I love you???

All the time in discussions we always get back to the same point, JW has never said "i love you" to bani.

I just wanted to ask you guys rather understand it if i may say so.

What does I love you actually mean?

Because i think i got the wrong idea of it so just wanted to ask you guys what "I love you" actually means?

and oh yeah one more thing can someone tell me whoever said "Actions speak louder than words" because i would like to go tell him/her that he/she is wrong and as proof have the famous JB jodi.

I am really looking forward to knowing what you guys think "i love you" means, i really want to know. and i am like dead serious as serious as me saying i love JW and hate the dixit sisters.

Thanks,

Shina

Shina,

I would love to say a lot (because I have a strong opinion on this) but I really have a lot of crap to do for tommorow and it is 11:45 and haven't started!

So really quickly,

Jai Walia loves Bani and Bani loves Jai but I wish that was enough. If loving each other was enough then Ekta wouldn't be able to make any shows as there would be no problems. It is the other factors that come into a relationship that show how strong a love is. There are many things important in a loving relationship. And one of the toppers on this list is trust. The one thing that Jai and Bani believe they have in the other but neither of them trust each other enough.

Bani pretended to hate Jai and made her hate him. He ended up believing her and well we know what happened after that.

Jai is making Bani hate him now. And this time Bani seems to be the one falling in this trap now.

I don't know if Jai needs to say I love you or not but it never hurts. And anyways I want to see what Bani would do once he says I love you.

And one main difference between Jaigiri and Banigiri is that during Jaigiri, Bani saw Jai kiss Pia with her own eyes. She heard him admit it himself that Pia's baby is his!

In Banigiri, Jai believed her only through words.

Until they build their trusts again for each other, they won't be happy together.

-Pari

PS: Damn, I blabbered a bunch of nonsense... o well its totally off topic but I tried!

Shina,

I 've never thought that the three words "I love you" are soemthing great, because if somebody is truly in love with somebody, he will never confine all his love to the three most commonly used words"I love you". There are so many other ways one can express his love. I've told this before in one of MT's Q and A sessions.I would prefer all the "tough to grasp" dialogs that they use in KS rather than "I love you" which every Tom Dick and Harry uses.! 😃

shina,
may be i am too young to comprehend word'love'
it has depth of all seven seas somewhere we mortals cant reach with our limitations.

i personaly wouldnt have loved jai walia bouncing up and down on couch ala Tom Cruise cause he fell in love.

he is 40+ mature man who better be sure of his feelings first. there was growing attraction between jai and bani thanks to all JDD moments but none of them were sure its love.there was more sympathy in their relationship than love at any time.

jai walia sympathised with bani for facing his wrath for absolutely no fault of hers.
bani walia sympathised with jai cause she witnessed his pain and hurt when pia eloped.

if you dont start bashing me here, 19th june had very little to do with love, it was more of attraction on jai's part atleast.

their love for each other was aparent only when park road raaz revealed in most unusual circumstances. jai's frustration in seeing hurt and despice in bani's eyes made it clear that he indeed loved her.
she on her part forgave him then and there, and chose death with him than life without him.

both their actions were too prominent to understand how much they loved. there was absolutely no need for jai to mouth his feelings.bani knew he loved her and it was not a compromise when he was there for her in every possible difficulty.

their sense of losing each other told them their true feelings..and as long as they know about what they feel for each other..heck with world.

shina, sorry for rambling on so much. 😳

i love you are the three most commonly used words. i mean you say it to your friends to people you barely know to get out a favour, to your parents, siblings and to the special someone.

the point im trying to make is that it is not neccessary to say it all the while but at times and occasionally it is important. you might knw that some1 loves you, their actions may prove the same but at times your belief in it is not complete till the person says it upfront.

saying it just shows that you care. but as someone said in this thread more than love, trust is important. something Bani and Jai seriously lack! even those three words arent enough if the trust and belief in each other is not there.

i thnk ive blabered enough...and i can go on and on...
but i shall stop...
nice topic shina!

Shina,

Lovely post dear and yes I too donot understand why are the words necessary, especaially between people who love each other so much, have the tendency to speak through their eyes and actions.

Bani never ever thought that Ji never loved her, pre confession. She always beleived that he loved her and his past with her sister being his first choice never came in to her mind at all.

In the same way Jai was in the beginning confused about his feelings for her as he never understood the storng feelings that he had for Bnai was more then love, it was above it.

Thus post ONS Bani was verbal being a female thats understandable and Jai being a male was not verbal but loved her too his acceptance of her with out any objections at all.

The only thing that marred his telling or stopped him from showing his feelings fully was his guilt for his biggest mistake taking Pia with him to Dubai.

Thus even after the whole Pia drama and his confesion, when Jia and Bani are togehter opposite each other, you can still see the love they have for each other in their eyes. The want and remorse in Jias the question in Banis.

Love
Krishna