Originally posted by: ashpat
I think jalak was/is in awe of her but i think he is saying he wants to clip his wings etc to adham or MA etc bec he does not want to show that he is impressed or attracted towards her. bec apparently he does not have "dil".
he told jodha that he wants to clip his wings etc bec his male ego got hurt and felt rejected that when he heard that jodha did not want to be near him. so just to satisfy his ego and break jodha's pride he said that he hates her and wants to destroy her life etc. Earlier he used to find excuses to touch her or go near her bec he liked teasing her and intimidating her specially when he knew she married for her family sake; but she never said it out loud and clear. now when she got ready to bow down to ruqaiya on condition that ruq keeps jalal away from him specially it was like a last straw. Bec he knows how much pride jodha has and just to keep jalal away she was willing to bow down. and she had an audacity that to tell to his so called fav. begum" ruq". that's like double insult for him and his ego.
this is what i feel why he said about cutting her wings etc. i don't if it makes sense or helps at all.
It does make sense and does help, thanks!! đ I feel silly that it never occurred to me that he doesn't mean what he says, lol. I did realize that whatever he says to MA/AK is strategic and not genuine, which is why I thought his comments about crushing her spirit 'came from nowhere.' I was confused when that sort of explanation was picked up again recently by Jalal himself, but I think you're completely right that even when he says it to Jodha it's not the full truth that he hates her. And of course now that she's standing up to him and annoying him all the time, his hurt pride would start to actually make him feel like he wants to destroy her life in return đ˛
Originally posted by: Stargirl06
Isn't it obvious? He does not hate her. He says he hates her. Because he is confused. Confused why he is so riled up with her rejection. When it comes to jodha, he is always confused. His reaction to Jodha was more like a little boy irritated, " So, you don't like me, guess what, I also hate you." This guys cannot handle rejection well. Jodha rejects his gifts, burns his wedding present, refuses to come sing, rejects his amorous advances. He is a guy annoyed with a hurt ego. He said he hates Jodha before his own tender reaction to Jodha becomes obvious. The idea of I will dump her, before she dumps me.
You are so right!! I don't know why I didn't find it obvious, haha đł. I guess just like we're supposed to believe Jalal convinced Jodha with his fierceness, Rajat's acting did convince me that he meant all the stuff about marrying her because he hated her and wanted to crush her đ