Bani..a good mother or not??obser:31/1

hey hi all,

as my topic suggest my question is .......is Bani an Ideal mother or not????

she has signed the papers which means she has transfered her rights to Pia and her baby...

though her's is the ligitimate child....she has given Pia's baby equal rights..not only in monitory terms...but also to share a father's right.....though it is upto jai whom he considers his own.....legally now Pia;s child will be called a Walia...

is this another mahanata act on bani's part proving to be a mahan woman but equally bad mother....if i can say so...as i believe no mother can be bad when it comes to her own child.....

or is bani a true and ideal mother as jai had said on 26th August.....she has the integrity and self esteem which Pia lacks.....

as she said she do not need anyone's support to raise her kid. she doesnot need money property or Jai walia's name to give her child a suitable life....

she would create a whole new world for her baby where noone would dare question her motherhood......

as a woman i think highly of this lady......its a tough decision for a woman to refuse its father's name without caring for what world would think of her...and especially when the child is ligitimate and rightfully deserves everything good......i have seen many single parents raising their children superbly without making the child wonder about the other parent.......will bani prove to be that good??????

here question arises whether it would be fair on the child's part to be raised fatherless when he has an able father who would turn world upside down for its happiness....???.

would it be fair when its step brother/sister would get to enjoy the luxuries of life and most importantly its right as a walia son....and may be its father's love??

would it be fair for it to live life like an orphan though its mother is best in the whole world....wouldnt it miss the firm support of a father????

whats up with Repto now??? as far as my information goes she was given rights to call her child ligitimate but does that make her jai walia's wife as well?

has rashi's confession changed Bani's mind even a bit??? atleast now she would listen to jai???

Jai Walia let me down today......flat on floor!!!

whats up with this man?? why is he still listening to Pia and her calls??? even after knowing how low pia can stoop to get rid of bani......

why did he come to temple?? did he expected repto to act mediator and solve their problems???

why didnt he utter a single word when pia stormed in...showing everyone papers which bani signed.....????

why couldnt he simply throw her out.....an ideal way to teach pia a lesson and let everyone and bani know that he hates her and she holds no place whatso ever in his space????

he has wasted a golden opportunity today........

Originally posted by: himali_kokate

he has wasted a golden opportunity today........

Himali... Where have you been? If Bani can decide life JW should lead, who knows what future this baby has... No she cannot be a good mother..

If JW can cash all oppurtunities he has wasted since ONS , he would be billionare by now..😆 Actualy he hasn't wasted any oppurtunuty to kiss that reptile on the forehead every time.😡

I somehow feel Bani will not seperate Jai from her child, once he knows about it..She is too compassionate to do so, if she is heartbroken to see the lifestyle Jai was living out of Walia Mansion, then she wouldn't be able to bear seeing him not having a right on their child...

She is a good mother, because I feel money is not only want a child needs, compassion and care is what a child requires for a healthy upbringing, Pia may have a lot of wealth and attain legitimacy of her child, but I don't expect her to shower care and love on her child...plus, as you said, even if Pia's child is legitimate, it's Jai who will decide who he will consider legitimate, or may be both of them...

I guess Jai feels he can't kick Pia out, or do anything to her, since he thinks she is carrying his child...

keep smiling...
Love
Soni

Hey Himali,

Bani would make an ideal mother. Anyone who cannot see that well he is blind.
She signed the papers given by Pia. Anyone call this her mahanta act. I for one think it was good.
The bond of Jai-Bani is too strong for the scum and garbage to break anyways.
And I am glad the stage is being set for Bani to leave the mad house.
Now, to become a good mother you do not need a money or property to raise a child. You need to nuture and take care of your child with love and affection.
I strongly believe Bani is more than capable in doing that.
Bani will make a great mother.....

And Jai wasting opportunity...I am postive the man is one step ahead in this game....

Keep Smiling,
Happiness Always,
Manish

If JW can cash all oppurtunities he has wasted since ONS , he would be billionare by now.. Actualy he hasn't wasted any oppurtunuty to kiss that reptile on the forehead every time.

😆
thats true

And so on top of extra marital affairs, ONSs, sisters betraying sisters, we now have Ekta advocating single motherhood. Perhaps she should talk to the kids of single parents before showing something like this on TV where her audience includes young impressionable women. The creatives before spewing dialogue about women able to raise kids without support, should first talk to those kids. Most of those kids have severe mental issues, and alot end up drug addicts and worse.

For those of us blessed with two parents, we cant begin to comprehend the agony a child with a single parent goes through, especially when the single parenthood is by choice.

Sorry, but Bani doesn't deserve any sympathy for not fighting for her kid's rights. And even though she is a mother, what gives her the right to deprive her child of its father's love? Where are the father's rights in all this? Regardless of what we may think of Jai, he at least deserves the right to know he is a father.

soni,
thats what worries me most..
jai's mood swing makes me wonder if he is pregnant..
at times he doesnt care if pia and her tadpole is live or not and sometimes he stuns me doing exactly ulta...

dont know what he has on his mind or has he lost it altogether???

Now, to become a good mother you do not need a money or property to raise a child. You need to nuture and take care of your child with love and affection.
I strongly believe Bani is more than capable in doing that.

manish,
i agree to some point.
but robbing ur child off its basic rights and donating them to one who doesnt deserve it hardly makes bani look sensible

Himali,

I personally feel Bani will make a very good mother...but she needs Jai to fill in for what she lacks..
She is a caring and compassionate...which the child will get from here..she is smart and will be able to raise her child adequately and with the right values.

But truthfully no child deserves to grow with just one parent. And this is where we need Jai.

Personally I am let down by both JB. Bani knows what all she had to go through when Jai signed some similar papers without reading them...and trusting his family.
She makes the same mistake... but out of anger...

And why did Jai not kick Pia out today...or say something...what wrong with him? I had so much expectation from this guys...I am feeling very down about how this is being handled...

Rivya

Sorry, but Bani doesn't deserve any sympathy for not fighting for her kid's rights. And even though she is a mother, what gives her the right to deprive her child of its father's love? Where are the father's rights in all this? Regardless of what we may think of Jai, he at least deserves the right to know he is a father.

exactly my point.
she may be a mahan woman but as a mother she has failed in some way.. 😕