Is your frndship real?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Before anyone comes to conclusions, I just had a little thing to ask to all of LRL'ians:

Is your frndship real with everyone of us?

It is more related in respect to LRL..we saw six people holding diff backgrounds met in academy for a purpose..in midst became good frnds and went on to become best frnds..some shared a special rapport with one of the mates and so the other.

Bt one major bhargav easily crackened their frndship..when on the other hand u claim to be best of frnds then why make the cracks open..u can sort it out within without others being bothered.

I have one question - in frndship I know fights/tiffs/arguments are part and parcel bt are we able enough to come over it and accept our mistakes with theirs and start a new course..

In this midway how do u think LRL has helped to believe in urself and ur frndship? And how do we promise each other tht we are "real frnds"?

I know its strenuous bt put your thinking caps on and start..my views are reserved till now..

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hi Resham,
I dint understand why nobody replied...
but I think LRL has helped me a lot...
In my life many things were happening which I had no control of.... many ppl thought I was wrong and they had a gala time bitching about me (in college).... but I stood by and now they are the ones who come to me with their problems....

I hav become stronger and more responsible after watching the show...

and yes.... my inspiration... Capt Rajveer.... its like I can relate to him completely


and oh Friendships are something which can become stronger in these times... I found my best friend at this time..... so Im glad this actually happened 😳😳

thanx a lot for posting this thread

luv
kanak
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Posted: 18 years ago
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a real friend is someone who doesnt say anything but still says it all.. i mean i would know if my friend is really my friend in that way.. if you have to constntly tell someone that you're there for them..then its not real.. in my school for example.. everybody.. or more or less everyone comes to me for help or fun or cheering up or problems or something.

but you know how i know who my real friends are? they dont ask me for any help.. they are just there..
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: tere_bin

Hi Resham,
I dint understand why nobody replied...
but I think LRL has helped me a lot...
In my life many things were happening which I had no control of.... many ppl thought I was wrong and they had a gala time bitching about me (in college).... but I stood by and now they are the ones who come to me with their problems....

I hav become stronger and more responsible after watching the show...

and yes.... my inspiration... Capt Rajveer.... its like I can relate to him completely


and oh Friendships are something which can become stronger in these times... I found my best friend at this time..... so Im glad this actually happened 😳😳

thanx a lot for posting this thread

luv
kanak

Even I dont understand kanak, why noone replied here..seems not interested..😭

bt anyways as far as I m concerned I have fought with many bt true frnds were there who were silently observing me and just saying to me tht they r here for me..😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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😕

Originally posted by: resham_tam

Before anyone comes to conclusions, I just had a little thing to ask to all of LRL'ians:

Is your frndship real with everyone of us?

It is more related in respect to LRL..we saw six people holding diff backgrounds met in academy for a purpose..in midst became good frnds and went on to become best frnds..some shared a special rapport with one of the mates and so the other.

Bt one major bhargav easily crackened their frndship..when on the other hand u claim to be best of frnds then why make the cracks open..u can sort it out within without others being bothered.

I have one question - in frndship I know fights/tiffs/arguments are part and parcel bt are we able enough to come over it and accept our mistakes with theirs and start a new course..

In this midway how do u think LRL has helped to believe in urself and ur frndship? And how do we promise each other tht we are "real frnds"?

I know its strenuous bt put your thinking caps on and start..my views are reserved till now..

accepting mistakes in friendship is not easy....and many friendships break because of the ego issues. but true friendship stays on...it can never break because it doesn't allow a grain of doubt to crop up in it.

i haven't experienced true friendship till now though...i thought i did when recently i had to give up on my 17-yr old friendship tie...because i had to satisfy my self-respect. it was too much for me to reconcile everytime...even though it wasn't my mistake most of the time. 😊

bygones are bygones...and i am already ready for new beginnings!!😳

trust is imp but it shud come from both sides...efforts should be a balanced one. 😊

LRL has shown a true scenario of friendship ties....it happens often in real time.😳

Frankly speaking LRL hasn't influenced me till now in terms of friendship😕😳

but it does show reality very closely...😳

hope i didn't bore anyone.😳😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: drymaple

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accepting mistakes in friendship is not easy....and many friendships break because of the ego issues. but true friendship stays on...it can never break because it doesn't allow a grain of doubt to crop up in it.

i haven't experienced true friendship till now though...i thought i did when recently i had to give up on my 17-yr old friendship tie...because i had to satisfy my self-respect. it was too much for me to reconcile everytime...even though it wasn't my mistake most of the time. 😊

bygones are bygones...and i am already ready for new beginnings!!😳

trust is imp but it shud come from both sides...efforts should be a balanced one. 😊

LRL has shown a true scenario of friendship ties....it happens often in real time.😳

Frankly speaking LRL hasn't influenced me till now in terms of friendship😕😳

but it does show reality very closely...😳

hope i didn't bore anyone.😳😆

loved wht ever u said dear...👏

and no it didnt bore..😆

and even for me LRL is yet to influence me..bt whtever I saw in the show thru bhargav was in real too..😳it can happn tht some bhargav turns out in our real life and affects the bonds of frndship..😭

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: resham_tam

Even I dont understand kanak, why noone replied here..seems not interested..😭

bt anyways as far as I m concerned I have fought with many bt true frnds were there who were silently observing me and just saying to me tht they r here for me..😳


Yes, I realized that just some days ago 😳

luv
kanak
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: resham_tam

loved wht ever u said dear...👏

and no it didnt bore..😆

and even for me LRL is yet to influence me..bt whtever I saw in the show thru bhargav was in real too..😳it can happn tht some bhargav turns out in our real life and affects the bonds of frndship..😭


Thats so sad Devu,
Hope u r over it now.... if not... dont forget u hav a shoulder here 😳

anyways...
what Bhargav did was actually make the cadets realize their own worth... friendships are there to stay but it showed how their little differences can create huge problems...
but the best thing that came out was Naina and Alekh's friendship which wasnt at all there before this....
I got a friend too ..... who stood beside me even when nobody was around...
so I think I hav learned a little if not a lot 😆😆😆

luv
kanak
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: resham_tam

loved wht ever u said dear...👏

and no it didnt bore..😆

and even for me LRL is yet to influence me..bt whtever I saw in the show thru bhargav was in real too..😳it can happn tht some bhargav turns out in our real life and affects the bonds of frndship..😭

agree😆 ppl like bhargav are scattered everywhere...but it just needs one alekh to defeat 100 bhargavs😳😳😳 i love alekh😳😳 mujhe yeh kya ho gaya hai😳😆

loved this topic resham!👏

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Posted: 18 years ago
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hi resham..... it's a very nive topic..i have learnt a lot from lrl....the characters, the story, everything.... i have learnt that watever maybe the problem, if we believe in ourselves and dat if we no dat we our correct, we sud stand up for our rights and oppose injustice.... if we're not harming anyone and if our conscience is clear, den we shud watever we feel is right...and if dere's nething which we're doing wrong, God id there 2 help us and guide us...
also dat friendship doesn't mean only staying wid someone or studying wid someone....it means dat u have a person, a friend along with whom u can be urself and in whom u can totally confide into....
dese r d main thins dat i've learnt from lrl and i'm really thankful and glad for dis.... 😳

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