. Ovi blackmailed Purvi into letting Arjun go by using her love for her mother Archana. Purvi sacrificed her love for everyone else but hurt Arjun in the process. When Purvi left Arjun committed himself to Ovi and his marriage but he never stopped loving Purvi and though he cared for Ovi he never loved her in the same way.

Ovi let Arjun go because he had a daughter with Purvi and could not accept this. She urged Arjun to marry Purvi because she finally realized that when you love someone then you want them to be happy even if they aren't with you. The way Onir loved Purvi.

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