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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: CGBSSI

I hope i am allowed to share my views here,,, and before saying anything here i would like to clarify tht i am a fan of sanaya,, bcoz i hav noticed tht one negative comment abt her n u r termed as a hater,, lately i hav stopped commenting here regularly,,, but today after watching JDJ i couldnt stop myself from mentioning a thing which is whirling in my mind ,,,

i felt sanaya could hav avoided correcting Remo abt the pronunciation of Drashti's name,, IMO,, tht was out of topic,, it was completely not required,, Drashti has been there since 2 months,, if she was ok with tht,, if Salman didn take any initiation to correct him,, so what was the need for Sanaya to point out such an irrelevant thing ,, tht too on screen,, as soon as i heard tht,, i myself got embarrassed

,,its not abt not getting intimidated by the celebs or not believing in buttering or false praises,,, there are so many other important things to talk abt when u r given an opportunity to share a stage like JDJ,,, if she really wanted to make across tht point,, she could hav done tht off screen,,

and another thing which i found weird was tht when she interrupted Drashti when she was speaking abt their past memories,,and starting to interact with Karan,, y ppl everytime say tht she is just like tht,,, she is a chatterbox,, she could hav let her complete first and then continue with what she wanted to say,,

i know ppl will say tht they r good frnds,,, it is a very normal thing between two good pals,, but it is essential to adapt urself acc to the situation u r currently in,,, tht was not an SBS or SBB interview ,,

And lastly,, Sanaya Irani is a normal human being with her own set of flaws n short comings,,, just like u and me,,,Let her be like tht,, it really irks when some ppl acknowledge her as flawless ,,, Only God can be this perfect to be called as flawless,,


Respect your pt. of view ...all I will say is that take all the " fun segments" in reality shows with a pinch of salt , a lot of these are scripted , why did she say ...when did she say etc , we have no ways of knowing wheather it was spontaneous or scripted .
This " flawless thing " has been going on in the forum for too long , i always thought , it had something to do with how she looks as , she very seldom has a bad day looks wise 😊 but maybe I am wrong.

Ofcourse , sanaya is a normal human being with her own set of flaws and weaknesses just like all of us ...she has a set personality and WILL react to situations accordingly. I am also getting very tired with ppl constantly commenting on " how she should behave " ...and this is a general comment , their are too many posts on how anuj should behave , how sanaya should give an interview and react etc.
celibrities are grown up ppl and react as per their own personalities , we can chose to like or dislike them based on the same ...

You know what , I loved the gold awards segment and the jdj segment yesterday and had a huge smile on my face ...and then came to IF 😆 ...sometimes I think we here micro scruitinize things too much and all joy gets lost , just my opinion.

I am a sanaya fan too and quite regular in the CC forum , I sincerely hope I didn't pounce at you and called you a hater.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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😊 No u didn pounce on me Guinea,, and i respect tht fact tht u did contradict me but politely,,
I did not mean to offend anyone here,, and if i did,, a sincere apology,, just wanted to say tht I am a big Sanaya fan,, but i do not appreciate some things abt her,,, i end up criticizing her a lot,, but something is there in her which compels me to hold on to her always,,

Anyways,, i would take care tht i do not come up with such points here henceforth,,,
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: CGBSSI

😊 No u didn pounce on me Guinea,, and i respect tht fact tht u did contradict me but politely,,
I did not mean to offend anyone here,, and if i did,, a sincere apology,, just wanted to say tht I am a big Sanaya fan,, but i do not appreciate some things abt her,,, i end up criticizing her a lot,, but something is there in her which compels me to hold on to her always,,

Anyways,, i would take care tht i do not come up with such points here henceforth,,,


Sorry , you misunderstood me ...you did not offend me atall , it is your call to appreciate or not appreciate her ...and I didn't mean to contradict you per se , it was a general comment . I hope I didn't dissuade you to come to the forum often ...Do come , you write so well and it will be nice to interact with you.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: CGBSSI

I hope i am allowed to share my views here,,, and before saying anything here i would like to clarify tht i am a fan of sanaya,, bcoz i hav noticed tht one negative comment abt her n u r termed as a hater,, lately i hav stopped commenting here regularly,,, but today after watching JDJ i couldnt stop myself from mentioning a thing which is whirling in my mind ,,,

i felt sanaya could hav avoided correcting Remo abt the pronunciation of Drashti's name,, IMO,, tht was out of topic,, it was completely not required,, Drashti has been there since 2 months,, if she was ok with tht,, if Salman didn take any initiation to correct him,, so what was the need for Sanaya to point out such an irrelevant thing ,, tht too on screen,, as soon as i heard tht,, i myself got embarrassed

,,its not abt not getting intimidated by the celebs or not believing in buttering or false praises,,, there are so many other important things to talk abt when u r given an opportunity to share a stage like JDJ,,, if she really wanted to make across tht point,, she could hav done tht off screen,,

and another thing which i found weird was tht when she interrupted Drashti when she was speaking abt their past memories,,and starting to interact with Karan,, y ppl everytime say tht she is just like tht,,, she is a chatterbox,, she could hav let her complete first and then continue with what she wanted to say,,

i know ppl will say tht they r good frnds,,, it is a very normal thing between two good pals,, but it is essential to adapt urself acc to the situation u r currently in,,, tht was not an SBS or SBB interview ,,

And lastly,, Sanaya Irani is a normal human being with her own set of flaws n short comings,,, just like u and me,,,Let her be like tht,, it really irks when some ppl acknowledge her as flawless ,,, Only God can be this perfect to be called as flawless,,


each to his or her own i guess..
for me i do call her flawless.. yes maybe not literally..but well i love that girl so much.. and when we love we tend to love everything about a person.. in any case I am grown up enough to know that no1 is perfect..but maybe for me Sanaya is less flawed than many.. or actually her personality is very compatible with my own and I find it easier to relate to her and appreciate her for the same..
Also her ethereal beauty is one major reason we call her flawless..

Well just a fact... Sanaya correcting DD's name.. I guess she knows just how annoying it is.. Many people call her Saniya, even when they announce her name at an awards show she has won and is about a take the trophy for. From her 1st ITA award to last year's PC awards.. And trust me people getting ur name wrong every freaking time could really annoy a person.. Mine is Sunara, and considering its quite a rare name people mess it a lot and I smile and put up with it most of the time if I was not gonna meet that person again n it wouldn't matter..but once in a while an unsuspecting stranger may face my wrath due to accumulated annoyance.. I guess i kinda was happy with what she did..its what best friends do in my world.. we take the right to talk and defend on behalf of the other for granted.. (am talking only about best friends..not just friends here)

and well about using her time there well.. umm in reality shows u shoot a lot and then the editing guy decides which parts to be shown.. and i honestly was waiting to see a bit more of the parts shown on SBS etc but it didn't happen in the actual show.. so we cannot judge how much hours or mins for that matter she got and she used it in a certain way..so..
in any case well it seems she had been itching to tell it for weeks on weeks watching from the looks of it and well she acted according to the way i kinda expected her to be.. as u said Sanaya has certain personality traits which u find problematic and which i find worthy of appreciation.. so as i said each to his or her own..

um.. that interrupting DD.. ya she did damn i wished she didn't.. nah not cz i didn't love what she said to KJo. But I so wanted to listen to a bit more of their cute fun days together at the beginning.. but then while the camera panned to KJo and Madhuri both San and DD spoke and DD cut across Sanaya and said 'We will break the record' and Sanaya broke in mid sentence..
And i thought both incidents were the same and very normal.. u speak in crazy random with ur bestie.. and unlike most as neither of them have many inhibitions being very outgoing well..i guess they r not very different on camera as off it..

anyway don't mean to say u r wrong.. just that a person's own personality will decide if they find compatibility with another's and thus approval or disapproval may happen...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: CGBSSI

I hope i am allowed to share my views here,,, and before saying anything here i would like to clarify tht i am a fan of sanaya,, bcoz i hav noticed tht one negative comment abt her n u r termed as a hater,, lately i hav stopped commenting here regularly,,, but today after watching JDJ i couldnt stop myself from mentioning a thing which is whirling in my mind ,,,

i felt sanaya could hav avoided correcting Remo abt the pronunciation of Drashti's name,, IMO,, tht was out of topic,, it was completely not required,, Drashti has been there since 2 months,, if she was ok with tht,, if Salman didn take any initiation to correct him,, so what was the need for Sanaya to point out such an irrelevant thing ,, tht too on screen,, as soon as i heard tht,, i myself got embarrassed

,,its not abt not getting intimidated by the celebs or not believing in buttering or false praises,,, there are so many other important things to talk abt when u r given an opportunity to share a stage like JDJ,,, if she really wanted to make across tht point,, she could hav done tht off screen,,

and another thing which i found weird was tht when she interrupted Drashti when she was speaking abt their past memories,,and starting to interact with Karan,, y ppl everytime say tht she is just like tht,,, she is a chatterbox,, she could hav let her complete first and then continue with what she wanted to say,,

i know ppl will say tht they r good frnds,,, it is a very normal thing between two good pals,, but it is essential to adapt urself acc to the situation u r currently in,,, tht was not an SBS or SBB interview ,,

And lastly,, Sanaya Irani is a normal human being with her own set of flaws n short comings,,, just like u and me,,,Let her be like tht,, it really irks when some ppl acknowledge her as flawless ,,, Only God can be this perfect to be called as flawless,,

Agree. And nicely written.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I guess when u put 2 bubbly chatterboxes-cum BFFs in d same frame,it's natural they will cut eac other so as to talk more!:D so,I don't think v should take that seriously, to outsiders it may seem as rudeness bt m sure DD is well-acquainted with sanz to even notice that. As for the remo case,ya it was out-of-context,could have been done off-camera but then that's our view. Sanaya has certain personality traits and flaws like all of us. But then she is a mature woman,fully capable of analysing her own behaviour and v should not dictate her. All i got to know after watching welcome and other offscreen segments is that sanaya has a good heart and that's y ppl love her inspite of her domineering ways!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: CGBSSI

I hope i am allowed to share my views here,,, and before saying anything here i would like to clarify tht i am a fan of sanaya,, bcoz i hav noticed tht one negative comment abt her n u r termed as a hater,, lately i hav stopped commenting here regularly,,, but today after watching JDJ i couldnt stop myself from mentioning a thing which is whirling in my mind ,,,

i felt sanaya could hav avoided correcting Remo abt the pronunciation of Drashti's name,, IMO,, tht was out of topic,, it was completely not required,, Drashti has been there since 2 months,, if she was ok with tht,, if Salman didn take any initiation to correct him,, so what was the need for Sanaya to point out such an irrelevant thing ,, tht too on screen,, as soon as i heard tht,, i myself got embarrassed

,,its not abt not getting intimidated by the celebs or not believing in buttering or false praises,,, there are so many other important things to talk abt when u r given an opportunity to share a stage like JDJ,,, if she really wanted to make across tht point,, she could hav done tht off screen,,

and another thing which i found weird was tht when she interrupted Drashti when she was speaking abt their past memories,,and starting to interact with Karan,, y ppl everytime say tht she is just like tht,,, she is a chatterbox,, she could hav let her complete first and then continue with what she wanted to say,,

i know ppl will say tht they r good frnds,,, it is a very normal thing between two good pals,, but it is essential to adapt urself acc to the situation u r currently in,,, tht was not an SBS or SBB interview ,,

And lastly,, Sanaya Irani is a normal human being with her own set of flaws n short comings,,, just like u and me,,,Let her be like tht,, it really irks when some ppl acknowledge her as flawless ,,, Only God can be this perfect to be called as flawless,,





My dear you are right about most of the things, but there is another side to it as well,
Number one she did not correct remo sir, she made a point in general to correct everyone not just one person or two. Even though for very obvious reasons dhrashti and salman were ok with it but you wouldn't like it if I give you a name that is a mispronounced form of your actual name, to me my name is my identity and I don't allow people to mess with it.
Secondly there was a lot that gets deleted right from the direction, production to a show's actual telecast on air, and you and I don't know if her remark was in answer to something else being said before by k jo, not only the remark but the whole scene was heavily edited.
Thirdly I for one don't think or say that she is flawless actually most of us find Sanaya's craziness ( a flaw) quite adorable.
I guess that might satisfy all your objections.
Edited by dididumb - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Interesting discussion here ... I see both sides have their POVs which are not wrong ...
I did notice that DD got embarrassed when Sanz corrected her name ... on the other hand I sympathise because my real name is very difficult for most non-Indians to pronounce ... when I was younger and less confident, I used to smile when they mispronounced it and let it pass ... now I make it a point to correct them politely but firmly and make them repeat it if necessary ... most people appreciate it because they are genuinely unfamiliar with the name and they never take offence. I do the same when I meet new people with unfamiliar names ... I repeat their names and ask if I got it right ... one's name is one's identity and it is nice to be addressed correctly. Again, we really don't know what happened in the entire segment, what was edited and what was kept in and why Sanaya said so ... plus she didn't address Remo directly, she made a general remark ... for all we know, DD might have grumbled about this to SI as they are good friends, and SI just pointed it out because she knew it bugged DD.

Again regarding cutting DD's words ... they are very good friends, and I don't think DD would have minded ... Sanaya is brash and bold and very self-confident, and doesn't really bother about what people think about her ... she reminds me of Kajol in that respect ... yes, some people can take offence, but I don't think DD would be one of them. Should she have done so ... opinions may differ on that, and that's ok. I would have liked to hear more about their friendship, but I guess that was not the right platform.

Nope, Sanaya is not flawless ... no human being is perfect. And you are perfectly at liberty to point out what you want, CGBSSI ... you did it very politely and nicely ... no one sensible will take offence ...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I'm a huge Sanaya fan but have to admit that sometimes when she says something, for a split second my heart drops and I think OMG what did she just say but the thing is that's only because I would never have the guts to say the stuff she does. A second later I am in awe of her again for being so forthright and straightforward and wishing that I had the self confidence to put my point of view across so fearlessly.
Perhaps the name comment could have been done another time but we don't know the back story or how the show has been edited. The one thing though that's undeniable is that Sanaya sticks up for her friends and I doubt if she even gave it a seconds thought who she was speaking to...what an awesome friend to have. I too would have liked to hear more about Sanz and DD's friendship but I doubt DD even gave a second thought to Sanz interrupting, it was just a spontaneous reaction. It was obviously on her mind since she heard KJo say it and just came out when the topic turned to friendship. That's the appeal of Sanaya Irani, that she's such a real person with character flaws like the rest of us and she's not afraid to expose those flaws unlike most people in the public eye.
By the way my interpretation of the flawless moniker relates to her flawless outer beauty and her beautiful heart that makes her feed a stray before she herself eats or makes her shed tears for other people who are about to lose their jobs.
Personally I think on hearing that DD and Sanz have been friends for 7 years and are obviously still such great friends despite being at the top of their profession Karan's remark about we'll see in 2 years time was the one that was uncalled for.
I read something the other day where Sanz said she's here to be an actress and not a star and it's so true because that'e exactly how she's living her life.
Edited by jaya100 - 12 years ago

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