MEN ARE ACCIDENTAL AND WOMEN ARE ELEMENTAL

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Men are accidental and women are elemental .MAINLY BV IS THE STORY OF ANANDI AND JAGDISH. ANANDI is depicted as an ideal type.---an ideal bahu and an ideal patni. Her roots go deep. She is superior to any other character... compassionate --- viewing the problem from others point of view...tender hearted...sympathetic towards others feelings...huge love towards humanity[some may object for this attribute.]YES!! She is elemental---forgiving others misdeeds just like EARTH[kshamaya dharitri]bubbly... chirpy full of life ...spreading happiness ...just like AIR-----here and there every where...in her village- in her house---she convinced others to change their attitude[when ever it is necessary] ----she tried her best to improve the lives of the villagers ...and of course the lives of her own family members time and again...she worked as an undercurrent to make things move fast towards women empowerment. YES "at times she questioned the age old traditions...which are deterrent to the improvement of the society...fought with the mighty tyrants to protect the downtrodden women and children and financially weaker sections. Anandi is the embodiment of all the elements---embodiment of a standard. Compassion and consciousness in the final degree are one and the same.--- YES! Men are pioneering ...creative but forceful and physically powerful[THIS POINT IS DEBATABLE] I freely admit that my experience is limited...I could be right or wrong. Basically men are a little bit possessive [the main reason behind wars and personal attacks!!!] a little bit selfish ...they know how to share but they are a little bit averse to care . Jagiya is a pampered kid-- then spoiled brat --arrogant male with high self esteem...but emotionally dependent...egocentric but with clouded intelligence.He emotionally attached to Anandi..at all stages in all circumustances.Anandi is his weakness as well as his great strength too.That is the paradox in their relationship.

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There are so many'' IFS AND BUTS'' in this Anandi-- Jaggiya story. Had Anandi not sent J to Mumbai, there would not have been any separation between the two. They would have lived happily ever after... but it was not to be. If J's relation with G were accepted by his family and if they were allowed to liv with them...then that would have been curtains for Anandi in haveli...she would have gone back to her parents house to pursue her studies in order to march forward in her life. Then the story would have taken a different course.. Only because of some twists in the story...J&A were separated physically but attached mentally-- DEPENDED ON EACH OTHER EMOTIONALLY.!!! She saved him - he saved her - later he crushed her dreams-she went into seclusion-he wanted her back - she wanted to move forward- Who is responsible for this hiatus? Anandi's LOVE and TRUST were insulted by J. She engaged herself in the upliftment of the villagers...in that process met Shiv -a big turn in her life. IF everything goes well in people's lives, there will be no story to be told. DEVDAS and PARU though separated were mentally attached to each other. After marriage of Paru if they never met again there wouldn't have been any further story. I think it is a unique relation between them . BUT now the BV story lost its charm because of so many reasons which people have been expressing time and again. We were too much attached to this BV till Feb end...!! But now we have so many doubts---so much confusion --frustration...we are unable to connect with the characters any more. but are watching the serial just to see what they are going to do further to Anandi's character.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SEETHA.K

Men are accidental and women are elemental .MAINLY BV IS THE STORY OF ANANDI AND JAGDISH. ANANDI is depicted as an ideal type.---an ideal bahu and an ideal patni. Her roots go deep. She is superior to any other character... compassionate --- viewing the problem from others point of view...tender hearted...sympathetic towards others feelings...huge love towards humanity[some may object for this attribute.]YES!! She is elemental---forgiving others misdeeds just like EARTH[kshamaya dharitri]bubbly... chirpy full of life ...spreading happiness ...just like AIR-----here and there every where...in her village- in her house---she convinced others to change their attitude[when ever it is necessary] ----she tried her best to improve the lives of the villagers ...and of course the lives of her own family members time and again...she worked as an undercurrent to make things move fast towards women empowerment. YES "at times she questioned the age old traditions...which are deterrent to the improvement of the society...fought with the mighty tyrants to protect the downtrodden women and children and financially weaker sections. Anandi is the embodiment of all the elements---embodiment of a standard. Compassion and consciousness in the final degree are one and the same.--- YES! Men are pioneering ...creative but forceful and physically powerful[THIS POINT IS DEBATABLE] I freely admit that my experience is limited...I could be right or wrong. Basically men are a little bit possessive [the main reason behind wars and personal attacks!!!] a little bit selfish ...they know how to share but they are a little bit averse to care . Jagiya is a pampered kid-- then spoiled brat --arrogant male with high self esteem...but emotionally dependent...egocentric but with clouded intelligence.He emotionally attached to Anandi..at all stages in all circumustances.Anandi is his weakness as well as his great strength too.That is the paradox in their relationship.


If behind every successful man there is a woman, then shouldn't this also factor in, that behind every failure of a man is a woman? Wouldn't it be safe to say that behind Jagya being pampered, spoilt arrogant brat, there are women. The same elemental women you describe.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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For how long will Jagya be considered an arrogant and spoiled brat? I bet when he dies and during his last rites, people on this forum will still be saying "sari zindahi arrogant spoiled brat hi raha...dependent on Anandi..." I don't see how he's dependent on Anandi now, or how she is his weakness...now he's just trying to please everyone...keep everyone happy...eesh.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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And why are men accidental. Don't they have a role to play. Aren't there negative and positive personalities in both genders. Why make it a gender war.
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Yes! the elemental force behind Jagdish in the initial stage it was Dsa- the fire part... though she pampered him to the extent of spoiling him...she has taken care of him too. She is the only person who told him that some mistakes are unpardonable ...later she tried her best to rectify those mistakes----but some of them were irrevocable blunders .-Alas! By that time Jaggia was already on the wrong path. Fire wil lgive you the light...the guiding force but if you put yourself in that fire you have to lose everything!!!! You need to have some wisdom to realise what is good and what is not.YES she spoiled him --but her love is unconditional.@dear picasso9: please don't ask about Sanchi's elemental force!!!!😕😈😡😲 This will be my reaction!!
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Originally posted by: yanks28

For how long will Jagya be considered an arrogant and spoiled brat? I bet when he dies and during his last rites, people on this forum will still be saying "sari zindahi arrogant spoiled brat hi raha...dependent on Anandi..." I don't see how he's dependent on Anandi now, or how she is his weakness...now he's just trying to please everyone...keep everyone happy...eesh.

Dear friend, only few minutes back I was in depression again! I have seen that episode [in MAA TV] in which Jaggia averted Anandi to come to MUMBAI --talking from Versova beach and revealed his love to her ---and told her that there is no love between them ever blah ...blah and lost my temper and shouted at my husband'' You people are deceiving us like this since centuries...when are you going to realise the real worth of a woman's love...His expression was😕''NO ...NO I NEVER DID ALL THOSE THINGS TO ANYBODY.If I did any thing wrong in my previous birth please😳''
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Originally posted by: SEETHA.K

Yes! the elemental force behind Jagdish in the initial stage it was Dsa- the fire part...though she pampered him to the extent of spoiling him...she has taken care of him too. She is the only person who told him that some mistakes are unpardonable ...later she tried her best to rectify those mistakes----but some of them were irrevocable blunders .-Alas! By that time Jaggiawas already on the wrong path.Fire wil lgive you the light...the guiding force but if you put yourself in that fire you have to lose everything!!!!You need tohavesome wisdomto realise what isgood and what is not.YES she spoiled him --but her love is unconditional.@dear picasso9: please don't ask about Sanchi's elemental force!!!!😲This will be my reaction!!



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No really Seetha. Lets have a fun version of what you think Saanchi's element is.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i would like hear about Saanchi's elemental force too😆
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

i would like hear about Saanchi's elemental force too😆

Standing on a volcanic eruption...with high speed of--.tempest like wind storm...associated with...catastrophic affect on not so cool headed viewers!!!!!

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