Is it worth it to commit suicide because ^ doesn't love you?

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Alakh

@Autumn_Rose

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

It isn't just one reason.. Depression is also a result of hormonal imbalances with an influx of circumstantial reasons..

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enigmatic_zephy

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Posted: 12 years ago

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You do realize that these cases are not abt the opposite sex...its the fear of loneliness..and that is a very real fear..we r a social animal for a reason..

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BIackSwan

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

When you are in love, one tends to give selflessly and you see what you want to see rather than what is actually there. So as I've been told and read :)

But I feel we should be a little selfish and start loving ourselves more. Being selfish is not a bad thing and once you start loving, appreciating and respecting yourself for who you are, you will slowly become confident and strong. When that happens, we will realize it is not worth killing ourselves for not being loved

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Summer3

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Most suicide victims are pretty emotional and and may also have fine artistic qualities.

I remember reading books on palmistry, and their heart lines are pretty close to the life line.

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punk666

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Committing suicide for someone else? The opposite sex doesn't love you anymore, so instead of forgetting them or trying to move on you're going to love and value then to the point that it will drive you insane and make you want to kill yourself? well that's not smart at all, is it?. Now I understand that moving on is not easy and the voices in your head won't let you free from the suffering that soon, it takes time and a lot of times in some cases, but there will be a day when you'll feel like yourself again, like you did before that relationship existed and you'll be set free.

So ending your life for a temporary problem is definitely NOT worth it.

Edited by punk666 - 12 years ago

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Summer3

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: punk666

Committing suicide for someone else? The opposite sex doesn't love you anymore, so instead of forgetting them or trying to move on you're going to love and value then to the point that it will drive you insane and make you want to kill yourself? well that's not smart at all, is it?. Now I understand that moving on is not easy and the voices in your head won't let you free from the suffering that soon, it takes time and a lot of times in some cases, but there will be a day when you'll feel like yourself again, like you did before that relationship existed and you'll be set free.

So ending your life for a temporary problem is definitely NOT worth it.

Young people when they first fall in love are pretty vulnerable but over the years they do learn that life and love are pretty complex and we just have to keep moving on.

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Mahadevan Venkitaraman

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Why would I commit suicide because someone else stops loving me? That someone is not worth me if she stops loving me. That is because I am also full of love and what I can learn is she is afraid of committing due to some reason and so she is not worth me. I know that I am capable of being caring, compassionate, gentle, tender, understanding and loving and also I am capable of being with the person whom I love, being present and available to the person whom I love and the person who respects these qualities in me will find love blooming with me. If someone stops loving me, that person is not interested in the love, caring, gentleness, tenderness and understanding in me. If I am in love, I am not only receiving love but radiating love also to that person. But I have no control over that person understanding my love. If she leaves me, someone will take that place. If a door closes, another big door opens for me.

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Piu Chatterjee

@Transference

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Suicide is a very strong term and those who commit suicide have multitude of reasons which ranges from rash judgement to impulsiveness and finally sometimes due to frequent bouts of CLINICAL DEPRESSION...
However ,I cannot judge the amount of tremendous pressure or reason which drives a spurned lover to suicide.Life is a gift and love naturally happens if we give it a chance the next time.Nit being loved does not mean the end of the world .Life always gives second chances so one should actually think and breathe before taking that drastic step.Is it really worth it??
REGARDS
Piu

Edited by manzilmukul - 12 years ago

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Fatima

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

I have physically harmed myself before and wanted to "die" when I was 15 because I felt the guy I loved did not love me back. Now at 24 when I look back at it I think my self harming had nothing to do with the guy. It had to do with my state of life. I was lonely, I had my so called best friends but the relationships were kind of empty. My dad had a huge fight with his family and separated from them. He also had no job. We were under some serious financial stress. Add that to every other tiny stressful things that a teenage girl goes through and that guy was the best thing in my life at that moment. He was the reason I smiled, he made me laugh, he made me want to look forward to tomorrow so the thought of him not loving me back made me feel like I had nothing else to live for.

I know I was 15 and Gia was about 30 but I feel suicides are still the same whether they say it is for a guy or not. Although I did not watch Gia in her season of the Bachelor I did watch her in the two seasons of Bachelor Pad and she often seemed fragile to me. Things would get to her and would often hurt her emotionally. She would trust people and then fall apart. She actually walked out of the show after having a meltdown because she felt betrayed by her friend on a he said she said matter that wasn't even that serious. I know these reality shows often scripted but if the real life Gia was anything like the Bachelor Pad Gia then this girl also depended on the people she trusted for happiness. I often feel people who commit suicide over celebrities are also the same way. It bothers me when people just pass it off as harmful effects of obsession but I think there suicides have nothing to do with the object of obsession or affection. It just has to do with their life. Usually they feel unhappy, or empty. They look for things to make them happy, they rely on those things to give them a reason to move forward, it becomes their strength and I can see how someone can just give up if she feels she has been disappointed by too many thing, or too many people.