Why do men have extra marital affairs

Sometimes it makes me wonder why men have extra marital affairs?

Now that we know that Jai was duped in by Pia but what if it was not so....Then the questions is why a man would leave a wife like Bani to go after another girl.

One of my American friends husbnad left her for a younger girl and she was all upset about WHY? So what do you guys think..Men leave because :

They are looking for new challenge (as they already know all about their wives)

Do their wives make their life so hell that they need some solace elsewhere.

OR

Many times girls are easily available for them to have an affair.

The thing I told my friend was there is nothing wrong with you..it is the girl who is ready to have an affair with a married man and break his family.

Men are not that strong..if a woman decides that she is not interested in a marreid man then can marriages break.

I don't know why some men have extra marital affairs. But most men don't have.

its a gud question but i dont think anyone has the real answer to it becuz everyone has diffrent reasons

Its not only guys that have affairs, girls have them too.

I think that each situation is different and that we can't judge a person that has an affair unless you know the whole story.

-Rimpy

watch NO ENTRY 😉 😉 😉 very true ...

Men are not the only ones to have affairs. Ekta usually never shows her actresses having affairs because she wants to portray them as "mahan"

And anyways, there is no answer to this question... very open ended.

-Pari

Originally posted by: lovanika

Sometimes it makes me wonder why men have extra marital affairs?

Now that we know that Jai was duped in by Pia but what if it was not so....Then the questions is why a man would leave a wife like Bani to go after another girl.

One of my American friends husbnad left her for a younger girl and she was all upset about WHY? So what do you guys think..Men leave because :

They are looking for new challenge (as they already know all about their wives)

Do their wives make their life so hell that they need some solace elsewhere.

OR

Many times girls are easily available for them to have an affair.

The thing I told my friend was there is nothing wrong with you..it is the girl who is ready to have an affair with a married man and break his family.

Men are not that strong..if a woman decides that she is not interested in a marreid man then can marriages break.

Lovanika,

One really cant say why men have affairs, maybe because it shows their manliness, or ones powers as still being sexy, wanted , etc.

I do agree with you, that if the woman in question does not fall for married men or give them a time of their day they would be less broken marriages because of EMA.

But then there are females too who have EMA too.

A very go question but no definite answer.

Love

Krishna

are you serious? man.. it is basic human complexity not credited to men only... basic reasons will the hidden dissatisfaction in the present married life... as usual couple do adjustment with each other and hide their some desires or taste away jus to keep the harmony of life... or some may even is like that they want changes... whatever it is when they happened to cross it somewhere they hit it off.. but then it is sure that will not remain forever... only marriages based on strong bonds will remain..

I don't know about other people. But I definitely know why Jai Walia did it (if he did).

1) He thought his wife wanted to divorce him.
2) He believed his wife aborted his child.
3) He was DRUNK, people!!

He was totally lonely and when that stupid Pia tried to seduce him, he succumbed because he was totally lonely.

ZAHRA

P.S. I am not sure whether JW is did anything or not. Some people are saying that he knocked out or something like that.

I agree with zahra in jai's case but in real world also they r somany cases like these yar.I dont think only men should be blamed women r also equally responsible.Fault is on both sides.