Who wish to slap Aastha?

i will be the first one....to do this good deed....who would do that....a mother who took care of her for 18 years...and suddenly she got to know that..that's not her mother ......is just so stupid they are showing........

i really wish to slap....Aastha.....she pisses me off so much....simaran is the one who doesnt say anything..at all....she is also.....omg.......

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i do........she needs to grow up.

Oh wow !! everyone is complaining that Simran took care of Aastha for 18 years and why she is behaving bad with her but do ppl realize that what Simran is doing to hurt her, by telling others that she found her REAL daughter Aastha "meri beti Aastha i.e: Sia",and specially in front of Aastha.
Could'nt anyone see that how sad Simran is feeling after leaving his father alone and everyone wants Aastha to live together with "Nanu" but what about her real Nani Radhaji????????? nobody thinks about her that how she spent life without her only granddaughter.Simran is really selfish for all her relations, she never care about others point of views.
And Abhi, always hugging Sia for every single thing but when Aastha came from her grandparents house to take Abhi-Simran ,they never bother to give her some love or hugs....Abhi-Simran showed Aastha so many times that they care for Sia more.For me Abhi is really a puppet in Simran's hand.

I do !!!! I have had enough of her silly , self absorbed tantrums and her lack of manners, respect or gratitude.I have a daughter the same age as astha and I cant even dream of her talking to me like this, she never would no matter how hurt she is, theres something called respect for elders in our culture. You can never predict the future but god forbid if my daughter ever acted like that i would'nt know what to do,life the way that i know it would cease for me and i would feel like dying really. Astha is wrong but Simran is even MORE wrong to take all this from her, she is failing in her duty as a mother, a mother checks a child when he/she is wrong and shows them the right way, just turning a deaf ear and blind eye to everything astha is saying and doing is not the solution.

Well said Peacestead!!Agreed!!!No mother shud be taking that kinda thing from their kids!!!

I can empathise with Astha! She had all the attention pouring on her and then suddenly Sia turns up and everyone is all ga-ga over Sia (and Simran was even trying to look for astha in divya, sia's friend earlier). I think that Simaran never fully accepted Astha...

To shower one with love because of a feeling of responsibility or because of a need to do the right things is different from a love that comes internally. And kids can sense a difference.

Anyway to continue, in a split second all that attention is taken away from Astha. Soon after astha learns about all the lies.... Simran hid that astha was neha's daughter understandably BUT after seeing Astha's reaction about the lies, she should have known better.

However she continued her lying ways - whether it was about Radha or Kiran or that Sia was her sister and abhimanyu was in town. Such continous lies coupled with the divided attention, Astha turned up the way she has.

And top it all, Sid also gives his whole hearted love to Sia...

Put yourselves in Astha's shoes.... its not easy dealing with the things that she is dealing with.

In my opinion, Simran should have given astha some space and time alone with abhi to sort things out and calm herself down. With Simran always around, Astha can feel suffocated....

GIVE ASTHA SOME SPACE!!! and NOT SLAPS.

I think that upto some extent Astha and Simran both need to be blamed.
Simran took care of her but really spoiled her and didn't told her the reality.
Astha on the other hand is not able to understand Simran, why she is not blaming Abhi her dad after reading her mom's diary in which she has also mentioned Abhi's mistakes. She is not able to understand Simran in 18 yrs. She is just like Neha, only thing is that Neha use to keep quite and suffer.
I think by bringing back Kiran they are just dragging the show.

I think Aastha, Abhi and Simran all need some good counsilling. Abhi and Simran need to drastically improve their parenting skills and need to take Aastha into confidence and talk to her like a mature adult. If nobody is willing to do this, no doubt Aastha will find comfort in Kiran's company. Becoz she feels only Kiran is treating her with respect and understanding (though these are all fake on Kiran's part) That girl just needs some attention and the need to open up with somebody.

thanku guyzz for replyin..well i dont like AASTHA...so i thought i should share this with u guyz....but asnyways thanks.... 😉

I am certainly not in favour of slapping Astha "left,right and centre" as many have suggested.She needs to be reprimanded and one does not use physical or corporal means to correct a troubled child.Astha is not a typical obstinate teenager,the one who defies for effect or to be 'in' with peers.She has been exposed to some harsh realities and unfortunately No One understands her.
Simran is still dwelling in the guilt that she did not tell Astha about her true identity.She loves Astha and is being patient because she feels only patience will bring them closer.Her views are still idealistic. Unintentionally,perhaps,but she has still not realised that what Astha needs is extra attention, more demonstration of confidence, participation in family decisions.Simply stopping everyone from shouting at her is not going to help.
Now she is showing blind faith,which is again wrong.
I firmly believe that in any relationship,there should be trust,but one shouldn't be blind to the loved one's weaknesses.Especially Parents have to be a little "clever" and play Sherlock Homes in their children's lives.I don't mean a nagging detective but they have to keep their ears to the ground.

Our Young members are going to hate me for this and all parents may not agree.But these are my views...

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