When I watched Fri epi both on the internet and telly, that was my exact beef as to why Mahadev had to be shown almost to the point of interrupting Raam-Sita milan, consequently reducing their milan to the minimum. Balance is the name of the game whether for a mytho, or regular serial or a b'wood movie or anything in life for that matter. My instant reaction was of imbalance. Granted that we were anxious for the milan, but that did not in any way make us feel the way we did about Mahadev's unnecessary intrusion, regardless of whether we are new or old viewers.
I had been wanting to express my feelings but held back as we, rather I have come into the serial much late and was not sure if my sentiments would touch many sensitive nerves. Turns out that's what happened. No offence Deboleena but I have a feeling my sentiments echo similar reaction from at least few other members like Angie, new or old.