Does Sandhya really know what is love

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Posted: 12 years ago
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sometimes I wonder if Sandhya know what is love. She is always humiliated by bhabo, bhabo's chilren and her DIL. She has been continually insulted and mentall abused in the presence of everyone and not even Suraj supported her. Suraj has also mentally abused her and thrown her out of the house.
He is a silent spectator when everyone insult Sandhya.

Sandhya has made no attemp to get away from these people.
Maybe Sandhya believe that mental cruelty is love She love bhabo very much and is willing to give up her future for bhabo. She was bribed very easily by bhabo before her finals to get the keys and be in charge at home.
Bhabo spy on all her daughter in laws which is sick She allows them no privacy

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sandhya knows two things...SACRIFICE & COMPROMISE...she is still learning the language of LOVE and Bhabho is her tutor 😆 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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dont compare bhabho and suraj's treatment to sandy. suraj has always supported sandy and even if he did hurt her, his intentions were pure. there was never a single moment where he thought he needs to take a side. he always thought of balancing his duty towards bhabho and sandy. so far sandy is concerned, many times bhabho has crossed the limits and sandy is not stupid to not understand that. she has chosen this for herself. i think her sanskaar of never raising a voice against elders come infront of her.that does not mean that i am saying whatever bhabho does is right. she is an insecure, jealous and mentally backward character. her morality is overshadowed by her backward thinking and not accepting change.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Pamela,
We tried thinking about this so many times. I think I like UMDU's response to my last post. Sandy is suffering from Stockholm Syndrome where the victim becomes servile to the oppressor.

Suraj does love her very much, it is just that he is very servile to his dictator and criminal mom. The episode where he mentally tortured Sandy was to make her leave RM and give her freedom to lead her life in her own way. But Sandy did not go because she believes in marriage and wanted it to work.

But yes, right now I think Sandy should forget about everything and concentrate on loving Suraj. she should stop thinking about Bhabo and Co. of criminals, and focus on loving her little home with Suraj and shower all her love on him. that way Suraj's mind will be distracted from thinking about Bhabo.

I hope CVs show some maturity and show Sandy turning into a great homemaker and wife instead of showing her cry for her evil MIL. Makes no sense. Instead show Bhabo to be suffering.

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