14 days Vanvaas by Sooraj- What it means to SURYA

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Now let us see what this break up means to SURYA. SURYA relationship has been almost on a standstill from the time Sandhya's dream has been revealed. In their effort to convince Bhabo they forgot about themselves. It stood at a point where it was in Singapore. They know they both love each other and are willing to stand for each other. When they went to Ajmer they were always looking over their shoulders as they were hiding the night college thing. They never had any free time or relaxed time in which they could discuss about themselves. After night college fiasco it was matkas all the way.

Now everything is cleared. It has been decided completely by Sooraj that Sandhya will become IPS and nobody even Bhabo cannot stop it. When they are moving out now they don't have anything to hide. Whatever conditions Bhabo has kept on Sandhya she has met that. Sooraj knows about all the EA done on his wife and all the lies, hiding etc between them has been resolved. Now SURYA are much a relieved couple and they can turn their attention to themselves in this 15 days.

So what does this 15 days hold for them. For one thing Sandhya will learn to manage a house on her own. Second thing is that she knows only she is there with Sooraj. Sooraj has come out of the family with the full faith that she will support him no matter what. So she will definitely try to make him happy by showing her care. Then there is a big myth between SURYA. Sandhya thinks parivaar is most important to Sooraj , hence by keeping the parivaar happy Sooraj will be happy. Sooraj thinks Sandhya's ultimate happiness is in becoming IPS and only by making her IPS he will become a good husband. Already CVs are giving hints that both Sooraj and Sandhya has crossed those barriers. And in moving out of RM with Sandhya Sooraj has enforced who holds the important position in his life.

But at this point they have not really confessed their real priorities and these 15 days will help them to break their myths. Sandhya will be the happiest in the world to know that she is Sooraj's strength. With her beside him, no matter what he has the confidence that he can conquer the world. Her presence in his life is more important to him than the parivaar. Sandhya already has put Sooraj on a pedestal. She will add 4-5 steps to it once she knows it. Sooraj will be thrilled and on cloud nine when he knows he is the king of her hearts. He is her life and IPS is just part of that life. This knowledge will make him love and support her more. Thus this 15 day period will make SURYA realize by making each other their first priorities they are actually getting all their dreams fulfilled.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Lovely Post.

This 15 days means a world of their own...where they can build their small little nest, live their lives, and watch their dreams take shape, without thinking about others who have brought so much misery in their lives.

Only I wish CVs did not put the 15-day clause. 15-day is too short a time for Surya, and the viewers. Because Bhabo will be her true self once they come back. I doubt she will change so quickly. In fact, she will make her last ditch effort with vengenace as her back is against the wall now.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post Shruthi. However I am unable to share the euphoria in the forum. Why I say so

1. SurYa will end up wasting Rs.50000 of their hard earned money to live separately for 15 days.

2. Nobody can learn house management in 15 days.

3. Unless Bhabo knows about Suraj knowing about LC she will never accept IPS wholeheartedly. Suraj left the house because he wanted to make his mother realize how low she has stooped. How can anyone repent when they do not know what they are guilty of... Even Bhabasa does not know Suraj knows. Unless in these 15 days they show that revelation this separation is pointless.

4.When you know the other person will definitely return in 15 days, neither Vikram nor Mohit nor Meena are going to be perturbed or exhibit change.

5.After Sandhya decided to win the quiz both Suraj and Sandhya know what they mean to each other, this separation for such a short time is not going to achieve anything great.

So to conclude they should either reveal to Bhabo that Suraj knows about LC or make the separation longer to feel the emotional and financial pinch of not having SurYa around. Unless that is done throwing a challenge to Bhabo to compel her to call them back because of her motherly instinct defeats the purpose of leaving the house as that is unlikely to melt Bhabo's heart towards IPS. Life will continue to be difficult for Sandhya afterwards as she grapples with the guilt of deserting the family a point Bhabo won't allow her to forget easily.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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everyone bother of Jeet Ji , they have Not realised of Mis Deeds Yet

Still they Did not find their misBehaviour at Sandhya , Only Chavi is feeling Guilty , Vikram and others are Not Guilty they are Not ready to take Suraj Responsibilities and Not worried Much of him , they are only Bothering of Family Expenses , None are at Guilty

So it Takes time for them to realise its the Result of Treating sandhya as Outsider


I dont think 15 Days is enough for them to realise their MisBehaviour at Sandhya and Suraj

want them to know the Value of money , respect , Life and Most Importantly .. will be Happy only then 😊


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Good topic. I just scan through DABH and so didn't realise that the separation is only for 14 days. 14 days is just too less. No one will learn any lesson. I know CVs will show Sandhya and Suraj upset and all but hey these 14 days should be more like the honeymoon they didn't have:-)
Also, even the Singapore trip must have been longer than that.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Umaji I dont know, but I strongly feel SURYA will not return to RM. I mean the relationships might mend but Sooraj might decide to stay seperate to keep relationships that way. Mostly like the end of the tamil movie " Samsaram oru Minsaram" . This 15 days might be just for Bhabo to accept Sandhya as her DIL. This is my strong feeling.
In that way SURYA will be available to RP but still they will have the independence and Bhabo will know where her limit is.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well written Shruthi. I hope SurYa do embrace this time away in a positive way. From the spoilers, I am getting a sinking feeling that Sandhya may project herself to be awful at housework so that Suraj returns home to Bhabho, thinking that he would be miserable without her! I really hope this does not happen.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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14 days is not long enough. Bhabo will not learn neither will the brats and Meena. The bills won't be paid for 15 days as the others' pockets are only as shallow as they are. The separation should be a lot longer for it to have any positive and lasting effect.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Deebz what I feel is that Sandhya will fail miserably at household things. Rather than delibrately she will flunk in that area. She has not done it alone. Each time she fails her desperation will grow and she will feel she can never be a good wife to Sooraj. There was a time Sooraj felt he can never be a good husband to Sandhya. It is her turn now. Sooraj will try to support her, but her feeling of failure will be desperate. Add to that Bhabo's words she can never be a good wife and bahu will add more guilt to her.
See Sandhya is a woman used only to victories, it is not easy for her to handle defeat in any department. So she has to go through this phase of failure in managing household, learn to handle defeat in a mature way and she will do that finally with Sooraj's help. Just like Sooraj believed Sandhya was not happy with him. Sandhya will also go through a similar phase when she fails in household tasks. Just like it took Sooraj time and a traumatic incident to understand that Sandhya wants to be his wife no matter what and have accepted him as such, Sandhya will also learn that Sooraj loves and accepts her the way she is even with her failures. This is a phase in their relationship and it needs to be shown realistically. It will not be mush mush romance in GG room. 😃😃😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Brilliant analysis of SoorYa's 14days exile..

I dunno why but i am not able to generate positive vibes for some real growth in SoorYa's relationship.🤔

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