Betrayal from all, Support from none.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Is there any other character on television who has been betrayed by every single relationship he has ever held dear?

His father who left him for another family, and indirectly caused his mother's death.

His "massi" (St. Billo) who allowed his own to deceive and swindle him, allowed him to fall to pieces while thinking his wife had aborted his child out of spite. Without a thought she disowned him and threw him out of his own house, not once stopping to think that she should know "her son" better.

Pushkar, his protge and surrogate son whose entire future was "savaar"-ed by Jai, and who returned the favour by running off with his fianc on his wedding day, not caring how it would hurt his feelings and reputation.

Roshni, his fianc who chose her career over him and only came back to blackmail and torture him for a crime he had never committed.

Pia, a girl he loved despite her arrogance, and whose sisters he gave a home and jobs to, despite barely knowing them. I don't need to elaborate on her behaviour any further post-ONS do I?!!

Jigyasa, his sister he raised as a daughter who has done nothing but try and ensure he remains alone and in pain for the rest of his life. She has tried her level best to bankrupt him and blackmail him, and has only stopped short of actually murdering him because she is afraid of the consequences. I used to think maybe she did love her brother but just had a funny way of showing it – but that theory died a long time ago!!

Ranveer, he may be good now, but before Raashi he stopped at nothing to take Walia Industries into his own hands.

Sahil, who despite being a total nikamma and immature fool, was given both praise and responsibility by his mama. He supported him when he wanted to marry Rano and treated him like his own son. In return Sahil shamelessly blackmailed his uncle and even enjoyed doing so!

Aditya, while not doing anything negative, has also failed to do anything positive for months. Since his one attempt at finding out the truth about the ONS he has been pretty useless, and his inaction can also be seen to some extent, as a betrayal.

Tarun, almost the worst betrayal of all. This childhood friend today proved the adage "with friends like these who needs enemies". Despite hearing first-hand from Jai about the ONS he has made no attempt to find out the real truth. In fact, he is too busy propping Bani up, goading her to hate him. Is it too much to expect that your best friend might try and understand you? Or that they at least would not actively seek to destroy you without knowing the full truth of the matter? He knew the truth of the divorce saga from Bani – but he kept it hidden from Jai too. Who should he have been more loyal to? His best friend? Or a woman he met 5 minutes ago and barely knows at all?! His skunk-ish behaviour disgusts me almost as much as St. Billo's. (sorry Sangs, last time, I promise!!)

And then we come to Bani. I understand that she is hurt. I see why she wants to hate him, why she wants to throw him out of her heart and life. But what disappoints me is her expectation of faith from Jai, and her own lack of faith in him. She remembers the hateful words, she remembers the lies, but far outweighing all of that is the amount of times Jai told her he loved her, and that she was his soulmate. Far outweighing his apparent betrayal is his faith in her during the alimony saga, and the way he unquestioningly believed her and took her back on KC night in Dubai despite all the apparent reasons not to. Why didn't she remember that? Isn't that too a betrayal of sorts – even though it is the only one which I have some sympathy for?

A couple of weeks back Rano used a line for Bani which really made me feel sad for her. "Na aapko aapka suhaag raas aaya, nahi aapka khoon." (or something to that effect…)

It's heart-breaking to see that apply to Jai too. Because he has no-one by his side to help him through all of this.

Bani has Krishna on the way, someone to live for and a chance at finding happiness through him/her.

Jai doesn't even have that. 😭

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Posted: 18 years ago
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But Cordy,
He is not alone yaar.
Pia want him so desperately and of course don't forget mera baccha. 😉
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Aww... Cordy don't be sad at all.

Jai has all of us, who are better then those GFN 's in his life, don't you agree!!!??!! 😉😃

Bani in my opinion does not belong to be in the hit list at all, or grouped with those GFN's.

Bani has seen and heard him declaring Pia's child as his and, him kissing her on the forhead, was the nail on the coffin.

Then he uses the harshest words to degrade her completely making her lose her self esteem completley and even brings along Pia😡 and goes about hugging that Reptile (sorry Sangs, couldn't help myself), and proposing marriage too.😡

Thus, what is Bani supposed to beleive???? She beleives what she say especially the kiss on the forhead where Pia acts thats she is dying and his emotional declaration of Pias child being his.

I really cant fault Bani in all this, as in the update when Tarun pull her dupatta, and breaks the braclet she gave Jai it says that sh was so shocked and sad.

So this proves beyond a reason of a doubt that she still loves him a lot.

Love
Krishna

Edited by kubare - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Cordy,
Very well penned. But when you talk of Bani, yaar, when did Buddha ever tell her that he loved her. Did I miss that episode where he said "Bani, I LOVE you"?

I agree that they need to talk but those GFN's are always butting in where they don't belong. Buddha undoubtably deserves a chance to explain himself but what "truth" will he explain when the man himself doesn't know that he was drugged nor does he remember pulling his pants down that night. 😕

Secondly, about Bani, please keep in mind the following:

1. When she didn't suspect him and we were all cribbing about her naivety, she did catch them hugging multiple times;

2. When she did suspect him, he left their bed at night (remember him fetching Reptile her medicine and the one time Reptile pulled him in her room) and when she questioned him, the chap scolded her for same;

3. He bought Reptile a cellphone with a private number. The same number which Reptile repeatedly called him in the PRESENCE of Bani;

4. She asked him and he clearly denied same...all because of Rano ofcourse.;

5. She found their hotel bill;

6. But above all else, she heard the "confession" from the horses mouth....do you recall...."I can lose everything but not mera baccha....MERA BACCHA...MERA BACCHA!"

7. Buddha's kiss on the forehead (that was intentionally thrown in by the kreatives for Bani's viewing);

8. Now please don't get me started on those beautiful words he uttered to her...thereby stripping her of whatever little self-esteem she have have still had... all ofcourse in the name of love to get her out of zombie state (by the way, it was Krishna that got her out of that state);

9. What's the status of that divorce ?????

10. And to top it all off, Reptile glamorized a ONS as a full blown EMA. Remember the beautiful fairytale she sprouted to her SISTER.

Keeping all of the aforementioned in mind, can you tell me which woman (sane or insane) wouldn't be insecure and whose faith wouldn't falter???

Before the Jai brigade come at me, let me clarify that I'm not bashing him here but simply pointing out some facts. I do agree that they need to talk, but Ekta will not allow it so soon.

Haan actions speak louder than words but on the same note, his actions post ONS and kissing Reptile on the forehead and claiming "mera baccha" sends a clear message also...doesn't it??? When her faith didn't falther post ONS...though all of the signs were there, we cribbed about how stupid and naive she was and how trustworthy...and now we're cribbing because.........
I agree that they need to talk but who's allowing them to do so???

Edited by kajolfan - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Oh Cordy...honey you have a way with words...no wonder you are in your profession (which I just found out a few days back)

Every word you wrote is so true...we can definitely add to the list of things people did wrong to him...But somehow having Bani in the list pains me..
I am an ardent JB believer/follower. I agree that Bani should have shown some trust...but truth be told, if I were told that my husband cheated on me and that too I have seen him numerous times in compromising position with the other women, his having denied my constant questioning about "another" woman, I too would behave in the same way. I just hope there is no Tarun to instigate me.

Rani (kajolfan) in another topic listed 10 points as to why in this particular scenario Bani's behaviour is acceptable.

But otherwise...I feel that all the other GFN non-walias need to be alienated...maybe thats what JB should do after the reconciliation...throw everyone out (including Tony...you missed him in your list) and live happily just by themselves and the little people they make...awww...that would be nice...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hey Chaitali,

There is a saying in the world, "What goes around, comes around."

So Jai is facing the samething what Bani faced in the intial period of their marriage. If Jai has been betrayed by every relationship then the rule also applies to Bani.

We know that Jai Walia is innocent and in time all will come to know the truth. But the fact will always remain that he was with Pia the night of the ONS. Agreed she drugged him but then that will not change.

Bani has been also betrayed by all her relationships. She has lived her life for her sisters and Jai Walia. And what has she got to show for it?

Some may say she brought it on herself. But I will say that she did what she thought was right because people who think with their heart rather than mind often end up alone. Same has happened to Jai and Bani.

See Tarun is definitely upto something and he is not a negative character but the shift is strange for me. But then again, he definitely has a ace up his sleeves.

Well, I am not sure anymore if the intended leap is happening or not. But one thing is for sure that Bani-Jai working together will only do all of us good.

Maybe through work and immense misunderstanding Jai-Bani will rediscover themselves and fall in love all over again.

What if Jai-Bani are in this together like how they both exposed Jiggs in front of everyone? What if Bani wants Pia to confess from her own mouth that the ONS is not happening?

What if Tarun is the point man to create a confusion between the couple?

Too high hopes for a Ekta Mayi serial....

But Chaitali, whether you agree or not both are alone and this loneliness and the memory of what they once shared together will bring them closer.

Do you really think Jai Walia is going to let Bani go anywhere and once he comes to know that Bani is pregnant then he will do everything in his power to get her back.

As for Pia the less said the better.

Keep Smiling,
Happiness Always,
Manish
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: kajolfan

Cordy,
Very well penned. But when you talk of Bani, yaar, when did Buddha ever tell her that he loved her. Did I miss that episode where he said "Bani, I LOVE you"?

I agree that they need to talk but those GFN's are always butting in where they don't belong. Buddha undoubtably deserves a chance to explain himself but what "truth" will he explain when the man himself doesn't know that he was drugged nor does he remember pulling his pants down that night. 😕

Secondly, about Bani, please keep in mind the following:

1. When she didn't suspect him and we were all cribbing about her naivety, she did catch them hugging multiple times;

2. When she did suspect him, he left their bed at night (remember him fetching Reptile her medicine and the one time Reptile pulled him in her room) and when she questioned him, the chap scolded her for same;

3. He bought Reptile a cellphone with a private number. The same number which Reptile repeatedly called him in the PRESENCE of Bani;

4. She asked him and he clearly denied same...all because of Rano ofcourse.;

5. She found their hotel bill;

6. But above all else, she heard the "confession" from the horses mouth....do you recall...."I can lose everything but not mera baccha....MERA BACCHA...MERA BACCHA!"

7. Buddha's kiss on the forehead (that was intentionally thrown in by the kreatives for Bani's viewing);

8. Now please don't get me started on those beautiful words he uttered to her...thereby stripping her of whatever little self-esteem she have have still had... all ofcourse in the name of love to get her out of zombie state (by the way, it was Krishna that got her out of that state);

9. What's the status of that divorce ?????

10. And to top it all off, Reptile glamorized a ONS as a full blown EMA. Remember the beautiful fairytale she sprouted to her SISTER.

Keeping all of the aforementioned in mind, can you tell me which woman (sane or insane) wouldn't be insecure and whose faith wouldn't falter???

Before the Jai brigade come at me, let me clarify that I'm not bashing him here but simply pointing out some facts. I do agree that they need to talk, but Ekta will not allow it so soon.

Haan actions speak louder than words but on the same note, his actions post ONS and kissing Reptile on the forehead and claiming "mera baccha" sends a clear message also...doesn't it??? When her faith didn't falther post ONS...though all of the signs were there, we cribbed about how stupid and naive she was and how trustworthy...and now we're cribbing because.........
I agree that they need to talk but who's allowing them to do so???

I just mentioned your 10 point list in my other post...hehe

I do completely agree with you...can you permanently add my 11th point though? the one about Pia's evidence to save Jai from going to jail?

Rivs

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Cordy,

Nicely said

I would write more but i am at my university pretending to study😕

My only sentiment for KS right now is I want to kill everyone(leaving JW may be BD(to torture her more😆), and one of the vamps).

Shina

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Posted: 18 years ago
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if someone's life was being driven from the back seat then it is jai walia's...from his child he was a victim of destiny... i don't understand why karuna wait, and for what?

is she waiting to get DNS report and playing with pushkar? then only she can completely redeem jai walia.. and she is with tarun in that to get bani back to normal or just to hold her there... i wish this will be the case...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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cordy...

Nicely penned.....capyured JW state very well.

I hav only one thing to say:

JW u dont worry we all are there for u anyday anytime.

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